{"id":15846,"date":"2024-01-10T16:05:07","date_gmt":"2024-01-10T16:05:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/?p=15846"},"modified":"2025-09-12T12:39:58","modified_gmt":"2025-09-12T10:39:58","slug":"le-facesitting-ou-queening-un-plaisir-sur-lequel-on-sassoit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/bdsm-en\/le-facesitting-ou-queening-un-plaisir-sur-lequel-on-sassoit\/","title":{"rendered":"Facesitting (or queening), a pleasure to sit on"},"content":{"rendered":"

Are<\/b>you <\/b>curious<\/b>about<\/b>new sexual practices and have you heard of facesitting <\/b>(also known as face-sitting <\/b>or queening<\/b>)<\/b>? <\/b>This<\/b>very naughty <\/b>kink<\/b>has a highly <\/b>erotic<\/b>power <\/b>and<\/b> is gaining more and morefollowers<\/b>.<\/p>\n

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What is facesitting?<\/b><\/h2>\n

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This practice is finding more and more followers, particularly among couples who practice BDSM. Let\u2019s remember that all sexual practices, whether from this universe or not, must be consensual<\/strong><\/span><\/a>. It\u2019s essential to communicate openly with your partner and establish limits and safety signals.<\/p>\n

What pleasures and sensations <\/b>can you experience with<\/b> queening?<\/b><\/h2>\n

Queening provides a variety of satisfactions and excitements for everyone involved. For the dominant person, she can exercise total control over clitoral stimulation, choosing the rhythm, movement and timing of the orgasm. For the submissive, the pleasure lies in being dominated and losing all control<\/strong><\/span><\/a>, as well as in the stimulating sensations of contact with the anus or genitals.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s worth noting that facesitting can present risks of suffocation and asphyxiation, so it\u2019s important to take appropriate precautions to avoid any danger.<\/p>\n

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How do you get started in facesitting?<\/b><\/h2>\n

If you\u2019re interested in facesitting, it\u2019s essential to broach the subject with your partner and explain your desires and motivations. You can choose to practice in the dark or with subdued lighting if you feel shy or have body complexes.<\/p>\n

When practicing, be sure to use your knees so as not to crush your partner completely and maintain optimum balance. You can also lean on a wall or headboard for support. Vary positions and movements for a more pleasurable experience, and adapt the stimulation to your preferences. Be creative and explore your imagination to discover new sensations.<\/p>\n

How to use it?<\/b><\/h2>\n

Discuss <\/b>it <\/b>with<\/b> your partner<\/b><\/h3>\n

Talk openly about your desires and suggest that you explore this position together. You can also reduce your exposure by turning off the lights or creating a subdued atmosphere.<\/p>\n

Use<\/b> your knees <\/b><\/h3>\n

Use your knees for support and make undulating movements rather than sitting directly on your partner\u2019s head to avoid any danger.<\/p>\n

Use<\/b> the<\/b>headboard <\/b><\/h3>\n

Use the wall or headboard to maintain your balance and focus your attention on pleasure rather than balance.<\/p>\n

Play with<\/b>movement <\/b>intensity <\/b>and pressure <\/b><\/h3>\n

Experiment with slow movements, circles and guide your partner towards the oral caresses you enjoy. Control pressure, intensity and depth to suit your preferences.<\/p>\n

Set up<\/b> a signal <\/b><\/h3>\n

To reassure your partner about possible face-crushing, set up a signal for him or her to ask for a break, such as a pat on your thigh or a wave of the hand.<\/p>\n

Try out<\/b>different positions <\/b><\/h3>\n

Experiment with front, back and side positions to find out which works best for you.<\/p>\n

Share<\/b> your <\/b>feelings<\/b><\/h3>\n

Let your partner know that you\u2019re enjoying the practice, and don\u2019t hesitate to compliment each other during the act.<\/p>\n

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Whatabout<\/b>precautions <\/b>?<\/b><\/h2>\n

As mentioned above, queening carries risks of asphyxiation, especially when practiced intensively. It\u2019s crucial to maintain open communication with your partner and establish clear boundaries. Choose a safety word or signal to indicate if you feel discomfort or danger during practice. Breathing movements must always be assured, and the safety of both partners is paramount. Basic knowledge of first aid and CPR is also recommended. In the event of a problem, don\u2019t delay in calling for help.<\/p>\n

A final word<\/strong><\/h2>\n

It\u2019s important to stress that facesitting can be practiced in a gentle way, without necessarily including more intense BDSM elements such as erotic asphyxiation or torture. Everyone can choose the elements that correspond to their personal desires and limits.<\/p>\n

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