{"id":12365,"date":"2023-12-29T13:43:29","date_gmt":"2023-12-29T13:43:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/?p=12365"},"modified":"2023-12-29T13:43:29","modified_gmt":"2023-12-29T13:43:29","slug":"10-facons-intelligentes-de-dire-je-t-aime-avec-des-actions-pas-des-mots","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/seduction-en\/10-facons-intelligentes-de-dire-je-t-aime-avec-des-actions-pas-des-mots\/","title":{"rendered":"10 smart ways to say \u00ab\u00a0I love you\u00a0\u00bb with actions, not words"},"content":{"rendered":"

How to show your affection and put passions to the test\u2026 Do you feel the urge to give your wife a little more attention and affection? Well, assuming you delete the four-letter word enough, do it. The vast majority of women really need to hear the words \u00ab\u00a0I love you\u00a0\u00bb, but there are many things you can do that are almost as effective.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Whether it\u2019s helping out more around the house or making more room for your in-laws, here are the ten best ways to show your love, tell her \u00ab\u00a0I love you\u00a0\u00bb and keep your passions in check. And if you\u2019re looking for more kind words she\u2019ll always appreciate, don\u2019t forget the 13 sexiest things you can say to a woman<\/strong><\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

1 \u2013 Focus on her<\/h2>\n

Step away from the smartphone. <\/strong>Give her your full attention. This doesn\u2019t mean just sitting on the sofa watching TV together, because then Netflix doesn\u2019t draw your attention to your partner. Turn off the TV, look at each other and talk to each other with all the electronics put away. Take a walk, go out to eat or simply relax on the sofa and catch up. It doesn\u2019t matter what you\u2019re doing, but the fact that you\u2019re devoting all your time to her counts for part of the day.<\/p>\n

2 \u2013 Set reminders<\/h2>\n

Seriously. If you\u2019re not the kind of guy who randomly thinks of fun little surprises for your partner and remembers to do them, set calendar reminders so you don\u2019t forget. Sure, it takes away some of the spontaneity, but it\u2019s better than doing nothing at all. Let technology be your friend! Identify all the significant specific dates over the next six months, as well as four to six arbitrary dates for action. Then assign an actionable item for each date, such as giving fresh flowers, planning a fun date night or getting her the handbag she\u2019s been eyeing for months. Set reminders on your phone, and when something pops up, do it. Easy, right? She\u2019ll understand that you\u2019re saying \u00ab\u00a0I love you\u00a0\u00bb by your actions.<\/p>\n

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3 \u2013 Really listen, without giving advice, to say \u00ab\u00a0I love you\u00a0\u00bb<\/h2>\n

Ask her how her day went and listen to her uninterrupted and validate how she felt if something upsetting happened, rather than giving advice. For example, if she says she had a bad day because her boss moved up an unexpected deadline, a validating statement would sound something like this: \u00ab\u00a0It makes sense that you\u2019d feel stressed. Deadline changes are the worst\u00a0\u00bb. And what shouldn\u2019t you say? \u00ab\u00a0Why didn\u2019t you push back? You have to stand up for yourself\u00a0\u00bb. While an answer giving advice may seem more logical to you, sometimes you need to be there just to listen and commiserate with your partner. This is often the hardest thing for men to do, but if you can listen without fuss, it will show him that you really love him.<\/p>\n

4 \u2013 Learn to apologize<\/h2>\n

This is only when you\u2019ve made a mistake, of course. But everyone makes mistakes. The key here is to learn how to do it effectively and in a way that shows you respect and love her. Learning to apologize sincerely is a great way to say \u00ab\u00a0I love you\u00a0\u00bb and help many couples reduce resentment and conflict. The key elements of a good apology? Expressing regret, taking responsibility, making amends, showing remorse and asking forgiveness. It turns out that something like, \u00ab\u00a0I\u2019m sorry. I feel I did that and I was wrong. Can you forgive me?\u00a0\u00bb goes a long way in the other person\u2019s mind. Important when you want to say \u00ab\u00a0I love you\u00a0\u00bb\u2026<\/p>\n

5 \u2013 Give, a beautiful way to say \u00ab\u00a0I love you<\/h2>\n

Sometimes you just have to do what she wants. Did she want you to cut your hair, wear gingham or get rid of your favorite sneakers because they smelled bad? Maybe you\u2019ve resisted because you don\u2019t agree, but if it\u2019s something that doesn\u2019t really concern you, you should let it go. Show her you love her by giving in and letting her win this one. Kick off those smelly shoes, buy some gingham and wear it with a smile, and cut your hair or shave your beard the way she wants. Either way, show her that she\u2019s more important than you by sticking to something less important, graciously giving up. Also be sure to read the 10 secrets to keeping your wife happy<\/span><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

6 \u2013 Help her around the house, a great way to say \u00ab\u00a0I love you\u00a0\u00bb<\/h2>\n

It sounds obvious, but it really works. Sometimes something as simple as taking out the trash or loading the dishwasher after dinner can send a much-needed \u00ab\u00a0we\u2019re in this together\u00a0\u00bb signal. What\u2019s more, that\u2019s not the only benefit of taking part in household chores. Research shows that men who help around the house report better and more frequent sex.<\/p>\n

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7 \u2013 Take care of your family to say \u00ab\u00a0I love you\u00a0\u00bb<\/h2>\n

In-laws aren\u2019t everyone\u2019s favorite family members, but showing them some attention is a surefire way to let your partner know how you feel. Taking the time and effort to deepen your relationships with the people who matter to her is a great way to show that you love her. She\u2019ll feel a sense of security and inner awareness knowing you\u2019re in her life. Call or e-mail someone she loves, or simply ask her about a family member you know is important to her. For example, if her mother\u2019s birthday is coming up, you could simply ask: \u00ab\u00a0Are you thinking of anything special for your mother\u2019s birthday?\u00a0\u00bb. She\u2019ll feel grateful and loved. A great way to tell her \u00ab\u00a0I love you\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n

8 \u2013 Allow her to influence you<\/h2>\n

One of the best ways to show your partner that you love her is to let her influence you on occasion \u2013 in a healthy way, of course. Allowing her to influence you means finding a way to see your significant other\u2019s point of view as valid. Even if you think you\u2019re right about something, try to be open-minded to her side of things. Accepting influence happens when you\u2019re open to seeing a problem from the other person\u2019s point of view, and you\u2019re able to think about how that person might feel about the situation. Accepting influence means finding a way to say \u00ab\u00a0yes\u00a0\u00bb, \u00ab\u00a0that makes sense\u00a0\u00bb or \u00ab\u00a0I\u2019ve never thought of it that way before, let\u2019s do it your way\u00a0\u00bb. Being right is good, but having a happy partner is better.<\/p>\n

9 \u2013 Stay curious<\/h2>\n

You may feel like you know everything about your partner, but chances are you really don\u2019t. Losing curiosity about your partner is an easy way to find yourself in a relationship offense. When you delve among the hidden treasures that dwell deep in your partner\u2019s memory, she\u2019ll feel incredibly special. If you\u2019re wondering where to start, a good way to show curiosity is to ask detailed questions about her childhood that you may not yet know.<\/p>\n

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10 \u2013 Ask her what makes her feel loved<\/h2>\n

Sometimes the best way is the most obvious. If you don\u2019t know what kind of things make your partner feel loved, ask her. You may think you\u2019re doing the best job ever of conveying love, but if you\u2019re doing it in a way your partner misses, it doesn\u2019t matter. If you\u2019re good at sending flowers and cards but your partner responds well to an after-dinner board game, what matters is setting aside time for shared activities, however beautiful they may be, especially if she needs physical affection to feel loved and doesn\u2019t get enough of it. She\u2019ll know you\u2019re saying \u00ab\u00a0I love you\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n

Now, for more relationship advice, here are 25 ways to be happier right now. <\/strong><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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