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Everyone knows that the first date is the hardest to plan. Should you opt for something simple, like a coffee or a drink? Or are you the type who wants to do something a little more\u2026 out-of-the-box? Here are 40 irresistible first-date ideas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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We\u2019ve rounded up all the best first-date ideas, carefully vetted by experts. They\u2019re guaranteed to impress your date with your savvy ideas. And to lay the foundations for a potentially lasting relationship.<\/p>\n

1 \u2013 Take a walk<\/b><\/h2>\n

Yes, sometimes the simplest first date ideas are the best. According to dating app Zoosk\u2019s research on the best date ideas, after dinner and coffee, a walk was the third most popular idea for women aged 30, 50 and 60, and ranked 4th among women in their 20s.<\/p>\n

2 \u2013 Visit a museum<\/b><\/h2>\n

Visiting one or more museums can be a great first date. Many museums are free, affordable or accept donations. This gives the couple a chance to have a little informal chat. And to understand each other\u2019s point of view on life based on art.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s also a sure-fire way of eliminating any awkward silences. There will be an endless supply of great conversation topics all around you. What\u2019s more, many museums have a small caf\u00e9 inside. So, if all goes well, you can prolong the encounter with a sweet treat.<\/p>\n

3 \u2013 Visit a farmers\u2019 market<\/b><\/h2>\n

There are a ton of reasons why this works so well as a first date. First of all, it\u2019s a public place and therefore relatively safe. Plus, it gives socially nervous lovebirds lots of different things to talk about. You can discuss flower, fruit and jam preferences as you stroll and shop together.<\/p>\n

If the date goes well, buy some coffee, fruit or ice cream and sit down somewhere to eat or drink together. If things go really well, buy a few key ingredients too. Then schedule a second date where you\u2019ll cook or prepare the purchased ingredients to enjoy together. What if the date doesn\u2019t go well? You\u2019ve got the perfect excuse to go out: fresh ingredients that need to be put away.<\/p>\n

4 \u2013 Try it at night<\/b><\/h2>\n

Many bars and pubs offer cocktail-themed discussion evenings. So you can show off your pop culture or historical knowledge of the subject. And get into the spirit of playful competition. And to make sure she\u2019s really into you, discover the signs of body language<\/strong><\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

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5 \u2013 Play an escape game<\/b><\/h2>\n

These adventure games in which people get together to use clues and solve various puzzles are incredibly popular right now. They make a fantastic activity for a first date. An escape room is a surefire way to get to know your date fast. You\u2019ll need to use teamwork, and the task at hand will get you both talking without overwhelming each other.<\/p>\n

6 \u2013 Take a hike<\/b><\/h2>\n

If you like being active outdoors, this is a great way to get to know each other. However, avoid trekking in isolation or for hours at a time. Opt instead to find a trail either around your town, in a park or in the countryside. Pack water and a few snacks, dress comfortably and hit the trail. You\u2019ll have plenty of time to chat. What\u2019s more, you\u2019ll be able to judge each other\u2019s spontaneity. And maybe even their physical abilities..<\/p>\n

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7 \u2013 Attend a book reading<\/b><\/h2>\n

If you find intelligence sexy (especially if you\u2019re sapiosexual<\/b><\/span><\/a>), a book reading will help you assess the intellect of your first date. And provide you with something to talk about. It\u2019ll give you something to talk about that isn\u2019t \u00ab\u00a0tell me about yourself\u00a0\u00bb. And you\u2019ll always have an idea about the other person.<\/p>\n

8 \u2013 Go skating<\/b><\/h2>\n

Ice skating or roller skating was a must-do first date in high school for many. Plus, a little physical danger is a great bonding experience.<\/p>\n

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9 \u2013 Play karaoke<\/b><\/h2>\n

Nothing brings us closer to someone than a willingness to share openly and honestly. A demonstration of such vulnerability shows the trust and effort made to get to know someone by first sharing about yourself.<\/p>\n

10 \u2013 Go bowling<\/b><\/h2>\n

Bowling can be a bit wacky (the shoes, the music, the technique). Which means it\u2019s the perfect icebreaker.<\/p>\n

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11 \u2013 Take an art class<\/b><\/h2>\n

This activity can stimulate your creativity and also allow for conversation and connection.<\/p>\n

12 \u2013 Attend a comedy show<\/b><\/h2>\n

A great way to change from the classic drink in a bar or restaurant! Grab a cocktail and take in a comedy show. Having a drink first will help put you at ease and familiarize you. Choose a funny show. But even if it\u2019s not, you\u2019ll have plenty to talk about afterwards.<\/p>\n

13 \u2013 Visit an animal shelter<\/b><\/h2>\n

If you\u2019re an animal lover, one of the best first dates is to visit an animal shelter. They have a selection of animals ranging from cute kittens to komodo dragons. It\u2019s a great way to see how your date interacts with them. Plus, you can often gauge how affectionate someone is by how they treat potential pets.<\/p>\n

14 \u2013 Attend a sporting event<\/b><\/h2>\n

You like sports and know your date? Head to a local game. Both people can get to know each other and react to such events. There\u2019s also plenty going on in case awkward silences appear at first. Note to men: don\u2019t do this if your date doesn\u2019t play sports.<\/p>\n

15 \u2013 Listen to jazz<\/b><\/h2>\n

If your town has a great jazz club (and chances are, it does), take your first date to listen to live music while you sip a cocktail or two. The setting will be more romantic than your typical bar. And you\u2019ll have plenty to talk about between rounds.<\/p>\n

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16 \u2013 Take a cooking class<\/b><\/h2>\n

Again, this is a safe place that offers a shared experience that allows you to discuss many topics. It\u2019s also usually a short period of time. So you can decide whether to extend the meeting or schedule a second date. With something like a pasta-making course, you might suggest a second meeting at an Italian restaurant known for its fresh pasta, for example.<\/p>\n

17 \u2013 Go see a psychic<\/b><\/h2>\n

What better way is there to find out if you\u2019re destined to be together forever?<\/p>\n

18 \u2013 Discover a street or a music festival<\/b><\/h2>\n

You\u2019d be surprised how many of these events there are. And they make excellent first-date destinations. It\u2019s pretty easy to find a festival within a few miles if you look hard enough. They often involve free entertainment, good food, games and rides. And, if nothing else, you can people-watch.<\/p>\n

19 \u2013 Make a Drive-In or Outdoor Movie<\/b><\/h2>\n

Watching a movie isn\u2019t usually ideal for a first date. Indeed, it\u2019s pretty hard to have a conversation in a crowded theater. A drive-in, or plein air, on the other hand, allows a little more intimacy so you can discuss your favorite scenes.<\/p>\n

20 \u2013 Visit a botanical garden<\/b><\/h2>\n

If time allows, visiting a botanical garden can be a great way to see things when you need to concentrate on what\u2019s in front of you. This way, you don\u2019t have to worry about coming back to the subject at hand when the conversation is interrupted.<\/p>\n

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21 \u2013 Take a wine tasting course<\/b><\/h2>\n

Many wine stores and bars offer wine-tasting evenings. This can be a fun way to socialize while getting to know each other at the same time. If you can\u2019t find a class near you, set one up in a restaurant with a few different bottles of wine.<\/p>\n

22 \u2013 Dare to go to the beach<\/b><\/h2>\n

If you have access to a beach, this is a good idea to try. In Zoosk\u2019s research on first date ideas, women of all ages mentioned the beach as one of their most romantic places.<\/p>\n

23 \u2013 Create your own culinary tour<\/b><\/h2>\n

If you feel like getting really creative, try this. Order an aperitif at a local venue. Then go to another place and share another aperitif. Keep going until you\u2019re full! You\u2019ll learn about your date\u2019s food tastes. Plus, it\u2019s a fun way to try different things together.<\/p>\n

24 \u2013 Have a Sunrise or Sunset Meetup<\/b><\/h2>\n

Get together to watch the sunrise or sunset. It\u2019s not only romantic, it\u2019s also a great way to hold a conversation \u2013 sometimes a very deep one \u2013 while admiring the beauty of something we often take for granted.<\/p>\n

25 \u2013 Visit the zoo<\/b><\/h2>\n

Similar to the botanical garden idea, this shifts the focus to something else. This can help eliminate the first date awkwardness that sometimes occurs.<\/p>\n

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26 \u2013 Enjoy some desserts<\/b><\/h2>\n

Choose the best dessert spot in town yourself. Going from place to place on tour can get you sampling deserts while chatting. You can also book a cupcake tour or something similar if it\u2019s offered in your area. Although one-on-one can make some people nervous, going with a small group can make things easier if you need a bit to come out of your shell.<\/p>\n

27 \u2013 Have a picnic in the park<\/b><\/h2>\n

When the weather\u2019s nice, there\u2019s nothing better than an outdoor picnic in your local park. Gather some fruit, cheese, crackers and wine and you\u2019re all set. Dinner in a fancy restaurant is nice. But it\u2019s much more thoughtful, even intimidating.<\/p>\n

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28 \u2013 Go for a bike ride<\/b><\/h2>\n

Or do just about any other physical activity you both enjoy. Not only will you be able to do something you\u2019d normally do and talk about how you train. And you\u2019ll also be able to interview the other person in sportswear.<\/p>\n

29 \u2013 Discover a trampoline park<\/b><\/h2>\n

It\u2019s pretty hard not to have fun jumping around in a room full of trampolines. These indoor parks are popping up everywhere. They add a little thrill and fun to your first date. Plus, you\u2019ll see if your date is capable of having a good time and not taking himself too seriously.<\/p>\n

30 \u2013 Take your first date to a bookstore<\/b><\/h2>\n

Visit each other\u2019s bookstores, highlighting your favorite books and explaining why they\u2019re important to you along the way. Many bookshops these days have caf\u00e9s, so you can always start or end with a cup of coffee.<\/p>\n

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31 \u2013 Try a dance class<\/b><\/h2>\n

It\u2019s a fun way to engage, get some exercise and find out how you move as a couple. Even if neither of you is a great dancer at first, learning a new skill together is a sure-fire way to gauge your compatibility.<\/p>\n

32 \u2013 Go to a concert<\/b><\/h2>\n

Just like a sporting event, there are times when you don\u2019t need to talk. It\u2019s a chance to have fun moving around and singing along to the music.<\/p>\n

33 \u2013 Discover a neighborhood you\u2019ve never been to before<\/b><\/h2>\n

If you live in a big city, chances are there are parts of your town you\u2019ve never been to before. Maybe there\u2019s even a major tourist attraction in your city that you\u2019ve never visited. Meet your first date there and explore.<\/p>\n

34 \u2013 <\/b>Play arcade games<\/h2>\n

Bars are popping up everywhere, filled with arcade games. You can often play for free if you buy a drink or two, and friendly competition is a great way to see if there\u2019s a spark.<\/p>\n

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35 \u2013 Volunteering together<\/b><\/h2>\n

Do good together. Volunteering meetings for an organization are a great way to see if you share the same values and morals. You can observe how the other interacts with other volunteers, whether he\/she is adaptable or needs structure. And if your first date is willing to try something new by interacting with people who wouldn\u2019t otherwise be part of his\/her social circle.<\/p>\n

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36 \u2013 Mix your meals<\/b><\/h2>\n

This takes the pretense out of the typical restaurant date. It\u2019s hard to take yourself too seriously when you\u2019re eating croissants for dinner.<\/p>\n

37 \u2013 Take a walk and photograph what you love<\/b><\/h2>\n

This idea is easy to DIY. Grab your smartphone and go for a walk. Talk while taking photos of what you love. Then sit down and compare what you took and why you liked it.<\/p>\n

38 \u2013 Have brunch on your first date<\/b><\/h2>\n

All-day dates are seriously underrated. And brunch is an easy way to test them out if you haven\u2019t already. Choose a restaurant that offers extraordinary cuisine and a lively atmosphere that will inspire conversation. Plus, you\u2019re signaling to your potential partner that you\u2019re not just involved in what goes on in the bedroom.<\/p>\n

39 \u2013 Go kayaking<\/b><\/h2>\n

For outdoor enthusiasts, this is a great way to spend a day. Ideally, rent a kayak for two, so you can be close to each other and communicate on the magnificent natural sites.<\/p>\n

40 \u2013 Buy ice cream<\/b><\/h2>\n

You can safely say that you and your potential have been on a million first dates in a caf\u00e9. But have you ever been on a date with ice cream? Probably not. Grab a cone and take a walk.<\/p>\n

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