{"id":25627,"date":"2020-11-07T14:11:05","date_gmt":"2020-11-07T14:11:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/?p=25627"},"modified":"2026-07-19T20:44:34","modified_gmt":"2026-07-19T18:44:34","slug":"les-cinq-regles-dor-du-sexe-anal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/intimate-health\/les-cinq-regles-dor-du-sexe-anal\/","title":{"rendered":"Les cinq r\u00e8gles d’or du sexe anal"},"content":{"rendered":"

Recently, we saw how to practice good sodomy<\/a> for the first time. But there are still things you need to know to be sure to nail your first time and avoid discomfort and pain. Here\u2019s everything you still need to know about anal sex\u2026<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

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Let\u2019s start with the 5 golden rules\u2026<\/b><\/h2>\n

1 \u2013 Always use lubricant<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Unlike the vagina, the small amount of mucus produced by the rectum is insufficient for anal penetration. That\u2019s why sodomy should always be accompanied by a good dose of lubricating gel<\/a>. Water-based lubricants or silicone-based gels are compatible with latex condoms and are highly recommended. There is even special anal gel designed for sodomy. They are even more lubricating, and sometimes contain antibacterial agents or substances to relax the anus.<\/p>\n

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2 \u2013 Stop immediately if your partner asks you to stop<\/strong><\/h3>\n

If your partner is too tense or stressed, anal sex will likely hurt them. We\u2019re not saying to stop trying altogether, but not to force it, as that will only give them a bad experience and make them less willing to try again.<\/p>\n

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3 \u2013 Take your time<\/strong><\/h3>\n

When trying sodomy for the first time, go slowly. Don\u2019t be in a hurry, take your time, and the experience will be much better. Don\u2019t force things. If you lubricate the anus properly, a finger or a sex toy should slide in easily. We recommend using your fingers to dilate the anus and arouse your partner.<\/p>\n

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4 \u2013 Communicate with your partner<\/strong><\/h3>\n

As with any sexual activity, communication is key to enjoying sodomy. Talk about what you want to do, discuss your desires first, tell your partner what you like and don\u2019t like. State your preferences, and be receptive to theirs; it\u2019s the best way to have a pleasant and shared anal experience.<\/p>\n

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5 \u2013 Wanting to make sodomy pleasant is not enough<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Read the other four points.<\/p>\n

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