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The blowjob is a classic and staple of the boudoir repertoire for most lovers. And that’s no surprise: the warm, wet stimulation from a mouth feels amazing on the cock. Blowjobs are an important element of foreplay, and they are a delicious main course as well. They offer all kinds of possibilities for pleasure, as well as having the potential for power exchange dynamics. They are an ice cream cone for vanilla lovers. They can also be part of BDSM and kinky fetishes. Whether you’re looking forward to experimenting with your very first blowjob, or you’ve given your husband, or the football team, ten thousand, you may be looking for blowjob ideas or blowjob techniques for your next one!

Looking for BDSM ideas? Welcome to our growing list of BDSM play. While this list is surely not exhaustive, it’s our attempt to catalog all the types of BDSM games and activities. With each type of play, you’ll find links to articles with more information or BDSM ideas. In addition to cataloging, our goal is to inform, entertain, and hopefully inspire! Some activities are grouped for the sake of organization and brevity.

What is Sexual Roleplay? 

Roleplay is playing the part of a person or character or acting as if you are in a particular situation. Sexual roleplay occurs when such games take an erotic turn. Sexual roleplays involve two or more characters and allow participants to indulge their fantasies and explore kinks. Roleplay is an especially important outlet for those with fantasies that can’t be acted out “for real” due to their taboo nature or impossibility.

What Is Libido? 

First things first, what is libido? Simply put, it’s our desire to engage sexually. This can vary wildly between people, and it can be very different for each person based on the different circumstances at various points in their lives. It’s a deeply misunderstood part of our sexuality, and we’re going to do some work to clarify some of those misunderstandings right now. Libido is often referred to as “sex drive,” and that can get complicated for a couple of reasons: The assumption is that libido is an inherent drive people have, like the drive to eat or consume water. It’s not. While people get up in arms upon hearing this, human beings do not need to have sex for survival — propagation of the species, yes. It’s needed for that, but let’s be honest, most of us are not out there day-to-day coping with an inherent urge to keep humanity alive via our sex lives. Our level of desire is not an inherent, built-in, survival-based thing. The vision of an inherent “drive” feeds the idea that it works the same for everyone. 

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That sex is good, and thus wanting it is correct, and wanting it often is right, and people who don’t fit that description are lacking. Let us not forget that asexual people exist, but also, there are different ways to experience desire. Let’s take a minute to break that down. How Libido Works No modern conversation about libido would be complete without citing the work of Emily Nagoski, Ph.D. An educator, researcher, and the author of Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life and Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections, Nagoski’s work plays a huge role in how we now understand and talk about libido. If you enjoy this article and want to learn more about these concepts, do yourself (and your partner) a favor and read her books. In her book Come As You Are, Nagoski talks about the difference between “spontaneous” and “responsive” sexual desire, and this is a big piece that lots of folks miss in the desire conversation. Spontaneous Desire Spontaneous desire happens without prior stimulation or precursor. It’s what people tend to think of as “correct” in terms of “we get turned on, then we do sex stuff, then orgasm happens.” Spontaneous desire is what we see portrayed the most in the media; it seems more “romantic” and “natural” to many. Some people get oddly grumpy about the idea of planning for sex, and you're about to see why that’s so unfortunate. Advertisement Responsive Desire Responsive desire is triggered by some kind of appealing stimuli — music, candles, pornography, massage, the Super Bowl, whatever does it for you. For people who experience responsive desire, their desire is triggered by the actual stimulation — unlike spontaneous desire, where simply thinking about and anticipating the possibility of the stimulation could be enough — and without it, the idea of sex might seem unappealing.

This means responsive desire requires more deliberate planning and action than just letting things happen. Read More: In Defense of Scheduling Sex The breakdown of how people experience these forms of desire is markedly gendered. Nagoski’s data shows that only about 15% of women find they exclusively have spontaneous desire, whereas 75% of men do. On the other side of the spectrum, about 30% of women and 5% of men will never experience spontaneous desire. Is Libido Connected to Relationships? We tend to treat sex like it’s this separate part of us that has nothing to do with the rest of our lives. Like it’s walled off, and nothing that happens in our day-to-day lives has any impact on our “sex selves.” The problem is that our libido does not exist in a vacuum; it’s affected by everything happening around us. This includes unpleasant things like stress, anxiety, depression, and, yes, relationship issues. 

How Does Our Relationship Affect Our Libido? Have you ever tried to replicate a really awesome, hot, sexy night with your partner only to find that it didn't work at all? Did you wind up frustrated, annoyed, disappointed, or maybe even angry? Context may be the reason. When it comes to desire, context matters. So, even if we started out constantly turned on by our partner if over time we feel like they aren’t really listening to us, our needs aren’t being met, or our relationship is not satisfying us in any number of ways, the exact same situations that once felt super-sexy may now feel not-at-all-sexy. Let's talk about accelerators and brakes to further understand the power of context. Dual Control Model The dual control model, developed in the late 1990s by former Kinsey Institute Director Dr. John Bancroft and Dr. Erick Janssen, envisions two systems that control our sexual responses. These systems work like a sexual accelerator and sexual brakes. Each of these things responds to input it deems sexually relevant. The trick here is that what’s relevant to each person can vary wildly as can the sensitivity of each car’s accelerator and brakes. In terms of our relationships, this means that we might not experience desire if a stressor, like the state of our relationship, is causing us to slam on the “brakes.” With all this in mind, we can see how any number of things, including a less-than-healthy dynamic in our relationship, can impact our sexual desire. 

But how can you know if that’s what’s happening? How Do We Know if an AWOL Libido Is a Relationship Issue or a Physical Issue? To answer this question, you need to examine the context by asking yourself a few other questions: Is anything else going on physically? If you’re taking a new medication or have made recent changes in your diet, this could impact your libido. Advertisement Article Continued Below Icon for Article Continued Below Table of Contents What Is Libido? How Libido Works Is Libido Connected to Relationships? How Do We Know if an AWOL Libido Is a Relationship Issue or a Physical Issue? How to Increase Your Libido Advertisement Have Better Sex! Join thousands of Kinkly Insiders who are already receiving hot new sex related articles, goodies, exclusive deals and get 10% OFF Kinkly Shop! Enter your email Set your Preferences Best of Kinkly Kinkly Shop YES! I WANT IN! By clicking "YES! I want In!" you accept our Terms of Use and Privacy Policy and consent to receive newsletters, emails and promotions from Kinkly and its associated partners and understand that you may unsubscribe at any time. Advertisement 

Sex becomes a sore spot, a hot-button issue, a less-than-happy topic in this relationship. Then that relationship ends, the “low libido” partner moves on to meet someone new, and suddenly they don’t seem to have a troublesome low libido anymore… What the heck happened?

What happened is actually quite common. It happens when we misunderstand how desire works and don’t pay attention to what’s going on in our relationships. That’s why today, we’re going to talk a bit about this big question: Is the problem your libido or your relationship? 

If you're new to anal play, you might be staring at this article thinking, "What?! Why would I want to stretch my butthole?!" We hear you. But anal stretching is actually a key component of anal training -- and it isn't nearly as scary as it sounds. Technically, anal stretching is anything that gradually stretches the anus and allows you to insert toys (or a penis) you couldn't comfortably take in the past. That means even absolute beginners, who've never tried anal before, can engage in anal stretching; working up from a single finger to multiple fingers counts! However, in the world of kinky sex, the term "anal stretching" usually applies to stretching above and beyond the amount required for anal intercourse with an average penis, and training to take on large toys with diameters of over 2.5 inches. Anal stretching can go to extremes (including anal fisting and inserting extremely large objects), but the anal stretching kink can also just be the enjoyment of the process of gently (and slowly!) training the butt. With that said, here's the ultimate beginner's guide to anal stretching:

Anal stretching is surprisingly simple to get into. You just need body-safe sex toys, a serious amount of lubricant, and a good chunk of time and patience. And, crucially, whatever you do, do NOT pick up a tube of "Anal Ease" or any type of anal numbing cream. If you're stretching while everything is numb, you're missing out on the pleasure -- and any potential warning signs, too. If things are so painful that you require numbing creams, you've gone well past your body's limits and you need to dial it way back. While I'd never recommend anal numbing cream for any type of sexual activity, it's especially dangerous with anal stretching -- a kink where you're specifically trying to push your body's limits. Anal play shouldn't be painful for most bodies. If it is, stop and figure out why!

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Sexual role play is a consensual and pre-negotiated activity that involves intentionally adopting the behaviors, mannerisms, and/or appearance of an alternate character or persona. This is done for the purpose of fulfilling fantasies, deepening intimacy with partners, exploring diverse realms of pleasure, and/or providing an escape from everyday reality. By assuming different roles, individuals can explore their desires and engage in consensual, imaginative scenarios that enhance their sexual experiences and emotional connections with their partners. This form of role play can add excitement, novelty and a sense of adventure to intimate relationships, creating a safe and enjoyable space to explore fantasies and desires together.Fetishes can play a significant role in enriching sex role play experiences when they are integrated into scenes. For instance, if you and your partner decide to embark on a Doctor/patient role play, and the partner taking on the Doctor role has a foot fetish, they could artfully incorporate this preference by using the doctor persona to "assess," "medically examine" and “treat” their patient's feet as part of the role play scenario. By integrating fetishes into the role play, participants can explore their desires in a safe and consensual context, adding an extra layer of excitement and fulfillment to their intimate encounters.

“The essence of PRICK is that people should know what they’re getting themselves into and take full ownership of that,” explained Heather Shannon, a licensed clinical professional counselor (LCPC) and the host of the “Ask A Sex Therapist” podcast. “Actually putting PRICK into practice could look like doing internet research on kinks, asking around about best practices for your kink du jour in FetLife groups, watching videos to learn more about safety practices, attending educational workshops about specific kinks, and asking questions of your partners. It should also involve internal reflections to notice what types of emotions come up in your body around a particular scene or kink and what types of physical sensations come up for you when you play out the scene in your mind. Notice what thoughts or beliefs arise in your mind as well. Does your nervous system feel regulated? Do you anticipate the need for aftercare? How will you know when to say Yellow or Red (if you’re using the popular stoplight method of safewords)? When you have taken the time to educate yourself and inform yourself, chances are higher for a pleasurable experience.” Once all parties feel informed and comfortable with what’s proposed, they can grant consent and start the scene. It’s their personal responsibility to deny consent or withdraw consent at any time if they feel uncomfortable. 

BDSM practitioners can use PRICK when someone decides to play with a new partner or when they decide to try something new with an existing partner. People may also use PRICK if they decide they don’t want to engage in activities they’ve participated in previously. PRICK can work in any setting, from a private home to a BDSM party or dungeon.

There are a number of different methods, techniques and toys that can be used during cock-and-ball torture. Slapping, squeezing, stepping on and kicking the testicles and penis can all be considered forms of cock-and-ball torture. Toys and other equipment can also be used, including floggers, ball stretchers and cock cages. Some more extreme forms of cock-and-ball torture include inflating the scrotum by injecting it with a saline solution, and shoving a needle or nail through the scrotum or penis.

Cock bondage is a simpler form of CBT used to refer to when bondage techniques are applied to the penis. The penis can be tied up using rope, different type of cock rings and BDSM instruments. Cock bondage can also extend to the testicles. Different types of devices can be used such as a small leather collar from which weights can be hung. The testicles are weighed down and create visual stimulation for the partner. Other devices include the testicle cuff, a toy that is ring-shaped and when closed does not allow the testicles to go through. Cock bondage can otherwise be known as cock and ball torture.

The word fetish refers to arousal derived from an intense fixation on a specific body part, object, or situation. Sexual fetishes are actually quite common. After all, sexual preferences are as varied and unusual as people themselves. Whether you have a foot fetish, a spanking fetish, a leather fetish, or you're just curious, here we look at the kinks and fetishes that turn people on – and why.

Spanking can be done in a variety of positions. Sometimes the partner being struck is bent over a spanking bench or furniture. Over the knee spanking (OTK spanking) is also a common spanking posture. Over the knee spanking is striking someone while their body is positioned over the spanker's knee. The dominant partner sits on a chair, couch, or bed, with their feet flat on the floor. The submissive lies face down over the dominant’s lap, with their upper body on one side of the dominant’s legs and their legs on the other. They may let their head hang down to the floor, if the dominant sits on a chair, to really elevate their buttocks. If this position is too difficult to maintain, they could support their weight with a couch or bed.

There are a lot of things to love about breasts. They’re visually appealing, fun to dress up, and one of the most explosive erogenous zones no matter your gender - for some, they even have the power to unlock powerful orgasms. You’re probably familiar with the pleasures of kissing, caressing, or palming a pair of tits, either your partner’s or your own. And maybe you’ve gotten curious as to what it might feel like to play rough by biting, pinching, restraining instead. Welcome to the art of breast torture, a BDSM practice that involves tormenting the boobs by inflicting pain. Also referred to as tit torture or breast discipline, this tantalizing activity can be explored through a number of exciting mediums.

Cuckold C1, C2, C3 — Levels of Pleasure When a man feels pleasure in his partner having sex with other men, and she does it with his knowledge and consent, this type of relationship in eroticism is called “cuckolding”. In it, the cuckold (the submissive man) is dominated by his partner, the hotwife. This domination takes place in 3 stages. In this guide, we would like to enlighten you, what it has to do with the classification Cuckold C1,C2, and C3. Feel free to ask us more questions or share your opinions and experiences via the comment function.

CEI - Well, if you're going to make a mess, don't think I won't insist that you clean it up, whether from your hand, the toe of my boot, or the floor at my feet... 

JOI - get your tiny dicklet in your hands and get on your knees before me. I will tell you what to do and when for my amusement 

SPH - I like my MEN big, but let's face it, you're such a pathetic excuse that you barely count, let's get that tiny penis out here so that I can have a good laugh... humiliating at you small dicked losers is something that always brings a smile to my face, and you want me to be happy, don't you slave...? 

Small penis syndrome refers to a male's anxiety of having a small penis. He may not actually have a small penis. This syndrome hinges on the fear that one has a micropenis (the medical condition of having a very small penis).

Sex and Bondage in the Basic Y Position The seated position, spread legs, and movable upper body make the Basic Y position a great fit for most types of play. Sensation play can easily focus on the chest or inner thighs. The face is fully available for making out or hair pulling. With the legs spread, it can be easy to see what's between them for using sex toys or hands to pleasure a partner. Orgasm torture is also a popular choice for this position since the spreader bar keeps the bound partner from closing their legs.

The spread legs lend themselves well to intercourse as well! The penetrating partner can try to wiggle in-between the open legs into a Missionary position, or they can simply pick up the bound lower body to transform the Basic Y position into the Carnal Clutch position.

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The Basic Y position also happens to be one of the safest ways to play with a spreader bar while solo. Since the wearer can bend forward and unfasten themselves in case of emergency, the Basic Y offers the feeling of restraint without the inescapable aspects that can make solo bondage dangerous. Consider getting into the Basic Y position then laying onto your back for self-pleasure. The inability to close the legs can feel extremely erotic. Just make sure you have the core strength to sit back up! 

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A ball tie is an intricate and secure bondage position that binds the submissive partner into the shape of a ball. A person in the ball tie position will be bound with their knees to their chest and ankles against their butt. This is usually accomplished by binding the thighs, knees and ankles together and securing the legs to the torso. The hands can be bound in front at the knees or behind the person's back. A gag is also often placed in a ball tie victim's mouth. This position sounds extreme, but some people find it very erotic. Advertisement More About Ball Tie Properly binding someone into the ball tie position takes skill and time. If done improperly, such as with the legs pressing into the abdomen, this position can make it difficult to breath. Although this bondage position is one of the more comfortable ones, bound individuals should not remain in it for long periods of time and they should never be left unattended. Safe words or signals should also be used during bondage play as an added safety precaution. Advertisement 

Tes couilles dans mes gants Ou dans tes ongles. J'aime les ongles, une leçon d'obéissance

“Desensitizer” Desensitizer is the term for a sexual enhancement product designed to help individuals overcome sexual challenges. These products are usually topical creams or ointments that numb the area to which they are applied. The most common use for desensitizers is to delay ejaculation and to make anal penetration more comfortable.

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Smart guys who enjoy talk about interesting topics, not afraid about hard games... I am really good at giving orders and making you submit to me. I am a passionate woman and I love being admired. Be you and we will have so much fun! 

The History of Fellatio People have practiced and celebrated fellatio in art and texts for thousands of years. There are references to fellatio in works from ancient Egypt, Rome and Peru. However, until recently, fellatio was fairly taboo for heterosexual couples in the Western world. In Medieval England, fellatio was even banned as it didn’t lead to children. In the early 1900s, it fell under the banner of “unnatural acts” in American legal texts. These works suggested the practice was mostly for gay men. In the 1919 book “Sexual Truth Versus Sexual Lies, Misconceptions, and Exaggerations” William Josephus wrote that fellatio was “very common in the less worthy marriages.” In the 1950s, almost every American state outlawed the practice under their anti-sodomy laws. While fellatio became more common in the 1960s with the era of free love, it was still rarely spoken about in the mainstream until the 1990s. It took until 1994 for many states to overturn anti-sodomy laws. Today, fellatio has become a common form of sexual expression.

How Give Fellatio To perform fellatio, the giving partner uses their mouth to stimulate the receiving partner’s penis. They may suck, lick, or even gently bite the penis. They may also use their mouth to pleasure their partner’s testicles. The oral stimulation of fellatio may bring the receiving partner to orgasm. People can practice fellatio as foreplay or as a replacement for intercourse. Some people who are abstaining from intercourse may practice fellatio instead to enjoy their partner while preventing pregnancy or preserving their technical virginity. Fellatio can also be a good option when people prefer not to have intercourse, such as when they’re getting to know a new partner, while they're menstruating, or in the last few weeks of pregnancy, when penetrative sex can become uncomfortable.

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Chastity - I will own that cock, just like I own many others, and you will join the throng of men whose sexual release is completely controlled by me. I love the rush I get from taking control of your very "manhood". It turns me on knowing I have men around the world spending every waking moment thinking how they can please me, with their cocks permanently hard in my honour. I think about how frustrated my enslaved pets are, completely denied until I decide otherwise, and no matter how hard they try there's nothing they can do about it, other than kneel before the power of Mistress and beg and beg and beg…. Tease and Denial - I like to edging... bringing my slaves to the edge of madness over and over again as I torment them with My sensuality, sexuality, and devilish imagination, but never granting them release... There's nothing I love more than hearing my boys beg at my feet, in fact, I can cum just listening to their begging as they kneel there, falling ever further under my spell, before I dismiss them, even more frustrated, and even hornier having been in the presence of their sexual goddess Mistress Anastasia. Cuckolding - For the true slaves that can show their utter devotion and total submission. Could you serve Me and My partners drinks, could you kneel head bowed by my bed while I enjoyed My Lovers, when I click my fingers would you beg to crawl to my bed to lap away the traces of sex from me before bringing me to orgasm with your tongue, never receiving release yourself, simply accepting your place as my toy... my possession... my slave? Perhaps then this form of sexual slavery is something we should discuss... Mind Control - You have already read much of my profile - the process has already begun, once we talk you will be lost forever. I will enter your mind and explore your deepest psyche, your darkest desires and hidden fears. I will reshape your mind and urges as I desire, breaking your will, reshaping your sexual identity around me, turning you into my helpless puppet. You will crave me more and more, I will haunt your thoughts and you will end up begging for my attention... I love watching as you get to the stage where you will do anything I want just in the hope that you might make me happy - helpless against my power over you, unable to avoid the tourture, agony and frustration you undergo just to please me. After the initial frustrating couple of weeks, you will become more obedient than ever, and your ultimate aim will be to please me. You'll think of me each time your pulse races. It'll be MY will controlling your thoughts and actions - MY control over you as a man at all times, I will own you. So think carefully... are you ready to enter a world where you are owned and controlled FULLY by your goddess..? Sissy slaves: Do you ever dreamed wearing silk panties, bra, lipstick? I will make you my slut. I have a nice strap-on waiting to use it on your mouth and ass.

Committed, Consensual and Caring (CCC) and Fully, Directly, and Informed (FDI) Some critics said PRICK and RACK focused too much on the potential negative consequences of BDSM play. In response to this, the 2010s saw the development of two more frameworks that aimed to be more positive. Committed, Consensual and Caring (CCC) highlighted the importance of emotional support and commitment along with consent. While these elements are important for healthy BDSM play, critics of this framework say it fails to address the risks of this kind of play. That’s why some people add a fourth C to this protocol: caution. Fully, Directly and Informed (FDI) builds on the principles of PRICK. It highlights the importance of being fully informed, having direct communication and making decisions based on all available information. While the framework acknowledges risk, it isn't given the focus that it is in PRICK.