{"id":3847,"date":"2023-07-06T20:26:19","date_gmt":"2023-07-06T20:26:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/?p=3847"},"modified":"2025-04-16T10:46:08","modified_gmt":"2025-04-16T08:46:08","slug":"6-cliches-about-lesbians","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/lesbian-en\/6-cliches-about-lesbians\/","title":{"rendered":"6 clich\u00e9s about lesbians"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!-- rubbish removed -->Lesbians have been making men fantasize for a very long time. And when we talk about fantasies, we also talk about\u2026 cliches. Because many are derived from them. Here are the most common of them.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3823 size-full\" title=\"chloenlindsay-cliches-idees-recues-sur-lesbiennes-xlovecam-2\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/chloenlindsay-sex-cam-live-show-27-492527.jpg\" alt=\"chloenlindsay-cliches-idees-recues-sur-lesbiennes-xlovecam-2\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/chloenlindsay-sex-cam-live-show-27-492527.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/chloenlindsay-sex-cam-live-show-27-492527-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/chloenlindsay-sex-cam-live-show-27-492527-360x270.jpg 360w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Today, I turn into a journalist and I come back to you to share with you the greatest clich\u00e9s about lesbians. To find reliable sources (because here we are serious above all \u2013 most of the time), I therefore went to interview my girlfriends who love pussies, kitties, the mounts of Venus, \u2026 in short, the female sex. You may be surprised by some of them, or by their answers.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s go.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">1 \u2013 Lesbians are always up for <\/span><\/b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><b>a <\/b><\/span><b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">threesome<\/span><\/b><b><\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Ah the famous <\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">threesome which makes more than one dream of it<\/span><\/strong><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> ! And obviously, lesbian women need a man once in a while. Even they secretly fantasize about it! Well no. Like any straight person, a \u00ab\u00a0dyke\u00a0\u00bb doesn\u2019t want a threesome anymore. Being gay doesn\u2019t make you genetically programmed to want a threesome whenever they\u2019re offered it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">So sorry to shatter your dreams. While this practice may be more common among gay people, that doesn\u2019t mean with the opposite sex. According to my friends, they also testify that it is more often the men who propose to them than their colleagues. Which leads us to think that maybe you\u2019re the one who wants it the most, right?! Admit. I won\u2019t judge you, I promise.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">2 \u2013 Who makes the <\/span><\/b><b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">man <\/span><\/b><b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">? Who makes the woman?<\/span><\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">This is the question that makes them jump the most. It\u2019s super intrusive. And that goes back to the heterosexual pattern. Indeed, for many of them, there is no \u201cman\u201d or \u201cwoman\u201d. Already, not all <\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">lesbian couples are made up of a very feminine woman and a more masculine woman. <\/span><\/strong><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Another cliche. There are couples where both partners are ultra sexy and feminine. And others where it\u2019s the other way around.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">And in personalities, it\u2019s the same thing. There is not necessarily a dominant and a dominated. It\u2019s often more of a balance between the two. However, do not believe that everything is perfect, far from it. Like heterosexual cisgender couples, lesbian couples can experience the same issues.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">In any case, when it comes to sex, it\u2019s more of an exchange between the two partners. There is no role. Each is free to do what she wants, with the consent of the other. Each can in turn give pleasure to her partner and then receive it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_3824\" style=\"width: 693px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3824\" class=\"wp-image-3824 size-large\" title=\"yaroslav-shuraev-cliches-sexe-lesbiennes-xlovecam\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/pexels-yaroslav-shuraev-8517055-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"yaroslav-shuraev-cliches-sexe-lesbiennes-xlovecam\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/pexels-yaroslav-shuraev-8517055-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/pexels-yaroslav-shuraev-8517055-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/pexels-yaroslav-shuraev-8517055-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/pexels-yaroslav-shuraev-8517055-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/pexels-yaroslav-shuraev-8517055-1365x2048.jpg 1365w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/pexels-yaroslav-shuraev-8517055-360x540.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/pexels-yaroslav-shuraev-8517055-scaled.jpg 1707w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-3824\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Photo Yaroslav Shuraev<\/span><\/p><\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">3 \u2013 Sex between lesbians is not <\/span><\/b><b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">real <\/span><\/b><b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">sex<\/span><\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">First news ! Learn, if you haven\u2019t already, that sex encompasses a multitude of actions. A blowjob is sex. Sometimes simple erotic caresses are also sex. Friction is sex. And these are just a few examples.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">The idea that you have to have penetration for it to be considered sex is wrong. It is a derivative of this famous patriarchy and its dominance over the female sex through the centuries. And thanks to that, we know for sure that many women, straight or gay, have never experienced carnal pleasure as it should.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Women take great pleasure in intercourse because they know the <\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">erogenous zones<\/span><\/strong><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> that trigger reactions. They take more time to stimulate them to increase sexual desire and <\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">reach heights of intense excitement<\/span><\/strong><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> . With or without penetration. Moreover, according to some surveys, lesbian women have many more orgasms than heterosexual women. On good terms\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">4 \u2013 Lesbians are all masculine and love sports<\/span><\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Do I really have to respond to this received idea\u2026 So, all men drink beer and love football?! It\u2019s kind of the same kind of thinking. If some have a masculine gender, and if others like sports, this is not the case for all. Far from there. And then there are many sporting disciplines, such as dancing or horse riding for example.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">This remains attached to the image of the \u00ab\u00a0butch\u00a0\u00bb lesbian, trucker type and \u00ab\u00a0who makes the man\u00a0\u00bb. However, if I believe my friends, the majority prefer to hang out on the sofa in front of Netflix or Prime Video. And the very idea of \u200b\u200bplaying sports makes them contract their buttocks (and no desire). Moreover, if some women are masculine by virtue of their sporting discipline, this does not mean that they are lesbians. So there is really no connection between these two facts.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3825 size-full\" title=\"clarajoy-lesbian-sex-cliches-xlovecam\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/clarajoy-sex-cam-live-show-18-141818-17.jpg\" alt=\"clarajoy-lesbian-sex-cliches-xlovecam\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/clarajoy-sex-cam-live-show-18-141818-17.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/clarajoy-sex-cam-live-show-18-141818-17-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/clarajoy-sex-cam-live-show-18-141818-17-360x270.jpg 360w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">5 \u2013 Lesbians <\/span><\/b><b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">hate <\/span><\/b><b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">men<\/span><\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">So yes, some ultra bitches hate men. But it\u2019s not the majority of lesbians, far from it! In fact, for the most part, it\u2019s not that they hate them, they\u2019re just not attracted to them. And so they don\u2019t pay attention to them. Which can be hurtful to some male egos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">So no, they don\u2019t hate you. Unless you give them the big shots, with the heavy questions they hear all the time, and you think they\u2019ll automatically be in for a threesome. But they\u2019ll just hate you, not men in general.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Avoid confusing lesbianism and feminism (in addition to \u201cbad\u201d feminism) which are two very different subjects. Not all lesbians are fierce feminists, rejecting all male form. Also avoid sexual clich\u00e9s. No, you won\u2019t make them straight.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">6 \u2013 The chisel, <\/span><\/b><b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">is <\/span><\/b><b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">it true or <\/span><\/b><b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">is it <\/span><\/b><b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">a <\/span><\/b><b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">legend <\/span><\/b><b><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">?<\/span><\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Imagine two women making love makes many men fantasize. And among the positions that mark the most, there is the scissors. Legend ? Truth ? Well, as with every <\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">sex position<\/span><\/strong><\/span><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> , regardless of sexual orientation, it depends on the person. But if I believe the testimonies of my friends, and my personal experience, once the \u201cright angle\u201d is found, they can reach Nirvana.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">The scissor is a winning move when done well. So no, it\u2019s not a legend. Yes, I can already see you smiling from here.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3826 size-full\" title=\"crisnyluv-cliches-idees-received-about-lesbian-xlovecam\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/crisnyluv-sex-cam-live-show-22-507622-3.jpg\" alt=\"crisnyluv-cliches-idees-received-about-lesbian-xlovecam\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/crisnyluv-sex-cam-live-show-22-507622-3.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/crisnyluv-sex-cam-live-show-22-507622-3-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/crisnyluv-sex-cam-live-show-22-507622-3-360x270.jpg 360w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u00ab\u00a0XLoveCam is not responsible for blog content that is claimed <\/span><\/i><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><i>to <\/i><\/span><i><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">be <\/span><\/i><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><i>written <\/i><i>by <\/i><i>an <\/i><i>external party\u00a0\u00bb.<\/i><\/span><i><\/i><i><\/i><i><\/i><i><\/i><i><\/i><i>\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lesbians have been making men fantasize for a very long time. 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