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BDSM
The word BDSM intrigues, makes you smile, sometimes embarrasses you a little — but above all it arouses curiosity. Behind these four letters hides a whole universe of games, sensations, and above all consent. The acronym brings together several erotic practices: Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission, Sadism & Masochism.
It is the buzzword for anything related to erotic games involving a form of control, power exchange, or fantasies that are expressed with... A lot of creativity.
BDSM is not only a game for masochists or sado, as some people think, often without really knowing. It is first and foremost a story of consent, communication, shared adventures and above all... very good limits (which enthusiasts sometimes call "safewords"). Because the essence is complicity, not imprisonment. Unless you're in a relationship: it's often mutual, even if you don't always assume it at first, you get used to it.
Bondage, for example, is the art of tying up — with a rope, a scarf, or even a tie if you want to improvise. It is not only a question of physical constraint, but above all of building trust: we entrust our body to the other, we abandon ourselves, and in return, we receive the promise of being respected. This game of "I can't move, but I choose to stay" creates an erotic tension that can be as soft as a whisper or as electric as a thunderstorm.
Domination and Submission, on the other hand, play on the dynamics of power. Some like to direct, give orders, guide the script. Others prefer to let go, let themselves be led, and explore this delicious vertigo of losing control. But make no mistake: the person who submits is not powerless — on the contrary. She holds the key to the game, because everything is based on consent and communication.
Submission or Domination, it all depends on how you feel that night: sometimes it's the husband who is the Doberman of the home (dominator), and sometimes... it is the wives who hold the rope, the pliers...
Finally, there is Sadism and Masochism. The sadist derives pleasure from provoking sensations, the masochist from receiving them. It's not a question of brutal pain, but rather of measured, orchestrated, controlled pleasure. What excites here is the rise, the tension, the fire that burns without ever consuming.
So yes, it's erotic, but it's also a space where people can express their fantasies without shame. Of course, it's a universe that we explore slowly. But if you can overcome your doubts, submit your taboos and explore this whole thing safely – it's one of the most creative ways to discover who you are, together, as a couple, or just with the desire to have strong sensations, but not just strong, just... Ok.
The main thing is to know when you say "stop", "please" and "again". Because in BDSM, everything is also about feeling and exchanges, not just on stage
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