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Anal sex
Sexual practice consisting of stimulation of the anus, with fingers, tongue, toys or penis, between consenting partners. It is the back door of eroticism: less frequented than the main entrance, but rich in sensations when you go there with delicacy, humor and... lubricant.
Principle. The anus is not self-lubricating (unlike the vagina) and its sphincter likes to take its time. As a result, the watchword is "slowly". Excitement and muscle relaxation go hand in hand: we breathe, we listen to ourselves, we progress in stages. Stimulation can be external (caresses, pressure around) or internal (progressive penetration). The goal is not performance, but a benevolent curiosity for what makes "ah, yes" rather than "oula, no".
Useful preliminaries. We prepare the ground: cool atmosphere, clear communication, clean hands, rounded nails. If the idea is stressful, a warm bath relaxes the muscles. We start small (gloved finger, thin plug) before imagining bigger. Specific sex toys often have a flared base: it's there for safety, we don't negotiate.
Lubricant & rhythm. Hero of the story: lubricant. Water-based (universal, compatible with condoms and toys) or silicone (longer-lasting, to be avoided with some silicone toys). We put more than we think necessary, we put more back when we want. Pace: slow, steady, with breaks. We let the muscle "welcome" rather than "suffer". Tip: push very lightly as if you were going to the toilet when inserting, it helps the sphincter to relax.
Health & safety. Condoms recommended (and we change them if we alternate anal and vaginal penetration, to avoid infections). Dental dams for oral pleasure. Afterwards, a pee, a gentle wash, and thank you, curtain. If it hurts: stop, re-calibrate, come back another day. No practice is an exam to be passed.
Variants and roles. Penetration, rimming, prostate massage, pleasures with plug: there is enough to compose an à la carte menu. The "who does what" is totally flexible: one can give, receive, alternate, or simply look at today's chapter and put off the others for later. Pleasure can be direct (area rich in nerve endings) or indirect (internal pressure, feelings of fullness).
Myths to be dispelled. "It inevitably hurts" — fake, with preparation and lubricant, the sensation ranges from "strange but intriguing" to "delicious". "It's forbidden to such and such a person" — no: only the consent and comfort of the adults involved counts. "It's dirty by definition" — the anus is a muscle, not a mystery: basic cleanliness + condom = serenity.
Express instructions for use. 1) Discuss desires and limits. 2) Lubricate generously (you, partner, toy). 3) Start from the outside, circular, without rushing. 4) Insert little by little, with breathing and words ("slower", "stop", "there is good"). 5) Adjust angle and depth; Hands remain valuable teammates. 6) After, tender debrief, cuddle, cuddly drink.
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