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The study \u2018Brazil is the country of sex\u2019, carried out by the sex shop Miess, underlines that the practice is more frequent among young Brazilian women. After all, a good sex party, it relaxes!<\/strong><\/p>\n

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September 6 is Sex Day in Brazil. Created in 2008 to raise awareness about the importance of using condoms and breaking taboos in relationships, the date is always remembered on social networks. A particular observation on the subject: a large number of people simulate orgasms.<\/p>\n

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According to the survey Brasil \u00e9 o Pa\u00eds do Sexo, conducted by the sex shop Miess, 62.9% of Brazilian women tend to simulate orgasms during sex. Those who have never done it are 26.7%. This practice is more common among women aged 25 to 35 years. A survey also indicates an incidence of false orgasms that decreases with age, becoming extremely rare after age 46. According to the study, this is because maturity brings the desire for pleasure in a more visceral and sincere way.<\/p>\n

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Why do women fake orgasms?<\/h2>\n

Conducted in the United Kingdom, the Archives of Sexual Behavior<\/em> survey showed an alarming result: only 35% of heterosexual women surveyed managed to cum during sex. In addition, 75% had false orgasms \u2013 a number close to that of Brazilian women.<\/p>\n

According to Miess, several factors contribute to this situation. The main one is the difficulty to reach climax, which can take time. And, in many cases, the partner has difficulty getting the woman to climax during sex.<\/p>\n

This is related to another justification given by the women in the study: boredom. For psychologist and sexologist Erika de Paula, the main female reason for faking orgasms is to end unsatisfying sex. \u00ab\u00a0Although it is less and less common, because there is a greater priority given to female pleasure, unfortunately many women still fake it,\u00a0\u00bb she says.<\/p>\n

Among other reasons pointed out by the study are insecurity and the desire to please the partner. After all, there is a concept that sex can\u2019t end without an orgasm. \u00ab\u00a0There\u2019s the idea of this ejaculationplete with sounds, which shows satisfying sex, and it\u2019s not real,\u00a0\u00bb explains sexologist Julia Cepeda, of the Share Your Sex platform.<\/p>\n

Other factors discovered by the Miess survey are the difficulty of reaching orgasm and even not knowing what it is, never having reached it. According to \u00c9rika, if these difficulties are recurrent, it is recommended to call a professional to investigate the causes.<\/p>\n

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And when the partner perceives the false orgasm?<\/h2>\n

\u00ab\u00a0The person is responsible for her orgasm and the other person will help her find it,\u00a0\u00bb explains \u00c9rika. In this way, she points to self-knowledge so that the woman understands what satisfies her sexually. And, of course, communication with the partner.<\/p>\n

In another bias, the study also points out that half of the men can identify when the woman simulates orgasm. Signs that help them understand include body language, lack of contractions and even sounds like moans and cries.<\/p>\n

This can cause discomfort to the couple, leading to unnecessary fights. And when the man doesn\u2019t realize it, it hurts the quality of the sex. \u00ab\u00a0The partner doesn\u2019t know you\u2019re faking it, and the next time, he\u2019ll do the same thing, and expect you to climax every time and keep faking it,\u00a0\u00bb Cepeda says.<\/p>\n

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And men, do they pretend to have orgasms?<\/h2>\n

Despite the fact that the act of faking an orgasm is more common among women, those who believe that men do not do it are mistaken. According to the Miess study, 25% of men surveyed adopt the practice. Yes, men can fake it too to finish faster!<\/p>\n

Sexologist Paula Napolitano explains that the reason is the high pressure on men to have sex \u2013 whether to always have sexual desire or to achieve orgasms.<\/p>\n

More men experience this than you might think. Among them is 33-year-old John (not his real name), \u00ab\u00a0I was always in a hurry to have an active sex life. Since I was always shy, it took me a while to start having sex and unfortunately my partners were not patient with a guy who was still learning,\u00a0\u00bb he says.<\/p>\n

For him, this impatience with first partners and the comparison to pornography were complicating factors in the beginning of their sex life. \u00ab\u00a0Sex in porn shows a rather unrealistic view and that made me have a completely false view on the subject. I was anxious and apprehensive about not being the same as the actors. with a more open woman,\u00a0\u00bb he reports. After he began to feel more comfortable with sexual performance, John stumbled upon another taboo: the need to reach orgasm.<\/p>\n

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\u00ab\u00a0I had a partner I couldn\u2019t have an orgasm with and she felt very uncomfortable,\u00a0\u00bb he recalls.<\/em><\/h6>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Paula Napolitano points out that not enjoying or reaching orgasm is a taboo equivalent to teasing. As a result, many men avoid talking about it. \u00ab\u00a0What makes men avoid talking about it is the accusation: \u2018you don\u2019t love me\u2019, \u2018you don\u2019t have pleasure with me\u2019,\u00a0\u00bb explains the sexologist.<\/p>\n

For her, this can all be solved with a good conversation \u2013 and John agrees. \u00ab\u00a0I\u2019ve noticed a fake orgasm before and it was uncomfortable. Plus, it can give the person a false sense of what I like, which will only make it worse in future relationships. I prefer to be transparent and always talk,\u00a0\u00bb in conclusion.<\/p>\n

There is also the case where men fake it to get it over with faster, out of boredom. Because if they can\u2019t do the starfish, they can pretend that they have reached orgasm on their side.<\/p>\n

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