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<\/p>\nWhen we argue, words sometimes go beyond thought. And we regret it. And while it\u2019s possible to ask for forgiveness afterwards, some words hurt more than others, making it harder, if not impossible, to walk away. So what are the two words to avoid at all costs during an argument? <\/b><\/p>\n
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It\u2019s normal to argue when you\u2019re in a relationship. However, it\u2019s important to watch out for certain things\u00a0and avoid unfortunate turns of events that could do too much damage. You\u2019re entitled to reproach your partner for certain things (who isn\u2019t?!), but there are limits. And the two words you shouldn\u2019t use in an argument are \u00ab\u00a0never\u00a0\u00bb and \u00ab\u00a0always\u00a0\u00bb. And why is that? We explain<\/p>\n
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When we\u2019re angry, it\u2019s often hard to contain ourselves, so we tend to use strong words to impress the other person and back up our reproaches. And some of these tend to escalate the situation in an argument. According to the experts, these exaggerations systematically put your interlocutor, who feels cornered, on the defensive.<\/p>\n
Indeed, they give the impression that you\u2019ve been thinking about your action for some time, and have been keeping your ammunition under wraps. never\u00a0\u00bb and \u00ab\u00a0always\u00a0\u00bb are really considered aggressive, and it\u2019s advisable to use more nuanced words like \u00ab\u00a0often\u00a0\u00bb, \u00ab\u00a0sometimes\u00a0\u00bb, \u00ab\u00a0rarely\u00a0\u00bb or \u00ab\u00a0little\u00a0\u00bb. Yes, it\u2019s hard to hold back in the middle of an argument, especially when the other person is blowing you out of proportion. But it\u2019s for your own good. And while it may seem trivial, you\u2019ll see the difference. These adverbs tend to calm tensions a little. Test it out.<\/p>\n
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It would seem that there\u2019s a magic word that can put a stop to any headache in a relationship. So when you feel that things are going too far, and that each of you is going to end up hurt by the other\u2019s words, be strong and take it upon yourself to be the one to put an end to the conflict. Is ego worth more than love?<\/p>\n
When we argue, we tend to play on each other\u2019s weaknesses, which we know all too well. Don\u2019t do that. And if you feel things are getting out of hand, say the magic word: \u00ab\u00a0Ouch\u00a0\u00bb. This magic word will stop the argument in its tracks. By using this word, you show the other person that you\u2019re hurt and that they\u2019ve gone too far. It also shows that you\u2019re not trying to retaliate, but rather to ease tensions.<\/p>\n
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