{"id":14056,"date":"2024-01-05T13:51:04","date_gmt":"2024-01-05T13:51:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/?p=14056"},"modified":"2024-01-05T13:51:04","modified_gmt":"2024-01-05T13:51:04","slug":"5-choses-que-les-hommes-intelligents-ne-disent-jamais-a-une-femme-nue","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/psychology\/5-choses-que-les-hommes-intelligents-ne-disent-jamais-a-une-femme-nue\/","title":{"rendered":"5 things smart men never say to a naked woman"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Avoid turning your night of love into a persistent nightmare because of a simple clumsiness. It would be a pity to spoil everything over a detail\u2026 So avoid saying certain things to a naked woman. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-14057 size-large\" title=\"5-choses-que-les-hommes-intelligents-ne disent-jamais-\u00e0-une-femme-nue-4\u00e0-ans-et-plus-1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/5-choses-que-les-hommes-intelligents-ne-disent-jamais-a-une-femme-nue-4a-ans-et-plus-1.jpg\" alt=\"5-choses-que-les-hommes-intelligents-ne disent-jamais-\u00e0-une-femme-nue-4\u00e0-ans-et-plus-1\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Communication is the key to having mutually satisfying sex, whether it\u2019s opening night with a new partner or spending a Sunday in bed with the woman who\u2019s been turning you on for years. But for now, we won\u2019t discuss what to say to the woman who\u2019s naked in front of you, but rather what <em>not to<\/em> say.<\/p>\n<p>Why not? Because we\u2019re most vulnerable when we\u2019re naked, and a thoughtless comment at that moment can quickly escalate into a flood of bad things. Because if you get it wrong and say the wrong thing, prepare yourself for the worst. So here are the 5 things not to say to the naked woman standing in front of you.<\/p>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2>1 \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0Aren\u2019t you shaving?\u00a0\u00bb<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s perfectly acceptable to have a <a href=\"https:\/\/piloupilou.fr\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">preference for hair<\/span><\/strong><\/a>. If you can express it empathetically, you can convey that information. But when you do, don\u2019t expect your preference for pubic hair to trump hers. Expect her to have an opinion about your grooming scheme and to be willing, ready and able to accommodate it. But whatever you do, don\u2019t criticize her aesthetics \u2013 or lack thereof \u2013 when you\u2019re in the moment. You\u2019ll make her feel embarrassed.<\/p>\n<p>Studies have shown that women with a more positive body image are fully present in the moment and are more likely to experience greater sexual satisfaction and orgasm frequency. And if that\u2019s your goal, be sure to check out the <strong>sexual positions she wants you to try tonight<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h2>2 \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0So, <em>what<\/em> are you doing at the gym?\u00a0\u00bb<\/h2>\n<p>Again, talking about a woman\u2019s naked body in a way that demonstrates a lack of enthusiasm is like throwing an orgasm-destroying grenade into her brain. When you\u2019re naked, it\u2019s not the time to point out what you perceive as a lack of muscle tone. So don\u2019t. Instead, compliment what you like about her body. She\u2019ll feel good about those parts and be more motivated to look her best for you. Meanwhile, try looking at your best nude to please her too.<\/p>\n<h2>3 \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0So, I\u2019ve got this important meeting tomorrow\u2026. \u00ab\u00a0<\/h2>\n<p>Whether it\u2019s your wife of 20 years or someone you just met on Tinder, the one you\u2019re naked with may be getting naked with someone other than you. You should show her a modicum of reverence when she\u2019s standing around in her Eve outfit. So talk about anything else if you want to say something. You know that feeling when you show kindness to a stranger and they don\u2019t recognize it? Well, it\u2019s like that, but a hundred times worse. Don\u2019t treat her like she\u2019s just another task on your agenda.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-5474 size-large\" title=\"5-choses-que-les-hommes-intelligents-ne disent-jamais-\u00e0-une-femme-nue-4\u00e0-ans-et-plus-2\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/5-choses-que-les-hommes-intelligents-ne-disent-jamais-a-une-femme-nue-4a-ans-et-plus-2.jpg\" alt=\"5-choses-que-les-hommes-intelligents-ne disent-jamais-\u00e0-une-femme-nue-4\u00e0-ans-et-plus-2\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>4 \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0Uh \u2026 what are you doing? \u00ab\u00a0<\/h2>\n<p>We\u2019ve all been there. Your partner tries a sexual move on you, and its effect on your arousal is exactly the opposite of what you were hoping for. Maybe she had a partner who was crazy about\u2026 <em>whatever<\/em>. Maybe she read about it in <em>Cosmo<\/em>. Whatever she\u2019s doing, she\u2019s doing it to make you feel good, from a good intention. Think about this when you ask her to withdraw. \u00ab\u00a0Can I show you something I really like? \u00a0\u00bb is a good way to quickly turn any unwanted maneuver into something more practical.<\/p>\n<h2>5 \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0Not tonight\u00a0\u00bb<\/h2>\n<p>So, you\u2019re with someone whose libido may exceed yours. Mazel Tov! Does that mean you have to take action every time she wants sex? In a word, no. You absolutely have the right to be tired, or even not in the mood. But when you refuse her offer, make sure you make it clear how you feel. A brief \u00ab\u00a0no thanks\u00a0\u00bb may make her think it has something to do with her. As long as it\u2019s just a temporary dip in your desire, explain that it\u2019s not her fault and that you\u2019ll be more than happy to return the favor as soon as your lust returns in full force. If it\u2019s more than temporary, you might want to check out <strong>the best daily libido boosters for men.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-14058 size-large\" title=\"5-choses-que-les-hommes-intelligents-ne disent-jamais-\u00e0-une-femme-nue-4\u00e0-ans-et-plus-3\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/5-choses-que-les-hommes-intelligents-ne-disent-jamais-a-une-femme-nue-4a-ans-et-plus-3.jpg\" alt=\"5-choses-que-les-hommes-intelligents-ne disent-jamais-\u00e0-une-femme-nue-4\u00e0-ans-et-plus-3\" width=\"960\" height=\"639\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re constantly awkward with the person you\u2019re dating, it could be a <a href=\"https:\/\/40-et-plus.fr\/20-signes-precurseurs-de-relations-perdues-davance\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>sign that the relationship<\/strong><\/span><\/a> is doomed\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Avoid turning your night of love into a persistent nightmare because of a simple clumsiness. 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