{"id":34201,"date":"2022-11-18T12:26:11","date_gmt":"2022-11-18T11:26:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/?p=34201"},"modified":"2025-05-07T12:30:02","modified_gmt":"2025-05-07T10:30:02","slug":"comment-seduire-une-femme-intelligente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/seduction-en\/comment-seduire-une-femme-intelligente\/","title":{"rendered":"How do you seduce an intelligent woman?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!-- rubbish removed --><b>naive<\/b> young midget<b>. <\/b><b>Besides, women like that are<\/b><b>very attractive because they <\/b><b>push <\/b><b>you (willingly or not) <\/b><b>out of your comfort zone.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-7882 size-large\" title=\"DinnyBrown5-draguer-femme-intelligente-xlovecam\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/DinnyBrown5-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"DinnyBrown5-draguer-femme-intelligente-xlovecam\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/DinnyBrown5-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/DinnyBrown5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/DinnyBrown5-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/DinnyBrown5-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/DinnyBrown5-2048x1365.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Intelligent women are probably the hardest to seduce. Or so you may think. And you know why? Because you underestimate yourself. Since intelligent women tend to impress men, you\u2019re reluctant to take the plunge. Which is a shame, because it\u2019s possible that they\u2019re just waiting for you. What\u2019s more, intelligent, cultured women are often embarrassed by this side of themselves that scares <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/en\/models\/gays\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>men.<\/strong><\/span><\/a> So it\u2019s time to do each other a favor.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019d like to take the plunge and seduce an intelligent <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/en\/words\/wife\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>woman<\/strong><\/span><\/a>, here are a few tips to help you win the heart of this unique creature.<\/p>\n<h2><b>Don\u2019t overdo it<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>If you approach her in a heavy-handed way, you\u2019re starting off on the wrong <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/en\/models\/foot\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>foot<\/strong><\/span><\/a>. And don\u2019t put her on a pedestal. This is the basic rule of seducing an intelligent woman. If you bend over backwards, she\u2019ll take everything for granted and won\u2019t be interested. She also needs a challenge or a laugh. She\u2019ll quickly tire if you\u2019re constantly showing her off. So flatter her, but not too much.<\/p>\n<h2><b>Show your self-confidence<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Whether she\u2019s high-class or more classic, a woman is still a woman. And a woman will always be attracted to a man who is confident. It shows a certain charisma, which is very attractive. So be daring and assertive. If you\u2019re too shy or introverted, you\u2019ll miss your chance.<\/p>\n<p>Put aside your fears and complexes. She\u2019s an intelligent woman, but just because you have a less rewarding job or don\u2019t have the same culture, doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re not worth the same. And if she wants to talk to you, it\u2019s probably because you bring something to the table. Your passions, your personal work, will allow her to escape into another universe.<\/p>\n<h2><b>Take an interest <\/b><b>in her<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Intelligent women tend to be interested in lots of different things. So don\u2019t spend your time talking only about yourself (nobody likes that) and ask her questions about herself. Ask her what kind of reading she does, who her favorite author is, what work she does, what research she does, what plays and concerts she likes to see. She\u2019ll appreciate the attention and feel important. And it will probably open up new horizons for you.<\/p>\n<p>It could be an opportunity for you to learn more about subjects that interest her. A good opportunity to deepen the relationship in a more playful way, since you\u2019ll be doing it together.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-7883 size-large\" title=\"ElizaFlores-draguer-une-intello-xlovecam\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/ElizaFlores-1-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"ElizaFlores-draguer-une-intello-xlovecam\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/ElizaFlores-1-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/ElizaFlores-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/ElizaFlores-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/ElizaFlores-1-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/ElizaFlores-1-2048x1365.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><b>Play up your<\/b><b>differences to make her laugh<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Remember that it\u2019s important to be yourself. Even if you\u2019re different, if you like each other, it\u2019s because those differences bring you closer together. An intelligent woman will have fun with these differences, so play on them to make her laugh. Frankness with a dose of self-mockery can be a winning bingo.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if she tells you about a famous character, a mythical film, an exhibition\u2026 if she tells you ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, don\u2019t hesitate to tell her that you\u2019re lost on the subject and that you can\u2019t follow despite your best efforts! This will make her laugh, and that\u2019s when you should ask her to enlighten you on the subject, because you\u2019re very interested.<\/p>\n<h2><b>Cultivate yourself a little <\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Take the opportunity to brush up on your general culture. By stimulating your neurons, you\u2019ll be able to better grasp certain subtleties or references that the intelligent woman might share with you. She or her friends, if you get the chance to meet them. This will be an additional asset in seducing her a little more.<\/p>\n<p>To do this, use the news, via TV, the Internet or your smartphone. That way, you\u2019ll be up to date with the latest news and won\u2019t be caught off guard during a conversation. Also listen to the radio, with its many debates on different stations, whether on current affairs or history, for example. And finally, watch the must-see movies.<\/p>\n<h2><b>Flirt by SMS<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Without being in total admiration or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/en\/models\/submissive\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>submission<\/strong><\/span><\/a> as I mentioned above, show her that you like her. Forget that she\u2019s an intelligent woman. While she\u2019ll appreciate a few compliments about herself, she\u2019ll like it more if you make her laugh. So funny photos, meme, gif, \u2026 are suggested. Think of a morning hello with a cool emoji. In short, show her you\u2019re thinking about her without being too intrusive.<\/p>\n<h2><b>Try to<\/b><b>be subtle<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Don\u2019t reveal yourself completely to an intelligent woman. Keep a little mystery, she\u2019ll love it. She needs to discover things about you for herself. So be subtle to keep her interested.<\/p>\n<p>For example, flirt by smiling quickly and looking into her eyes from time to time, or give her one sincere compliment rather than five. She\u2019s got to want more after every interaction, and if she\u2019s smart, she\u2019ll probably rise to the challenge to get to know you better.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-7884 size-large\" title=\"EmilySears--draguer-une-intello-xlovecam\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/EmilySears-1024x684.jpg\" alt=\"EmilySears--draguer-une-intello-xlovecam\" width=\"1024\" height=\"684\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/EmilySears-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/EmilySears-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/EmilySears-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/EmilySears-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/EmilySears-2048x1367.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Above all, don\u2019t be afraid to go out with her, because she\u2019s a cultured, beautiful and intelligent woman. Virtually all women love a man\u2019s self-confidence, so play that magic card to melt her heart. Also, try not to be afraid to ask her out for a coffee, because the worst that can happen is that she\u2019ll say a big NO! And you\u2019ll survive, I promise.<\/p>\n<p><i>\u00ab\u00a0XLoveCam is not responsible for blog content that is claimed to be written by an external party.\u00a0\u00bb <\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>naive young midget. Besides, women like that arevery attractive because they push you (willingly or not) out of your comfort zone. 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