{"id":12059,"date":"2023-12-29T09:03:04","date_gmt":"2023-12-29T09:03:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/?p=12059"},"modified":"2023-12-29T09:03:04","modified_gmt":"2023-12-29T09:03:04","slug":"decouvrez-les-10-secrets-pour-garder-votre-femme-heureuse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/nl\/psychologie-nl\/decouvrez-les-10-secrets-pour-garder-votre-femme-heureuse\/","title":{"rendered":"Discover the 10 secrets to keeping your wife happy&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Will you ever be a good husband? Tell yourself two good things: your wife will get the partner she deserves, and you\u2019ll get the satisfaction and, oh yes, the sex you\u2019ve been dreaming of. Follow these tips for more sex, boundless joy and clean underwear and keep your wife happy. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-12060 size-large\" title=\"D\u00e9couvrez-les-10-secrets-pour-garder-votre-femme-heureuse-40-ans-et-plus-1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/decouvrez-les-10-secrets-pour-garder-votre-femme-heureuse-1.jpg\" alt=\"D\u00e9couvrez-les-10-secrets-pour-garder-votre-femme-heureuse-40-ans-et-plus-1\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Feedback from a husband.<\/p>\n<h2>1 \u2013 Kill \u00ab\u00a0never\u00a0\u00bb and \u00ab\u00a0always\u00a0\u00bb<\/h2>\n<p>When arguing with your wife, don\u2019t use either of these two words. First of all, they\u2019re not technically accurate. But, more importantly, they\u2019re words that speak of essence. Instead of these indicting adverbs, use enhancing words and phrases, such as \u00ab\u00a0sometimes or how I feel\u00a0\u00bb or \u00ab\u00a0I wish\u00a0\u00bb. Fine, they\u2019re soft, but guess what? The best husbands are actually a little more sensitive to their wives\u2019 feelings than the average mate. By the way, the words are never and always great when you compliment her, as in \u00ab\u00a0You never fail to amaze me\u00a0\u00bb or \u00ab\u00a0I always love going under your blouse\u00a0\u00bb. And if your relationship is just getting started, don\u2019t miss the 13 sexiest things you can say to her.Easy to make your woman happy!<\/p>\n<h2>2 \u2013 Work on the reunion<\/h2>\n<p>Let\u2019s face it, you\u2019re not really focusing on her, are you? She\u2019s only getting a small portion of your attention. Not good enough.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t panic. Men can\u2019t be \u00ab\u00a0in\u00a0\u00bb every moment. The secret is to \u00ab\u00a0marry\u00a0\u00bb your limited supply of attention and save it for deployment at decisive moments. Your key moments are reunions. Take a few seconds and give yourself over to her every time you meet her. For a while, maybe two, claim her with your eyes. Look at her in a way that says: \u00ab\u00a0I\u2019m happy to be home, back in our powerful secret. This kind of subtle but daily maintenance keeps the engine running. And for more great relationship tips, here are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/nl\/15-facons-dimpressionner-nimporte-quelle-femme\/#pll_switcher\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>15 ways to impress any woman.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-12061 size-full\" title=\"D\u00e9couvrez-les-10-secrets-pour-garder-votre-femme-heureuse-40-ans-et-plus-2\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/decouvrez-les-10-secrets-pour-garder-votre-femme-heureuse-2.jpg\" alt=\"D\u00e9couvrez-les-10-secrets-pour-garder-votre-femme-heureuse-40-ans-et-plus-2\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>3 \u2013 Laugh with her<\/h2>\n<p>One of the most affirming things one person can do for another is to laugh at the other\u2019s attempts at humor. Many husbands, over time, forget this greeting. Your wife isn\u2019t funny? What\u2019s wrong with that? Neither is your idiot boss, but you laugh at his lame attempts at humor. Why are you laughing? Because you\u2019re trying to prove you respect him. It\u2019s the same here. Laughter is tonic for a woman\u2019s woes. And remember: healthy communication is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/nl\/les-secrets-des-meilleures-relations\/#pll_switcher\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>the foundation of the best relationships<\/strong><\/span><\/a>. It\u2019s easy to make a woman happy!<\/p>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2>4 \u2013 Make the lion roar<\/h2>\n<p>From time to time, husbands need to become fierce and defiant. It won\u2019t happen often, but when you\u2019re in a confrontational situation, where reason and sweet words have failed \u2013 a conflict with a teacher, a supplier, a bill collector, your neighbor, your mother \u2013 be ready to bark in unambiguous defense of your family. Don\u2019t fear this obligation. Your wife\u2019s affection for you will diminish if you do.<\/p>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2>5 \u2013 Be a bit of a boy<\/h2>\n<p>Yes, this goes against the previous carnivorous idea, but a husband is versatile: he can kick the ball and pluck the wedge. Gentleness and kindness and tenderness and all those traits that aren\u2019t very useful in the marketplace are pure gold when it comes to being a husband. A good husband relies on his wife, values her advice, trusts her to love him even when he\u2019s not in charge. We\u2019re most human when we\u2019re hurt or lost. Fred Rogers once said that the best gift you can give someone is to graciously receive their help. It enriches everyone, giver and receiver. Every now and then, wrap your arms around your wife and whisper that you\u2019re confused. Let her help you find your way. If you\u2019re stressed, don\u2019t be afraid to open up.<\/p>\n<h2>6 \u2013 She needs closeness to feel sexual. You need sex to feel close<\/h2>\n<p>This is the fundamental, impenetrable puzzle of love. Great husbands have this reality in mind at all times. However, it might be worth checking out the 13 sexiest things you can say to a woman.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-12062 size-full\" title=\"D\u00e9couvrez-les-10-secrets-pour-garder-votre-femme-heureuse-40-ans-et-plus-3\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/decouvrez-les-10-secrets-pour-garder-votre-femme-heureuse-3.jpg\" alt=\"D\u00e9couvrez-les-10-secrets-pour-garder-votre-femme-heureuse-40-ans-et-plus-3\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>7 \u2013 Be more sensitive<\/h2>\n<p>Apparently, men touch their wives too little. Non-sexual touch is a powerful and underused endorsement of another soul. As you head for the door, give her arm a quick double squeeze. When you\u2019re on your way to a party or your table, put a light but steady hand on the small of her back. Nothing special while she\u2019s standing by the sink washing dishes, walk up behind her and give her a kiss on the back of the head. This should be more than a peck, make it last 1.4 seconds. Add a little grunt of gratitude; her message is only this: \u00ab\u00a0I\u2019m a lucky man.\u00a0\u00bb Don\u2019t linger behind her. No arms. No trace of pelvic need. She\u2019ll get cranky if she suspects you\u2019re enjoying dessert while she\u2019s scraping chicken gunk off a baking dish. Just lay the husband\u2019s kiss on her little beast and get out of there. She\u2019ll feel valued. And you\u2019ll make a happy woman.<\/p>\n<h2>8 \u2013 See the coffee mug<\/h2>\n<p>The perfect husband understands that women are often confused by unimportant things, as in the unwashed coffee cup that\u2019s been in the sink for days. Few wives understand that it\u2019s not that men don\u2019t see the coffee cup and choose not to rinse it, but that the neural link between their eyeballs and their brains prevents us from seeing the cup. The biology of gender, which explains why you don\u2019t see the cup, boils down to this: men have many more important things on their minds. Will the bills be paid? A chance to make<\/p>\n<p>Another complaint: men don\u2019t help around the house enough. Guilty as charged. But here\u2019s the solution: do more. Not much more, just a little more. One of the best things about women is that they really appreciate the smallest sign that you\u2019re trying. They\u2019re effort-oriented. Try walking around a room with a woman\u2019s mind. Imagine your brain has room for trivialities like unwashed mugs. Still looking for marital advice? Here are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/nl\/les-7-facons-de-faire-durer-votre-mariage-pour-toujours\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>7 ways to make your marriage last forever.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>9 \u2013 It ain\u2019t broke, so don\u2019t fix it<\/h2>\n<p>People rarely change unless they feel accepted as they are. Once people feel they don\u2019t have to change, growth happens.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-12063 size-full\" title=\"D\u00e9couvrez-les-10-secrets-pour-garder-votre-femme-heureuse-40-ans-et-plus-4\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/decouvrez-les-10-secrets-pour-garder-votre-femme-heureuse-4.jpg\" alt=\"D\u00e9couvrez-les-10-secrets-pour-garder-votre-femme-heureuse-40-ans-et-plus-4\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>10 \u2013 Play to win<\/h2>\n<p>Sure, you can have a great little partnership by choosing the safe route. But that\u2019s no way to be a good husband. She\u2019s entitled to more.<\/p>\n<p>People often settle for coupling, because they\u2019re afraid that tricky problems will blow up their marriage. They fear they\u2019ll end up alone, living under the bridge behind the high school. Free yourself to play courageously by taking the big risk, divorce. Decide that you meant what you said at the wedding, that this woman, no matter what, is your partner for life. Older couples often say that once they\u2019re past the point of leaving each other, their partnership gets an invigorating second wind. No longer afraid to be alone, they talk. In search of something richer than simple friendship, they explore regrets and grievances. And this can lead to a more spacious marriage, a connection that\u2019s full of heart and well-tempered instead of glued together. It\u2019s so easy to make your wife happy in real life, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n<p>And to keep your wife happy, here are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/nl\/13-secrets-que-vous-devriez-toujours-garder-de-votre-partenaire\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>13 secrets you should keep to yourself<\/strong><\/a>. And if you have a project in common, share it with your loved ones by creating a <a href=\"https:\/\/my.cam\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>free website<\/strong> ( <\/span><\/a>vacation photos, achievements, \u2026).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Will you ever be a good husband? 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