{"id":11208,"date":"2023-12-28T16:17:14","date_gmt":"2023-12-28T16:17:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/?p=11208"},"modified":"2023-12-28T16:17:14","modified_gmt":"2023-12-28T16:17:14","slug":"comment-faire-lamour-sans-penetration","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/milf-en\/comment-faire-lamour-sans-penetration\/","title":{"rendered":"How to make love without penetration"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-11209\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/penetration_1.jpg\" alt=\"danseuses-sexy-carnaval-de-rio-xlovecam\" width=\"670\" height=\"350\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sexual relations are too often summed up as penetration. But there are a thousand ways to give pleasure. Discover new sensations and explore your partner\u2019s body in a new way with non-penetrative sex.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s stop thinking of penetration as the ultimate goal of the sexual relationship (with the man\u2019s orgasm marking the end). Penetration is not an end in itself, there are many other opportunities to reach orgasm, especially as a woman is unlikely to achieve it through penetration alone. It\u2019s time to discover other ways of giving yourself pleasure, here are 8 ideas for you.<\/p>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2><strong>A vast world to explore<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>There are many erogenous zones, and if we never dwell on them, we miss out on spectacular sensations. So let\u2019s get back to the body and explore every part: neck, knees, forearms, calves, back, lower abdomen\u2026. The whole body can vibrate. Especially as it\u2019s the intention that makes the moment more sexual. Caressing, licking, nibbling, tickling, massaging, kissing\u2026 there are so many ways to do it, the possibilities are endless. It\u2019s enough to make you feel like an explorer.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Do you like my breasts?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Nipples are all too often forgotten. It\u2019s a real pity to be content with roughly kneading the breasts without spending a little more time on them. Because the nipple is a very sensitive area, some women even reach orgasm simply by stimulating it. Here again, there are a number of methods to choose from: sucking, pinching, nibbling, stroking with the fingertips\u2026 there are even vibrating sextoys or sextoys that reproduce a suction mechanism, which are highly effective on the nipple. And last but not least, think about your own.<\/p>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2><strong>A good lick<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>We\u2019ve got to stop thinking of fellatio or <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/cunnilingus-comment-la-faire-jouir-a-tous-les-coups\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">cunnilingus<\/a><\/strong> as foreplay to prepare us for what\u2019s to come: penetration. If we instead considered these acts as sexual intercourse in their own right, we\u2019d probably take more time to build up desire and look for different techniques to help our partner reach orgasm (rather than rushing the whole thing to get to the next part more quickly).<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-11210\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/le-secret-du-cunninlingus.jpg\" alt=\"cunninlingus-faire-lamour-sans-p\u00e9n\u00e9tration-modern-milf\" width=\"780\" height=\"491\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2><strong>Tell yourself stories<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Stories (in this case, naughty stories) have a real power over the imagination, and can even make you achieve unsuspected pleasure. How about masturbating to each other while one of you tells sexual stories about the other. Just imagining the scene and following the story, eagerly trying to find out what\u2019s going to happen next, coupled with mutual caresses, will make you forget all about penetration, which will no longer be necessary.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Try dry humping<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>This tactic involves rubbing your partner without removing your clothes. You can feel each other\u2019s sex without being able to reach it other than through your clothes. Prefer thin clothes for this practice (it\u2019s hard to feel much through jeans) and rediscover new sensations. Also ideal for making love in public places without the risk of being caught out. For an even softer sensation, do it in underwear or satin pyjamas, which will make the fabric slide more easily. For the position, you can be as inventive as you like: straddling your partner, standing with one leg around his or her waist..<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Try hotdogging<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>If the name sounds funny, hotdogging actually lives up to its name. It involves placing the man\u2019s sex between his partner\u2019s buttocks and going back and forth without penetration, simply staying on top. See the hot dog reference now? It\u2019s a variation on the famous notary tie (where the man\u2019s sex is placed between his partner\u2019s breasts). Admittedly, this works best with a large chest. For a final variation, consider intercrural coitus (yes, another weird name). This involves placing your partner\u2019s penis between her thighs. By acting on the closure of the thighs, you get different sensations. And for pleasure for two, get as close as possible to your partner\u2019s sex while remaining firmly between her thighs, without giving in to the call of penetration.<\/p>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2><strong>Initiate yourself to tantric massage<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Soften the mood and discover tactile sensations by massaging your partner\u2019s whole body. Gradually build up desire, explore new places and sensations, let yourself go, but don\u2019t give in to penetration. When the <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.doctissimo.fr\/html\/sexualite\/dossiers\/tantra\/14499-massage-tantrique-preliminaire.htm\">Tantric massage<\/a><\/strong> technique is mastered, you can make the pleasure last for hours without reaching orgasm.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Switch to virtual sex<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>When your partner is on the move or away from you, you can also explore long-distance or virtual sex. With little naughty messages, you can build up the desire. You\u2019ve got a whole range of digital tools for this, from text messaging to video chat to put your money where your mouth is. So you can enjoy even long-distance evenings together.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sexual relations are too often summed up as penetration. But there are a thousand ways to give pleasure. Discover new sensations and explore your partne&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12,"featured_media":11211,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"Explore Beyond Penetration: 8 New Ways to Pleasure","_seopress_titles_desc":"Discover the joy of non-penetrative sex. Explore erogenous zones and enhance intimacy without penetration. 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