Have you ever noticed that women have the ability to have multiple successive orgasms during the same intercourse, whereas it is more difficult for men to have multiple orgasms?
We explain how orgasm works in men and women and why there is a difference.
The Orgasm Inquiry
There’s nothing quite like basing yourself on a study to better understand all of this, especially when it’s spread out over three years, to study the sex lives of 2,000 women, and it turns out that after a first orgasm, women reveal that they can have another one.
In men, it’s different and the explanation is physiological.will have ejaculatedThis period is characterized by an inability to be physically aroused again, regardless of the context (or the caresses provided by his partner).
Depending on the age of the person, his state of fatigue or even the person himself, this period can last from a few minutes to several hours. This is the time necessary for the production of sperm. Because indeed, the sexual act has a reproductive function in every human being, that is why this refractory period exists.
Orgasms: the differences between men and women
It is noted that women will have greater difficulties in reaching orgasm (compared to men).women ‘s pleasureIt must also be said that the woman will ask herself more questions (since she has been brought up in this way) and will have a certain modesty to be able to let go completely and let go enough to reach orgasm.
It should also be noted that the female body is less well known to men.the clitorisFor example, it was only mapped in 1998 that we better understand that the knowledge of the female body and the understanding of her pleasure was never really a priority.
It is also a question of willpower, because it is also not difficult to find the best way to make her partner reach orgasm, and this for each partner (women are all different in their functioning).It also takes a longer time for the woman to reach orgasm.
Another notable difference is that the orgasm lasts longer in women than in men (about twenty seconds for women and up to a minute compared to a maximum of ten in men).
In the end, it’s annoying?
Well, not so much, because in the end, it’s still mostly men who have a systematic orgasm with each intercourse. For women, this is far from the case. So we can leave them the possibility to have several orgasms in a row when it happens to them. And it’s not selfish, because their pleasure also passes through what they provide to the other.
Bottom line, we’re not gonna be counting points, we’re gonna be trying to have a good time together, orgasms or no orgasms.
