“Round women are the most beautiful”, “I like the way you assume yourself”, “You’re fat, but sexy”… If you’re thinking of seducing a curvy woman with these off-putting words, start packing. Seduction, in general, is an art that requires patience, precision and delicacy. But to seduce a plump woman, you need to add to these qualities your grain of salt, which will enhance the flavor of your seducer’s soup. Let’s face it, curvy women are all the same. That’s why it’s crucial to make no distinction. Otherwise, the tips below won’t work for you. Here’s how to seduce a curvy woman, in the most excellent way.
Getting to know each other
Once you’ve taken the first steps and made the first contact, you need to start digging. To win the heart of a curvy woman, dig deep, but don’t go too deep, to get to know your queen. The better you get to know her, the better you’ll be able to adapt your filter in conversation. The basic trick is to ask her questions about her life without turning your discussion into an interrogation. Use sparingly and, above all, boomerang questions. Here’s a technique that not only makes conversations more interactive, but also saves you from being labeled a slacker. Boomerang questions are those that are returned to you in a natural, unforced way. Do you like white wine? Uh, not really. I drink some, but I prefer reds, don’t you? In this way, your exchanges become more divided and are likely to create a more complicit atmosphere.
Be a good listener
Listening is a neglected but highly effective seduction technique. Whether you’re talking face-to-face or over the phone, you need to put this trick into practice, no matter what you’re discussing. It’s the only way to bring your conversation to life. Listening doesn’t mean being passive during exchanges, or nodding your head at every sentence. Listening is more about giving your interlocutor the impression that you’re interested in what she’s saying. You can do this by asking brief questions, without interrupting her momentum. Over time, you’ll find that curvy women love their listeners. Unconsciously or not, this attitude reinforces their self-confidence.
Knowing how to compliment
It’s no secret that compliments are a massive seduction weapon. Using them on a plump woman is like winning her over by half. But you need to know how to use them, because the slightest deviation and you’re liable to shoot yourself in the foot. Before bringing out the heavy artillery, you need to have essential information about your target. That’s why it’s so important not to skip the first step. Knowing whether she’s a complexed plump woman or an assumed plump woman will enable you to choose the best compliments, without forcing the issue. Some curvy women have a complex about their figure and are waiting for a man to give them confidence.
In this case, compliments on her curves are welcome, and you can afford to abuse them. The majority, however, are full-figured women – the hardest to compliment. With this category, your compliments about curves won’t have any real impact. It’s best to concentrate on other physical aspects, such as eyes, but not only. Her sense of humor, her kindness, her gentleness – these are all aspects you can target for compliments that are out of the ordinary. Curvy women love praise that doesn’t involve the physical.
Choosing the right topics for discussion
It’s very difficult to control words in an evasive discussion. The brain unconsciously connects everything available to the various senses, to keep the conversation going. This can easily lead you into sensitive situations with a plump woman. You must then take care to choose your topics of discussion, or rather choose those you shouldn’t bring up. It’s clear that a fitness-oriented discussion is a sensitive subject, even if you’re dealing with a full-figured woman. The delicacy of this kind of subject is enough to keep them away from your lips. In the same vein, talking about fetishism, lingerie or sexual practices may also displease a curvy woman, if your aim is seduction. So it’s a good idea to focus your discussions on travel, oenology or pets.
Being a gentleman and a bad boy
Several studies on women’s behavior agree that they prefer bad boys. If you’re one, all the better; if you’re not, all the better. In fact, to stack the odds in your favor, be a mix of both. To reassure a plump woman, you need to be a perfect gentleman who knows how to choose the right words in every circumstance. To hold her back, your bad boy side will do the trick. It’s up to you to be a mix of both.
Finally, round women are very sensitive, even if some of them don’t look it. Seducing one requires a great deal of dexterity. The tips mentioned above are the most effective for mastering the art of seducing a curvy woman.
