{"id":10776,"date":"2023-12-28T14:23:00","date_gmt":"2023-12-28T14:23:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/?p=10776"},"modified":"2023-12-28T14:25:33","modified_gmt":"2023-12-28T14:25:33","slug":"les-hommes-ne-devraient-pas-faire-apres-un-rapport-sexuel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/milf-en\/les-hommes-ne-devraient-pas-faire-apres-un-rapport-sexuel\/","title":{"rendered":"The 11 things men should never do after sex"},"content":{"rendered":"

After intercourse, there\u2019s a wealth of information on what we can do to <\/strong>increase the risks of active sex, and countless other advice and help articles on how best to behave during the act itself <\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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Interestingly, though, there\u2019s not a lot of useful information out there about what men should do after<\/em> sex. That\u2019s why we\u2019ve done some research, talked to a number of sex educators and therapists and figured out exactly what we should and shouldn\u2019t do after sex.<\/p>\n

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Getting to grips with these post-coital relationships can often be a determining factor in whether or not you rise in your partner\u2019s esteem, and perhaps your own too.<\/p>\n

1 \u2013 Immediately fall asleep after intercourse<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Many men are familiar with the urge to sleep after their orgasm. Some humorously think that men sleep because women don\u2019t turn into pizza.<\/p>\n

In all seriousness, though, there are many reasons why guys want to sleep immediately after sex: it often happens around bedtime, we\u2019re already in bed, we\u2019ve probably been exercising physically, and so on. Orgasm also releases a cocktail of chemicals that often work like a mega-dose of sleeping pills.<\/p>\n

Your best bet, however, is to resist the urge to let go until you\u2019ve examined all the other items on this list. But if you\u2019re looking for the exact chemical explanation, check out why men fall asleep after sex (and women don\u2019t)<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

2 \u2013 Turn on the TV<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Turning on the TV or picking up your phone will leave her feeling abandoned and unimportant to you. By sleeping with you, a woman has made herself vulnerable. If you disconnect, you\u2019ll leave her feeling unsafe and insecure. Ditto, checking Facebook one last time before going to sleep really isn\u2019t worth it, so don\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n

3 \u2013 Putting away sex toys without cleaning them<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Several studies have examined the ability of bacteria and viruses like human papillomavirus (HPV<\/strong>)<\/a> to linger on sex toys if they\u2019re not cleaned properly. Falling asleep before cleaning your used toy increases the risk that one or both of you will contract the infection that requires a visit to your doctor\u2019s office and an interruption of sexual intercourse for some time. Quality sex toys come with detailed care instructions, specific to each item. Make sure you know what they are so you can play safely.<\/p>\n

4 \u2013 Bathe in your own juices<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Sex can \u2013 and some say should<\/em> \u2013 be a wet, wild experience. But one of the common consequences of unlimited intercourse is a puddle of juice in which it can be quite uncomfortable to feel \u2013 and disregard your partner\u2019s comfort. If you don\u2019t want to be flooded, offer to change the sheets or put down a blanket. If you and your partner tend to have \u00ab\u00a0juicy\u00a0\u00bb sex, consider investing in an absorbent sex blanket and put it up.<\/p>\n

5 \u2013 Shower immediately after sex<\/strong><\/h2>\n

As mentioned above, sex can be an activity that leaves you in a sticky and sometimes fragrant sweat. However, some people don\u2019t appreciate this aspect of sex and rush to the bathroom to wash up immediately after they\u2019ve finished. There are actually very good reasons to wash up after sex, but you shouldn\u2019t be in too much of a hurry to do it. You don\u2019t want to tell her you\u2019re \u00ab\u00a0cleaning her up\u00a0\u00bb. Wait a minute. Give her the clear message that you love her and aren\u2019t in a hurry to clean everything up (unless she prefers the quick cleanup).<\/p>\n

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6 \u2013 Being overly critical<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Sex usually means being naked. Literally naked, meaning without clothing, and figuratively naked, meaning without pretense or artifice. This means that being critical during this time is probably not a good idea. After a rush of endorphins and a release of oxytocin, people generally feel vulnerable. Being critical while someone is naked in bed is not only going to be hurtful, but can also make them less open to new sexual experiences with you. If you really need to give your opinion, wait until the next day, when the chemicals have returned to their original state and you\u2019re fully clothed.<\/p>\n

7 \u2013 Disclosing information she should have known before having sex with you<\/strong><\/h2>\n

If you suspect an STI, if you\u2019ve had sex with another partner, it\u2019s a bad idea to hide it. There\u2019s nothing worse than dropping a bombshell after the fact. Depending on the information you disclose, your partner may also feel betrayed and angry. Be respectful and open up [beforehand] so your partner can make an informed decision about whether or not she wants to have sex with you, just as you need to make the same informed decision.<\/p>\n

And while we\u2019re on the subject of transparency..<\/p>\n

8 \u2013 Ask him to leave<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Maybe you have a very good reason why you can\u2019t have a sleepover. Maybe you\u2019ll get an early start the next morning, or maybe sharing a bed won\u2019t ensure a good night\u2019s sleep just yet. That\u2019s totally legitimate. What\u2019s not cool, however, is informing your partner that a sleepover isn\u2019t an option after <\/em> intercourse<\/em>.<\/p>\n

9 \u2013 Being physically distant<\/strong><\/h2>\n

After sex, our bodies and brains are flooded with feel-good hormones. These hormones promote bonding. If you keep a physical distance from your partner after sex, it probably won\u2019t go unnoticed. Staying in touch is very important for a woman. If you don\u2019t touch her, no cuddling, no compliments, she\u2019s likely to withdraw. Sex isn\u2019t an event for her that ends in an orgasm. So it shouldn\u2019t be for you either.<\/p>\n

10 \u2013 Smoking<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Smoking is obviously a bad idea at any time. But after sex is perhaps the worst opportunity to do so. I mean, ending an intimate sexual session short of breath, and using a condom as a makeshift ashtray? Not as sexy as decades of cinematic depictions would have us believe. What\u2019s more, habitual smoking is strongly linked to erectile dysfunction and also exacerbates snoring.<\/p>\n

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11 \u2013 Describe your facial expressions during orgasm right after intercourse<\/strong><\/h2>\n

In all honesty, we hadn\u2019t considered this one. But many men make a point of relaying what they\u2019ve witnessed during one of the rawest and most vulnerable moments of the human experience. Which isn\u2019t a good idea, because women want to lose themselves during sex. The last thing they want is for someone to give them a detailed description of their most intimate moments.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no reason you should want the person you just had sex with to feel bad. Don\u2019t be that jerk. On the contrary, follow these 25 tips to turn yourself into a sex god<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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