Complimenting a curvy woman without being hurtful is not as easy as you might think. There are things to say and others to avoid. I’ll shed some light on it.
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Voluptuous women have a powerful seductive allure. They attract many men seeking sensuality and pleasure. Although they carry certain clichés, such as being great in bed (for once that’s in a « positive » direction, you might say…), having big breasts like udders, or butts worthy of a runway, they remain women with sensitivity similar to that of other women.
So there are phrases they no longer want to hear, because they are actually hurtful. Being reduced to their physical appearance is not the most exciting thing when you’re in a seduction approach. So, take notes and I’ll then give you 25 compliments they would rather hear instead. Paving the way for you is my New Year’s gift!
25 phrases that plus-size women no longer want to hear
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« You have a pretty face, too bad you’re chubby. »
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« You should watch what you eat, you might gain more weight. »
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« You’re so brave to dare wear that with your curves. »
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« You’re pretty for a girl your size. »
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« You really should lose weight if you want to be more attractive. »
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« You’re cute despite your curves. »
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« You have such a beautiful face, but if only you were thinner. »
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« You should try this diet, it might help you lose weight. »
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« You know, you’d be so beautiful if you lost a few pounds. »
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« I’m not attracted to curvy women. »
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« You should cover up a bit more, it would hide your curves. »
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« Don’t you think it’s time to lose weight? »
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« You’re pretty despite your physical flaws. »
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« I prefer slim girls, but you’re nice anyway. »
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« Curvy women should avoid this type of clothing, it doesn’t suit them. »
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« You’re brave to accept yourself as you are. »
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« You should avoid eating that, it’s for your figure. »
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« You’re so pretty, but you should think about your weight. »
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« Why don’t you exercise more to lose weight? »
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« You’re beautiful despite your curves, that’s brave of you. »
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« You should think about going on a diet, it would really help you. »
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« You have such a pretty face, you should highlight your assets. »
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« I don’t know how you can be so confident with your physique. »
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« Men prefer slim women, you should be careful. »
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« You should try to look like [a slim celebrity], she’s so much better. »
So why are these sentences, sometimes well-intentioned, actually hurtful? Because they reduce everything to physical appearance. Personality is forgotten, and only outward appearance is considered. This objectifies the person and strips them of all human dimension. Without saying it’s the worst of the worst, it’s still at a high level of boorishness. So you can easily understand why this might upset them or make them indifferent to your charms.
To start off on the right foot, you need to think about your approach. That’s where I help you.
Photo Anna Shvets
25 phrases that curvy women would like to hear
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« Your self-confidence is incredible, it makes you even more attractive. »
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« You have a smile that lights up the room every time. »
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« The way you embrace your curves makes you absolutely stunning. »
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« I admire your strength and positivity, it’s truly inspiring. »
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« Your personality is as beautiful as your figure, full of charm and warmth. »
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« Your style is always so elegant and perfectly highlights your beauty. »
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« You have a radiant energy that draws everyone to you. »
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« Your curves are like works of art, unique and captivating. »
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« You exude such natural sensuality, it’s enchanting. »
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« Your confidence and self-assurance are incredibly seductive traits. »
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« Your curves are beautifully proportioned, it’s very harmonious. »
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« The way you are comfortable in your own skin is truly inspiring. »
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« You have such a captivating presence, you can’t help but be noticed. »
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« You are such a kind person, and it shows in your beauty. »
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« Your passion for life is contagious, and it makes you so attractive. »
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« Your eyes are so expressive, they tell a captivating story. »
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« I love your spontaneity and sense of humor, it makes you even more charming. »
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« Your gentleness and kindness are as beautiful as your curves. »
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« You are such an authentic person, it’s truly admirable. »
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« You have a warm and soothing aura, it’s so appealing. »
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« Your curves highlight your femininity in an incredibly beautiful way. »
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« Your presence is reassuring, you feel good by your side. »
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« You are so bubbly, it makes every moment spent with you special. »
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« Your passion for [insert a field she is passionate about] is truly fascinating. »
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« You are beautiful inside and out, and that’s what makes you so special. »
Why will these compliments have more impact on your Beauty? Because they highlight her mind, her spirituality, her intellect. They do not reduce her to a trophy or a piece of meat to consume (yes, let’s be frank with words). By emphasizing aspects of her personality, your desired one with generous curves will feel understood and valued. Good points to start a relationship.
Photo Wendel Moretti
Mot de la fin
If you show respect and have a genuine interest in the fantastic woman with erotic curves standing before you, you will have no trouble naturally coming up with the right phrases. And to be honest, these compliments can work with all women. While they are always receptive to certain flattery related to their physical appearance, you will have much more success by highlighting their personality traits.
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