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<\/p>\nIn 2020 and 2021, Covid 19 has undermined many couples. The pandemic was the cause of many separations, following confinements. But in 2022, why do we separate? Here are the top 4 causes.<\/span><\/p>\n
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We argue, we start again. We realize that our opinions diverge on important topics. We discover infidelities. Love fades away. In short, separations and divorces<\/strong><\/a> are still numerous in 2022 (57,437 divorces). The latter are often requested by women, but are based on mutual consent. But what are the real causes? Here are 4 main causes of separation.<\/p>\n Here are some of the best posts from the past year:<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n Here is the requested translation in English: The second reason is\u2026 hurtful comments at 75%. <\/span>Lessening, humiliating or wounding remarks tend to be love killers. Especially if they are repetitive. Respect is one of the fundamentals of a couple so when it disappears, the couple falls apart.<\/p>\n Third cause: lack of interest in the other at 71%. Indeed, a couple is a sharing, or even a partnership. Especially since patriarchy no longer has the upper hand. As a result, when interest is one-sided and very self-centered, the other detaches and cuts ties. Why share a daily life with someone who does not pay attention to the other? We all need recognition and feel valued. And just being right with our professional life for example is not enough. We must also find this interest in personal life, especially with our partner. It\u2019s important that the other is proud of us too. Seeing their eyes shine when they look at us. <\/span><\/p>\n Here is the requested translation in English: All of these reasons are found especially in short-term couples.<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n However, it should be noted that the main causes of separation diverge when couples have been together for many years. For the former, it is about infidelity. 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Causes et raisons de s\u00e9paration en 2022<\/b><\/h2>\n
\nOne of the first reasons for separation might surprise you. It has undoubtedly been highlighted by the coronavirus years, but not only. In fact, 81% of people surveyed about the reason for breakup cite hygiene. Washing hands, failure to shower, bad breath and clothes lying around everywhere are part of the lot. Indeed, it is not pleasant to have someone with doubtful hygiene who leaves scents behind her every time she passes by.<\/p>\n
\nLast of the main reasons for separation: at 50% the absence of love. This does not always result from the first causes cited. It can happen like this, without warning, just because the relationship has changed.<\/p>\n![\"raisons-divorce-rupture-2022-40-ans-et-plus\"](\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/raisons-divorce-rupture-2022-40-ans-et-plus.jpg\" "\\"raisons-divorce-rupture-2022-40-ans-et-plus\\"")
<\/p>\nDes raisons diff\u00e9rentes pour les couples ensemble depuis longtemps<\/b><\/h2>\n
\nThe second reason is the selfishness of the other person. Often, we hope that the other person will change but this behaviour only gets worse over time, until it becomes unbearable. When you are two people, and even more so if there are children, one person thinking mainly about themselves is not possible. This cuts off any romantic spark.<\/p>\n
\nFinally, disagreements about the future, money, work and in-laws. The latter account for around 10% of the causes of divorce.<\/p>\n
\nThis much is certain, married life is not a long peaceful river. Each person must make an effort and communicate. Without communication and without concessions, life as a couple is doomed to fail. So put some water in your wine and do your best to keep your couple going.<\/p>\n