{"id":708,"date":"2022-12-06T18:46:43","date_gmt":"2022-12-06T18:46:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/?p=708"},"modified":"2022-12-06T18:46:43","modified_gmt":"2022-12-06T18:46:43","slug":"10-questions-youve-always-wanted-to-ask-a-lesbian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/sex-en\/10-questions-youve-always-wanted-to-ask-a-lesbian\/","title":{"rendered":"10 questions you&rsquo;ve always wanted to ask a lesbian"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!-- rubbish removed --><b>Lesbians make you fantasize. You see them in the street and you imagine them in your bed, with you participating or watching them having sex. But you don\u2019t know how to approach them. You don\u2019t ask just any questions to a lesbian!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_651\" style=\"width: 1034px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-651\" class=\"wp-image-651 size-large\" title=\"anna-shvets-questions-a-une-lesbienne-xlovecam\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pexels-anna-shvets-4557647-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"anna-shvets-questions-a-une-lesbienne-xlovecam\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pexels-anna-shvets-4557647-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pexels-anna-shvets-4557647-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pexels-anna-shvets-4557647-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pexels-anna-shvets-4557647-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pexels-anna-shvets-4557647-2048x1365.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-651\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo Anna Shvets<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easy to talk to a lesbian, whether in a public place or in a video chat. But that doesn\u2019t stop you from being afraid of making a mistake by asking the wrong questions and thus offending her. Especially if your curiosity leads you to imagine a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/en\/models\/threesome\/\">threesome<\/a> or to feed any other fantasy. It would be a shame to let the \u00ab\u00a0beast\u00a0\u00bb escape, wouldn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Being a lesbian is a sexual orientation that you don\u2019t choose. Just like you didn\u2019t choose to be straight. So no, it\u2019s not a phase and no, it\u2019s not related to a bad ex-boyfriend. Not all lesbians are virgins either. And yes, you can be very feminine and be a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/en\/models\/lesbians\/\">lesbian<\/a>. A lesbian couple can even be composed of two very feminine women. There is not obligatorily one of the two which makes the man. So much for the basic questions.<\/p>\n<p>But you want to know more, to know some details, I understand it completely. You may wonder how these things work, especially in intimacy. So, since it\u2019s tricky to ask that, I\u2019ll go over with you the 10 questions you\u2019ve always wanted to ask a lesbian. Here we go<span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><b>1- Why are some women attracted to women?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Experts in various fields estimate that 10% of the world\u2019s population is LGBT, and to date, no one has come to a definitive conclusion as to why.\u00a0Leaving all the theories aside, I will answer the question in the most organic way possible, but in the end.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><b>2- What do women have that men don\u2019t?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>The question is not what one lacks or what the other lacks in excess.\u00a0There are many physical, hormonal and behavioral differences between men and women.\u00a0Fortunately, we are free to be with the one we are most attracted to and enjoy.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><b>3- Why are some lesbians feminine and others masculine<\/b><b>?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s a matter of style and personality, and it doesn\u2019t necessarily reflect their behavior in bed.\u00a0Within four walls, as long as there is a consensus between the two parties, anything goes.<\/p>\n<p>The very masculine women are nicknamed \u00ab\u00a0butch\u00a0\u00bb. The most feminine are called \u00ab\u00a0lipstick lesbians\u00a0\u00bb. There is also the lesbian chapstick which is between a butch, a woman and a lesbian boi. A Boi lesbian, as the name suggests, often has a rather childish appearance. And finally, you have the activist. There you go, you\u2019ve expanded your knowledge of LGBT vocabulary.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_652\" style=\"width: 1034px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-652\" class=\"wp-image-652 size-large\" title=\"anna-shvets--questions-a-une-lesbienne-xlovecam-2\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pexels-anna-shvets-3727541-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"anna-shvets--questions-a-une-lesbienne-xlovecam-2\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pexels-anna-shvets-3727541-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pexels-anna-shvets-3727541-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pexels-anna-shvets-3727541-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pexels-anna-shvets-3727541-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pexels-anna-shvets-3727541-2048x1365.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-652\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo Anna Shvets<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><b>4- Are women easier to deal with than men?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Definitely not!\u00a0Human beings are complex, and therefore extremely interesting.\u00a0The fact that two women have a lot in common is not, in itself, a catalyst.\u00a0We have dreams, desires, ambitions, bridges, jealousies \u2026 to deal with!<\/p>\n<p>To be easy to live with or not is not a question of sex, contrary to the clich\u00e9s which are still conveyed nowadays. It\u2019s 50\/50 for both men and women. As they say, the grass is not greener elsewhere. The same problems are found on both sides of the fence<span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><b>5- What do lesbian friends talk about?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Work, family, politics, love, economy, travel, sports, fashion, TV shows, sex and women! Not necessarily in that order. Just like everyone else. Why is that? You thought they were talking about sex all day?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><b>6- Are there \u00ab\u00a0passive\u00a0\u00bb and \u00ab\u00a0active\u00a0\u00bb lesbians?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Not always.\u00a0Everyone has a bedding preference, which may be narrower or wider.\u00a0There are, yes, people who are more turned on by being passive and submissive, and others who feel more turned on by being more active in bed.\u00a0However, it is common for these roles to alternate.\u00a0There is no rule<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><b>7- Is there anything missing?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>No. Not a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/en\/words\/dick\/\">dick<\/a> is missing.\u00a0But anyone who wants to can use a sextoy.\u00a0And there is a special feature among those who enjoy the accessory: whether it is a dildo (artificial penis) or a strap-on (artificial penis strap), in addition to the mandatory hygiene with the intimate toy between sexual encounters, the use of a condom is important for disease prevention.\u00a0It is common for the accessory to be discarded at the end of a relationship because it ends up being a very intimate memento of the ex.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-653 size-large\" title=\"marcelo-chagas-couple-lesbien-xlovecam\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pexels-marcelo-chagas-11072610-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"marcelo-chagas-couple-lesbien-xlovecam\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pexels-marcelo-chagas-11072610-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pexels-marcelo-chagas-11072610-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pexels-marcelo-chagas-11072610-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pexels-marcelo-chagas-11072610-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pexels-marcelo-chagas-11072610-2048x1365.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><b>8- Is the kiss softer?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>That\u2019s yes.\u00a0Which is not to say that all women are good kissers.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/en\/words\/kissing\/\">Kissing<\/a> is attraction, desire and, above all, connection.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><b>9- Is sex more affectionate?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Not necessarily.\u00a0Women make love, but they also fuck. With or without accessories. With two or more. But it is not because they are lesbians that they necessarily multiply the partners or are unfaithful. Some are for monogamy. Maybe more often than among <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/en\/words\/gay-sex\/\">gays<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><b>10- Is it common to have three-way sex (three women in bed)<\/b><b>?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>I have many friends who have done threesomes.\u00a0But it\u2019s not for everyone. As I said above, just because a woman is a lesbian doesn\u2019t mean she has a totally unbridled sex life. It is above all a question of personality and character.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Returning to the question at the beginning, \u00ab\u00a0Why are some women attracted to women?\u00a0\u00bb, I could turn it around and address it to heterosexual women.\u00a0Why are they interested in men?\u00a0The conclusions would be different.\u00a0In addition to each answering about the specific type of man that arouses the most desire and admiration, reasons such as manner, fragrance, intelligence, pectorals or buttocks, charm in the walk, insight, voice \u2026 Women who are attracted to women, this logic is the same.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><i>\u00ab\u00a0XLoveCam is not responsible for the content of the blog which is declared to be written by an external party\u00a0\u00bb.\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lesbians make you fantasize. You see them in the street and you imagine them in your bed, with you participating or watching them having sex. 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