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<\/p>\nThere are warning signs of divroce or breakup. And this kind of behavior is one of them. So what\u2019s going to lead you straight to separation? <\/b><\/p>\n
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You\u2019re the demonstrative type. And you prove it with lots of little words of love: \u00ab\u00a0My love\u00a0\u00bb, \u00ab\u00a0My angel\u00a0\u00bb, \u00ab\u00a0I miss you already\u00a0\u00bb\u2026 Red alert. According to a recent American study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology<\/strong>, the proliferation of declarations of love and other gestures of affection is evidence of a relationship doomed to failure.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n The study looked at the behavior of 168 couples over a period of 13 years, in other words, over the long term. What emerged was that too much affection is a harbinger of dysfunction in a couple. And when there\u2019s too much, the couple seems to fall apart a few years later. Conversely, less demonstrative lovers are more likely to stay together in the long term. So is the need for demonstration a need for reassurance within the couple? Or to convince oneself of its durability?<\/p>\n \u00ab\u00a0Some people get caught up in the infatuation of the early stages of a relationship, hence the term \u2018love makes you blind\u2019. Yet we know that infatuation, passion, are not possible long-term states,\u00a0\u00bb explains psychologist Mason Roantree in the columns of The Independent. \u00ab\u00a0Once that\u2019s gone, you have to look at what\u2019s left between the two people, and if there\u2019s no connection other than passion, then the relationship is likely to fall apart.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n This would happen in several stages. First comes disillusionment. Once the passion wears off, you open your eyes to who the other person really is. If, on top of this, a routine sets in, it can quickly be fatal and lead to a break-up. Disillusionment often leads to disappointment. And if the latter is repetitive, with no renewal of positive feelings, it\u2019s all over. That\u2019s why some people multiply their tokens of affection to compensate for a lack. And therein lies the problem. Affection alone isn\u2019t enough to keep a couple together. It takes more than that to make a relationship work. So while this technique is reassuring at first, it\u2019s only camouflaging an emptiness that will most likely lead to a break-up.<\/p>\nA sign of things to come<\/b><\/h2>\n
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