This is a question many ask. It’s indeed a delicate subject and reactions can vary from one woman to another. So it seems important to know your partner well before addressing (or not) the subject with her.
Should you talk to your partner about your exchanges with a camgirl?
Having your secret garden
First, exchanging with a camgirl is part of your secret garden. It’s up to you to decide whether this is something you are ready to share or not. Sometimes it’s good to keep certain things, like some fantasies, to yourself. As long as it doesn’t encroach on your relationship — unless this relationship is an escape from your couple life, or it helps balance it.
The positive reaction
Some women are ultimately relieved to know that their partner visits naughty sites and exchanges with others about their fantasies. This sometimes spares them from doing things they don’t feel like. For others, it can spice up their sex life by trying out ideas their partners have explored with models.
For some women, chatting is not cheating because just because you interact with cams doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll go elsewhere. Moreover, there are no direct physical interactions. Can we even talk about sexuality when there is no body contact, no confrontation with the other? Cybersex is ultimately a form of disengaged engagement: you go far in fantasy with the other, but you only do it with yourself. And once the computer is turned off, everything is over. The virtual offers great protection and provides an undeniable feeling of absolution since there is no physical encounter.
The negative reaction
For other women, on the other hand, the reaction can be much more negative. Some see it as a form of betrayal. The boundary between real and virtual can become blurred. You need to be prepared for negative reactions.
