LoriEla

My name is Lori, I am 34 years old and I am from Polan

 she is charming as much as she is dangerous, this woman is impulse, energy and excitement. looks like a winner, even if she fails. no matter what they do to her, she looks straight into her eyes. her lips are wild honey mixed with hot spices, character - a little bit of a witch, a little bit of a lady, (they look at you and their heart sinks into their heels, everything is as happens in the best laws of tragicomedies) I am interested in learning languages, cinematography, musical instruments and spending time with friends. Since yong, I have been interested in different languages.

 I am learning English, German and French and my goal is to become fluent in them. I believe that learning languages helps you broaden your horizons and communicate with people from all over the world. However, here aresome effective methods that can help you learn a new language:

 1. Immerse yourself: Surround yourself with the language as much as possible. Watch movies, TV shows, or listen to music in the target language. This will help you get familiar with the pronunciation, vocabulary, and sentence structure.

 2. Take a language course: Enroll in a language course, either online or in-person. A structured course can provide you with a solid foundation in grammar, vocabulary, and pronunciation. It also gives you the opportunity to practice speaking with a teacher and fellow classmates.

 3. Practice speaking: Speaking the language regularly is crucial for improving your fluency. Find language exchange partners, join conversation groups, or hire a tutor to practice speaking with. Practicing speaking will help you gain confidence and improve your pronunciation. 4. 

Use language-learning apps and websites: There are numerous language-learning apps and websites available that provide interactive lessons, vocabulary exercises, and language practice. Some popular ones include Duolingo, Babbel, and Memrise. 

5. Read and listen to the language: Start with simple texts and gradually increase the difficulty level as you progress. Reading books, newspapers, or online articles in the target language can help you improve your vocabulary and comprehension. Listening to podcasts, audiobooks, or radio programs in the language will also train your ears to understand spoken language. 

6. Use flashcards and mnemonic devices: Flashcards are a useful tool for memorizing vocabulary. You can create physical flashcards or use digital flashcard apps like Anki or Quizlet. Mnemonic devices, such as creating associations or visual images for new words, can also help with memory retention. 

7. Practice regularly: Consistency is key when learning a new language. Set aside regular study time each day or week, even if it's just a few minutes. The more you practice, the quicker you will progress.

 8. Travel or live in a country where the language is spoken: Immersing yourself in the language by living or traveling to a country where it is spoken natively can greatly accelerate your learning. Being surrounded by native speakers will give you constant exposure to the language and opportunities to practice in real-life situations. Remember, learning a new language takes time and dedication. Be patient with yourself, stay motivated, and enjoy the process of discovering a new language and culture. The best way to learn a new language can vary depending on individual preferences and learning styles. There is another love language. ⠀ Presence. 

⠀ I am. I'm here. All of me. ⠀ None of the five love languages described by Gary Chapman have ever fully suited me. It was always “a little different.” Now, finally, I was able to formulate mine. ⠀ Love language is how we show love. And then in what form we expect it in response. These five languages include: words of encouragement, time, gifts, help and touch. And the irony is that if your (main, maybe 2-3 in total) love language is “time”, and your partner’s is “help”, then... it’s easy to guess, both will sincerely consider themselves unloved. Even if both love with all their souls. ⠀ Gary Chapman's theory is brilliant. But I never found my love language in her. There was something missing in everyone, everything was important, but NOT key. It was possible without all this, but without one thing, it was fundamentally impossible. ⠀ 

And it was precisely PRESENCE. ⠀ You don’t have to encourage me, you don’t have to spend free time with me, you don’t have to give me gifts, don’t help or touch me, I can cope without all this if it’s important - the realization that you ARE. Near. Even if not physically. ⠀ This is how my clients feel: they know that I AM. This is how I feel about people. ⠀ “I am in your life” - for me this is the best proof of love. Now I’m talking not so much about the love of a manand a womanl, but about the state itself - love. You probably have a boyfriend or girlfriend who lives a thousand kilometers away, you rarely text or call each other, you don’t always see eye to eye, you don’t send each other gifts for the holidays and, logically, you don’t hug. BUT! You know that she or he exists! Always when you need or need it. I can count on you! You are in my foundation, in my support, even when I don’t rely on you. ⠀ This is exactly how I see love. I am. I am near, even if I am physically far away. If you need me, I can arrive at 3 am. I can fly to the other end of the earth. It’s not difficult for me if the one I love needs it. ⠀

 I may not agree with you, I may even scold you, challenge you, I may not devote time to you (as much as you want), I may not give gifts, not hug, and so on. But I will always be if I love. And I will always protect you from the whole world. And from yourself, if necessary. I will conquer the dragon if it threatens you. And when I’m physically close, I’ll turn off the phone, turn it face down, and I’ll be all here, in the conversation, in you and your eyes. I will help you heal any wound, teach you to be strong, and speak Chinese. I'll help you build a shuttle if you need it. 

⠀ My beloved does not have to be pleasing to me, that’s probably the most important thing. When I love, I respect a person’s sacred right to be who HE is. And not the way I would be comfortable for him to be. ⠀ I'm not trying to adjust or bend people to suit me. This is unconditional love. No illusions. Real. To a person. And not to your plan to change it. ⠀ You don't have to be the same to love each other. It is enough for both to respect their differences and the freedom of the other to be themselves. And not “a convenient appendage of a couple.” ⠀ There are not so many close and beloved people in our lives, because in principle there cannot be many of them. According to science - up to 7 people. In fact, on the fingers of both hands. And with all these people in my life, this is exactly the relationship. I always know how they are doing and how they feel. You don't even need to call or write to do this. But if they need something from me, I’m always there, nearby. ⠀ And I always will. And then when they are right, and then when they are wrong. Because my love is not tied to circumstances, it simply is. But once it ends, it ends forever. And I can agree, devote time and praise, but I won’t be around. Even if I stand opposite. ⠀ I love as best I can: sincerely and with all my soul. I am a very sociable womanso I love making new friends and talking to people. I enjoy discussing various topics and listening to other people's opinions. I actively participate in various collective events and social events. Thanks to my openness and sociability, I often find a common language with people and easily enter into conversations. I am always ready to support people and will gladly help if needed. Connecting with people helps me develop and grow, as well as create meaningful and deep connections in my life. Hobbies play a significant role in our lives, allowing us to pursue activities we are passionate about and find joy in. They provide a break from our daily routines and offer a space for creativity, relaxation, and personal growth. Personally, I have always found solace and fulfillment in engaging with my hobbies.