{"id":11367,"date":"2023-12-28T16:31:14","date_gmt":"2023-12-28T16:31:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/?p=11367"},"modified":"2023-12-28T16:32:04","modified_gmt":"2023-12-28T16:32:04","slug":"les-13-choses-les-plus-sexy-que-vous-puissiez-dire-a-une-femme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/milf-en\/les-13-choses-les-plus-sexy-que-vous-puissiez-dire-a-une-femme\/","title":{"rendered":"The 13 sexiest things you can say to a woman"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Relationships can be funny things: one partner may think everything\u2019s fine, and the other may close up like an oyster. One is certain that everything is on track, while the other wonders, \u00ab\u00a0Why don\u2019t we talk anymore?\u00a0\u00bb And more often than not, it\u2019s the women who want more communication, more intimacy, more verbal recognition to prove that men are committed to them. So to reconnect, here are the 13 sexiest things you can say to a woman. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-11368 size-large\" title=\"13-choses-sexy-que-vous-pouvez-dire-a-une-femme-couple-1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/13-choses-sexy-que-vous-pouvez-dire-a-une-femme-couple-1.jpg\" alt=\"lolo_ferrari_xlovecam\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Indeed, when it comes to communication, women are like tropical plants and men like cacti. Studies suggest that the \u00ab\u00a0normal\u00a0\u00bb woman says an average of 7,000 words a day. The average man whispers barely 2,000, and half of these are addressed to customers, colleagues or the hero image on their screen. And it\u2019s this gap between our styles and our verbal needs that can turn a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/10-alertes-qui-montrent-elle-nest-pas-satisfaite-au-lit\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>once hot, sex-packed relationship into a dreary winter\u2019s morning<\/strong><\/span><\/a>. That\u2019s why it\u2019s important to always think \u00ab\u00a0sexy\u00a0\u00bb, and never forget it, even after years of relationship.<\/p>\n<h2><b>A mathematical formula to predict a couple\u2019s future? <\/b><\/h2>\n<p>Want proof? Researchers at the University of Washington claim they can predict with 90% accuracy whether couples will divorce or stay married simply by listening to them talk for a few minutes. After examining data from over 500 couples in discussion, they developed a mathematical model for predicting the likelihood of divorce. . They call it \u00ab\u00a0the Dow Jones industrial average for marital conversations\u00a0\u00bb. A 5:1 ratio of positive to negative comments indicates a healthy marriage, they say. A ratio below that suggests trouble ahead.<\/p>\n<p>So a simple rule is to talk more, share more and be more open with your emotions. But telling a guy to share more is like telling him to eat less meat: a simple concept, but less tasty in practice. The solution is to optimize your communication: a few simple phrases will warm his female heart and a few other intimate places. If things seem a little cold, a little distant, try talking. Here are 13 of the sexiest things you can say to a woman.<\/p>\n<h2>1 \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0I\u2019m so glad we ended up together.\u00a0\u00bb<\/h2>\n<p>Every long-term relationship is a victory. The longer you\u2019re together, the more couples you\u2019ll know who didn\u2019t make it. Every time a friend or neighbor divorces, it can send either of you looking for cracks in your own marriage. And it can have a dampening effect on your wife\u2019s libido. To rekindle her desire, focus on the commitment you\u2019re aiming for. The house, the kids, the wedding album \u2013 they\u2019re all still there, but she needs written proof too.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-11369 size-full\" title=\"13-choses-sexy-que-vous-pouvez-dire-a-une-femme-couple-2\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/13-choses-sexy-que-vous-pouvez-dire-a-une-femme-couple-2.jpg\" alt=\"lolo_ferrari_xlovecam-2\" width=\"992\" height=\"658\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>2 \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0I understand how important this is to you.\u00a0\u00bb<\/h2>\n<p>Women evaluate the health of a relationship based on their understanding. And one way to communicate that understanding to your partner is not to jump into action every time she expresses concern about something, a common failing of men. Instead of saying \u00ab\u00a0here\u2019s how we solve this problem\u00a0\u00bb, simply listen to her and acknowledge that you understand her concern, even if you don\u2019t agree with her. Listening and understanding are powerful validations of your respect.<\/p>\n<h2>3 \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0Let me tell you how my presentation went.\u00a0\u00bb<\/h2>\n<p>When she asks how your day went, she doesn\u2019t want to hear \u00ab\u00a0well, how was yours?\u00a0\u00bb. She wants details. To satisfy her, define your emotional reactions: \u00ab\u00a0I was nervous when they didn\u2019t jump at the offer, but I felt excited when they realized I was right.\u00a0\u00bb She needs to hear you talk about your feelings as best you can. You\u2019ll be amazed at what your emotions can do to strengthen your intimacy.<\/p>\n<h2>4 \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0Let\u2019s talk about Julie\u2019s notes tomorrow. Tonight should just be about us. \u00ab\u00a0<\/h2>\n<p>In bed, focus as much as possible on the other moment, whether or not it leads to sex. Don\u2019t bring negative conversations to bed. These are some of the most important minutes of your relationship every day. Otherwise, you\u2019ll be sleeping on the couch!<\/p>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2>5 \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0I dreamed of making you feel good.\u00a0\u00bb<\/h2>\n<p>Did you know that when it comes to sexual fantasies, women are more selfish than men? Women focus on themselves in fantasy, because in real life, a man\u2019s pleasure is a priority. Let\u2019s hear it..<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-11370 size-full\" title=\"13-choses-sexy-que-vous-pouvez-dire-a-une-femme-couple-3\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/13-choses-sexy-que-vous-pouvez-dire-a-une-femme-couple-3.jpg\" alt=\"bimbo-blonde-francaise-xlovecam\" width=\"994\" height=\"662\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>6 \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0Mark the 14th on your calendar; I\u2019ll take you somewhere. \u00ab\u00a0<\/h2>\n<p>Follow your wife\u2019s sexual calendar by timing her menstrual cycle. Then set your romantic weekend accordingly, even if the idea at first glance doesn\u2019t sound sexy. Ovulation increases testosterone levels, making some women extremely horny on their most fertile days. Some studies have found elevated testosterone levels and an average 24% increase in sexual frequency in the 6 days leading up to each woman\u2019s ovulation. Yes, planning ahead can be good..<\/p>\n<h2>7 \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0I\u2019m going to draw you a bath.\u00a0\u00bb<\/h2>\n<p>Many women need a transition period between the stresses of work and family life, and the sexual feeling. A few minutes of foreplay aren\u2019t usually enough to satisfy them. After a few years together, men tend to shorten foreplay, but the average woman takes 27 minutes to reach orgasm. A hot bath is a good place to start.<\/p>\n<h2>8 \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0You deserve a long weekend with your girlfriends. I\u2019ll babysit the kids. \u00ab\u00a0<\/h2>\n<p>Because their time together is so precious, long-distance lovers make a real effort to set aside time for their relationship when they see each other. So a little distance would be completely beneficial to your relationship. There\u2019s nothing sexier than a man who thinks of his partner\u2019s well-being\u2026<\/p>\n<h2>9 \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0I love your freckles.\u00a0\u00bb<\/h2>\n<p>To feel sexy, a woman must first feel beautiful. Continue by complimenting her on something unique to her, like her laugh or her freckles. This assures her that you find her attractive, as opposed to all the other women in the room, and more importantly that you\u2019ve been watching her and know her well.<\/p>\n<h2>10 \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0I always thought it would be fun if you didn\u2019t use your hands.\u00a0\u00bb<\/h2>\n<p>A recent survey of 2,000 women found that two out of three were interested in light bondage. The idea is very sexy to them. A little <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/en\/models\/submissive\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>BDSM<\/strong><\/span><\/a> to spice up the couple. The key to success is to keep the adventure positive. When you say it\u2019s something fun you want to try, it\u2019s about having a good time, not fixing something that\u2019s broken.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-11371 size-full\" title=\"13-choses-sexy-que-vous-pouvez-dire-a-une-femme-couple-bdsm\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/13-choses-sexy-que-vous-pouvez-dire-a-une-femme-couple-bdsm.jpg\" alt=\"bimbo-blonde-francaise-xlovecam-2\" width=\"737\" height=\"415\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>11 \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0Let\u2019s show the kids our honeymoon pictures.\u00a0\u00bb<\/h2>\n<p>Reminding your wife of the commonalities you share \u2013 whether it\u2019s a birth date, a passion for Japanese architecture or your favorite vacation spot \u2013 will ignite her desire for you<em>. <\/em>There\u2019s even a scientific term for the phenomenon: \u00ab\u00a0implicit egotism\u00a0\u00bb. It means that we human beings are attracted to things and people that remind us of ourselves.<\/p>\n<h2>12 \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0I\u2019ll meet you in the bedroom after I fold the laundry.\u00a0\u00bb<\/h2>\n<p>It would seem that men who did the more conventional household chores were more sexually attractive to their partners than husbands who never or rarely participated around the house. Again, women respond to verbal cues: it\u2019s worth mentioning nonchalantly every time you feel the need to wash, or go to bed. A little mystery, more \u00ab\u00a0sexy\u00a0\u00bb in your life!<\/p>\n<h2>13 \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0The weather\u2019s awful. Let me pick up the kids from daycare. \u00ab\u00a0<\/h2>\n<p>Women prefer protective, heroic mates rather than reckless risk-takers<em>. <\/em>In a study involving 52 women, researchers described fictional men who decided whether or not to climb a steep mountain, travel alone over dangerous terrain or jump into a river to save a drowning child. The majority of subjects said they admired men who took heroic risks, but were not very impressed by thrill-seeking adventurers. A woman wants a partner who will survive to continue being a provider and protector for her children and herself. Yes, there\u2019s no such thing as too much!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Relationships can be funny things: one partner may think everything\u2019s fine, and the other may close up like an oyster. 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