興奮するThat you be gentlemanly with me, that you treat me like a princess and a naughty girl at the same time, that we be intimate and passionate with each other. Hard but loving sex turns me on.
興奮しないI don't turn on that you don't care what I like and what I don't like. That you don't treat me like a queen and that you want to be tough and rude with me without trying to be a little gentleman at first.