25 compliments curvy women would like to hear

Complimenting a curvy woman without being hurtful isn’t as easy as you might think . There arethings to say andthings to avoid. Let me enlighten you.

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Voluptuous women have a powerful seductive power. They attract many men in search of sensuality and pleasure. And while they may carry certain clichés, such asbeing good in bed (for once, you might say, in a “positive” sense…), having big breasts like teats, or asses worthy of landing strips, they are nonetheless women with sensibilities similar to those of other women.

So there are phrases they don’t want to hear anymore, because they’re actually hurtful. Being reduced to your physical appearance isn’t the most exciting thing about seduction. So take notes and I’ll give you 25 compliments they’d like to hear instead. Paving the way for you is my New Year’s gift to you!

25 phrases curvy women no longer want to hear

• “You’ve got a pretty face, too bad you’re round.”

• “You should watch what you eat, you might put on more weight.”

• “You’re so brave to dare wear that with your curves.”

• “You’re pretty for a girl your size.”

• “You really should lose some weight if you want to be more attractive.”

• “You’re cute despite your curves.”

• “You have such a pretty face, but if only you were thinner.”

• “You should try this diet, it might help you lose weight.”

• “You know, you’d be so beautiful if you lost a few pounds.”

• “I’m not attracted to curvy women.”

• “You should cover up a little more, it would hide your curves.”

• “Don’t you think it’s time to lose some weight?”

• “You’re pretty despite your physical defects.”

• “I prefer slim girls, but you’re nice anyway.”

• “Round women should avoid this type of clothing, it doesn’t suit them.”

• “You’re brave to accept yourself as you are.”

• “You shouldn’t eat that, it’s bad for your figure.”

• “You’re so pretty, but you should think about your weight.”

• “Why don’t you exercise more and lose weight?”

• “You’re beautiful despite your shape, that’s brave of you.”

• “You should think about going on a diet, it would really help you.”

• “You have such a beautiful face, you should emphasize your assets.”

• “I don’t know how you can be so confident with your looks.”

• “Men prefer slim women, you should be careful.”

• “You should try to look like [a thin celebrity], she’s so much better.”

So why are these sometimes well-meaning phrases actually hurtful? Because they make everything about their looks. They forget about personality and focus solely on outward appearance. This objectifies the person and removes any human dimension. Without saying we’re in the worst of the worst, we’re still at a good level of caddishness. So you can easily understand why this might offend them, or make them indifferent to your charms.

To get off on the right foot, you need to think about your approach. That’s where I come in.

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25 phrases curvy women would like to hear

• “Your self-confidence is incredible, it makes you even more attractive.”

• “You have a smile that lights up the room every time.”

• “The way you embrace your curves makes you absolutely gorgeous.”

• “I admire your strength and positivity, it’s truly inspiring.”

• “Your personality is as beautiful as your figure, full of charm and warmth.”

• “Your style is always so elegant and perfectly enhances your beauty.”

• “You have a radiant energy that draws everyone to you.”

• “Your curves are like works of art, unique and captivating.”

• “You exude such natural sensuality, it’s mesmerizing.”

• “Your confidence and self-assurance are incredibly seductive traits.”

• “Your forms are beautifully proportioned, it’s very harmonious.”

• “The way you’re comfortable in your own skin is truly inspiring.”

• “You have such a captivating presence, one can’t help but notice you.”

• “You’re such a caring person, it’s reflected in your beauty.”

• “Your passion for life is contagious, and that makes you so attractive.”

• “Your eyes are so expressive, they tell a captivating story.”

• “I love your spontaneity and sense of humor, it makes you even more charming.”

• “Your sweetness and kindness are as beautiful as your curves.”

• “You’re such a genuine person, it’s really admirable.”

• “You possess a warm and soothing aura, it’s so appealing.”

• “Your curves enhance your femininity in an incredibly beautiful way.”

• “Your presence is reassuring, it makes us feel good to be around you.”

• “You’re so bubbly, it makes every moment spent with you special.”

• “Your passion for [insert area of passion here] is truly fascinating.”

• “You’re beautiful inside and out, and that’s what makes you so special.”

Why will these compliments have more impact with your Belle? Because they highlight her spirit, her spirituality, her intellect. They don’t reduce her to a trophy or a piece of meat to be consumed (yes, let’s be frank with each other). By highlighting aspects of her personality, your curvaceous sweetheart will feel understood and valued. Good points for starting a relationship.

Photo Wendel Moretti

Last words

If you show respect and genuine interest in the fantastically curvaceous woman standing in front of you, you’ll have no trouble coming up with the right phrases naturally. And to tell you the truth, these compliments can work with all women. If they’re always sensitive to certain flattery related to their looks, you’ll have much more success by emphasizing her personality traits.

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