{"id":29934,"date":"2020-09-15T15:54:58","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T13:54:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/?p=29934"},"modified":"2025-01-27T12:16:40","modified_gmt":"2025-01-27T11:16:40","slug":"having-a-big-penis-can-ruin-your-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/intimate-health\/having-a-big-penis-can-ruin-your-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Having a big penis can ruin your life!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Many men fantasize about having a big penis. Being well mounted. Having a big package. You get the idea. Many also believe that size is everything when it comes to satisfying your partner. But having a big penis can cause problems. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Having a big penis can be a big problem. And not just during penetration. Contrary to common belief, it\u2019s best not to be too greedy in this area. In fact, while some men show off their 25 cm-long, 5 cm-diameter dicks, that\u2019s far from the standard size. And in porn movies, the angle plays a big part in the rendering of sex.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>In any case, to give you a clearer idea of the \u00ab\u00a0norm\u00a0\u00bb, let\u2019s look at the statistics, which vary from country to country. But on average, worldwide, the average penis size is 13.1 cm long and 11.66 cm in circumference. This figure was determined after a lengthy investigation by psychiatrist David Veale and his colleagues at Kings College London, in 2015, after compiling data from numerous studies on the subject. And for France, according to Statista, the average size of an erect sex is 14.47 centimeters in length. Enough to reassure some of you.<\/p>\n<h2><b>Does size really matter? <\/b><\/h2>\n<p>The average size of a vagina is 6 to 8 cm. Everything else is just a supplement. This makes it possible for almost any man to bring a woman to orgasm without being ridden like a donkey. The rigidity of your member will be far more important than its length. That\u2019s all there is to it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-29935 size-full\" title=\"calvin klein\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/0ed6b51a-4292-4536-b6bf-c1ce99a855a5_original.jpg\" alt=\"calvin klein\" width=\"634\" height=\"854\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So, size really doesn\u2019t matter? In the male mind, it certainly does. Is this due to the influence of pornography, which has made large genitals the ultimate symbol of virility? The fact remains that men are still just as inclined to find out \u00ab\u00a0who\u2019s got the biggest\u00a0\u00bb. All the while forgetting that sometimes, big penis also means big trouble.<\/p>\n<h2><b>\u00ab\u00a0I\u2019ve lost count of the number of women who have refused to sleep with me\u00a0\u00bb. <\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Jules bears witness to this problem. He\u2019s one of those who regret not having a smaller penis. It\u2019s even spoiled some nice encounters for him.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<h4><em>\u00ab\u00a0I\u2019ve lost count of the number of times I\u2019ve brought women home, and they\u2019ve decided not to go any further by pulling down my pants,\u00a0\u00bb he laments, claiming that the situation has always been extremely humiliating for him. <\/em><\/h4>\n<h4><em>\u00ab\u00a0The problem is, as a guy, you grow up with the clich\u00e9 that the bigger the better. Whereas in reality, women don\u2019t necessarily want to deal with a huge penis. My partners reproach them for \u2018hurting\u2019 them, despite my precautions. As a result, I don\u2019t give blowjobs, I keep my intercourse short and tight\u2026 And my pleasure often goes out the window.<\/em><\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>A problem not really shared by S\u00e9bastien, who doesn\u2019t seem to have had too many problems with his huge erectile organ. On the other hand, his fantasy was difficult to realize because it required real preparation: sodomy.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<h4><em>\u00ab\u00a0Most of them had nothing against the practice, or even had already tried it, but refused categorically: either when I proposed for the first time, or even before I expressed the desire to try. As a result, it\u2019s not particularly painful or humiliating in itself\u2026 It\u2019s just been a huge frustration for almost fifteen years. To the point where I thought I\u2019d never be able to find a partner to fulfill what had become my biggest fantasy.<\/em><\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>From the women\u2019s point of view, it\u2019s no dream either. Their answers may surprise you if you firmly believe that a big penis would enable you to make your partner cum every time.<\/p>\n<h2><b>\u00ab\u00a0With my retroverted uterus, penises that are too long are dead.\u00a0\u00bb <\/b><\/h2>\n<p>If having a big penis can be a handicap for a man, it can be a major hindrance for women. Some women can\u2019t even try, on pain of excruciating <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><b>abdominal or vaginal pain<\/b><\/span>. And sex is supposed to give pleasure, not pain. Unless you\u2019re into <a href=\"https:\/\/obsession-addict.fr\/les-differentes-pratiques-du-bdsm\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><b>BDSM<\/b><\/span><\/a>. So they have to find other positions or new techniques.<\/p>\n<p>Delphine is one of those people who often have to find solutions to avoid pain during penetration.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<h4><em>\u00ab\u00a0I have a retroverted uterus, which means that my vagina can\u2019t expand as much as others. So when a penis that\u2019s too long slams into the bottom, it slams straight into my cervix, which is extremely painful. There are only certain positions that are bearable\u00a0\u00bb.<\/em><\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>As a result, the young woman has turned to other methods: \u00ab\u00a0I practice alternative penetration, such as the fist. Of course, it\u2019s wider, but in the end, it\u2019s much more bearable than too deep penetration\u00a0\u00bb. Recently, however, she discovered the <a href=\"https:\/\/ohnut.co\/collections\/ohnut\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><b>Ohnut concept<\/b><\/span><\/a>: a penis buoy that \u00ab\u00a0blocks\u00a0\u00bb penetration to prevent it going too deep. \u00ab\u00a0I haven\u2019t tested it yet, but it intrigues me. If it\u2019s comfortable and effective, it could really change my life\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n<h2><b>\u00ab\u00a0He managed to dislodge my IUD\u00a0\u00bb <\/b><\/h2>\n<p>It has to be said that, in addition to the unpleasant aspect of too deep penetration, this can cause real physical discomfort. Julie has had bitter experience of this with her partner:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<h4><em>\u00ab\u00a0We\u2019ve been together for ten years. Now we know the positions in which we can both take pleasure, and how to prevent his imposing sex from hurting me. But sometimes we \u2018forget\u2019 a bit in the heat of the moment. As a result, last summer I ended up with a bruised cervix, and he even managed to dislodge my IUD. Luckily we realized it very quickly, otherwise it could have been dangerous.<\/em><\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The men who were penetrated were not to be outdone.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<h4>Nassim confirms: <em>\u00ab\u00a0The size of my partners\u2019 sex is a determining factor for me, as I like to be penetrated. I can\u2019t see myself in a relationship with a man whose sex is too big, too long, and who would hurt me every time. I\u2019ve already given it, and ended up with an anal tear\u00a0\u00bb. <\/em><\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Today, there\u2019s no question of him forcing himself to accept penetration if he feels his partner\u2019s size is too great. His comfort comes first.<\/p>\n<h2><b>\u00ab\u00a0I don\u2019t understand how a woman can have pain with a penis\u00a0\u00bb. <\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Fortunately, most men \u00ab\u00a0spoiled by Nature\u00a0\u00bb have their partner\u2019s comfort in mind and are rather delicate in intimate moments. They know they can even go so far as to hurt their other half. So they\u2019re careful. But that doesn\u2019t stop them from feeling frustrated at not being able to let go as they\u2019d like. This is particularly true of Pierre, who finds it hard to understand how he can hurt a woman during penetration, \u00ab\u00a0even if he goes in hard\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<h4><em>\u00ab\u00a0Frankly, women act like sissies just because they\u2019re scared. It\u2019s this fear that blocks them, more than so-called pain. Under the pretext that they\u2019re in pain, it prevents us from letting go and enjoying ourselves\u2026\u00a0\u00bb.<\/em><\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>A somewhat macho, or shall we say phallocentric, reflection. But there\u2019s a good reason for it, he says: \u00ab\u00a0Women make whole kids come out of their vaginas, and they want us to believe that it\u2019s a big b**ch that\u2019s going to hurt them? A way of thinking that proves a certain ignorance of the human body\u2026<\/p>\n<p>And Nadine is deeply annoyed, reminding us that penetration is not the only way to get off.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<h4><em>\u00ab\u00a0When I see men complaining that they can\u2019t let go or sodomize their partner because of the size of their penis, it drives me crazy. They need to stop thinking of us as mere masturbatory aids. <\/em><\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>So if you\u2019re just in the \u00ab\u00a0norm\u00a0\u00bb, don\u2019t worry. You\u2019re more than capable of pleasing a woman.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Many men fantasize about having a big penis. Being well mounted. Having a big package. You get the idea. Many also believe that size is everything when &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":29933,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"Big Penis Problems: Myth or Reality?","_seopress_titles_desc":"Discover the real impact of penis size on intimacy and why bigger isn&#039;t always better. 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