{"id":10297,"date":"2023-12-28T11:57:21","date_gmt":"2023-12-28T11:57:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/?p=10297"},"modified":"2023-12-28T11:57:21","modified_gmt":"2023-12-28T11:57:21","slug":"les-10-choses-les-plus-sexy-a-lui-dire-lors-dun-premier-rendez-vous","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/milf-en\/les-10-choses-les-plus-sexy-a-lui-dire-lors-dun-premier-rendez-vous\/","title":{"rendered":"The 10 sexiest things to say on a first date"},"content":{"rendered":"

The first date is always a delicate balancing act. On the one hand, you want to appear interested, attractive and seductive enough for her to know that this is a date and not a one-way ticket to the \u00ab\u00a0friend zone\u00a0\u00bb. On the other hand, you don\u2019t want to reveal too much..<\/b><\/p>\n

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You don\u2019t want her to think you\u2019re only interested in having sex. That\u2019s why it\u2019s more important than ever to know exactly what to say on a first date, especially if you want to close the deal<\/strong><\/span><\/a>\u2026<\/p>\n

Of course, it\u2019s not always easy, especially when nerves come into play and you two budding lovebirds struggle to find the right topic of conversation. But to help you say all the right things, we\u2019ve contacted several relationship and dating experts to keep the conversation in the right place. With this, you should be on the right track.<\/p>\n

And no matter what you say, here\u2019s a tip before you start: the more you talk, the better. In fact, the longer the conversation goes on with a first date, the less important superficial things like height and appearance become to your potential partner. If you play your cards right \u2013 and say the right things \u2013 you\u2019re virtually guaranteed to move into second place. Ready to be a couple?<\/p>\n

1 \u2013 That dress looks amazing on you.<\/h2>\n

If you can feel the chemistry building, it\u2019s important that your date knows right away that you\u2019re attracted to her. Not only do women want to feel sexually attracted to their date, they also want to feel that their date is sexually attracted. In fact, by feeling the latter, women are more likely to feel attracted in return. So compliment her.<\/p>\n

But how? Well, adding the phrase \u00ab\u00a0about you\u00a0\u00bb makes it more specific than a generic line like \u00ab\u00a0you\u2019re so pretty\u00a0\u00bb. Remember: generic compliments aren\u2019t sincere. And if you\u2019re trying to date a colleague, you need to know another set of rules. So don\u2019t miss the 12 rules for dating a colleague.<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

2 \u2013 Don\u2019t worry. I\u2019ll call them back later.<\/h2>\n

Cell phone use is a major problem for many users. Researchers found that 75% of singles are put off if you answer your phone at a specific time. What\u2019s more, 66% didn\u2019t like being interrupted on their date to answer a text message, and 41% think that simply having your phone on the table is just plain rude.<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s a good idea to put your phone in your jacket and forget about it for the duration of the date \u2013 well, until you check your calendar to plan your next appointment. By the way, remember to take a recent model. 92% of women are more likely to judge you negatively as having an obsolete or older cell phone model.<\/p>\n

3 \u2013 Did you hear what a certain personality said yesterday?<\/h2>\n

Ask controversial questions such as \u00ab\u00a0What do you think about abortion? \u00ab\u00a0or \u00ab\u00a0Have you ever broken someone\u2019s heart? \u00ab\u00a0change conversations more than ordinary questions about hobbies, family and work. Of course, these standard dating topics are important \u2013 but asking a question that requires emotional attention and openness about values establishes a level of trust necessary for a deeper level of attraction.<\/p>\n

4 \u2013 I know what you mean. It reminds me of the time when I..<\/h2>\n

Women, in particular, feel a connection with men who interrupt them, but probably not in the way you\u2019d imagine.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be clear: cutting someone off to dominate the conversation isn\u2019t attractive. Successful dates include exchanges in which the man cleverly interrupts the woman to say something that shows they have a shared experience.<\/p>\n

For example, an ideal exchange would be for the woman to say something like, \u00ab\u00a0I saw Radiohead last summer and they were amazing,\u00a0\u00bb and for the man to say, \u00ab\u00a0I\u2019m so jealous \u2013 Radiohead is one of my favorite bands,\u00a0\u00bb too, before allowing her to continue. In other words, interruptions can be a good thing, as long as they\u2019re made to show you\u2019re paying attention. For more great dating tips, here are 15 more ways to impress any woman<\/span><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

5 \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0I really want kids.\u00a0\u00bb Or \u00ab\u00a0Marriage is important to me.\u00a0\u00bb<\/h2>\n

Knowing what you want is an attractive quality. So is being in touch with who you are and what you\u2019re looking for. Don\u2019t hesitate to be specific about what you want.<\/p>\n

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If you\u2019re looking for something casual, she might be interested. If you\u2019re hoping to settle down, don\u2019t be afraid to tell her. Whatever your ultimate goal, it\u2019s worth sharing to establish a deeper connection and make sure you\u2019re both on the same page. By being clear and direct at the outset, you\u2019ll save time and energy in the long run.<\/p>\n

6 \u2013 On a Sunday morning, I like..<\/h2>\n

The more a guy can build a picture of his life that includes the woman, the more likely she is to be interested.<\/p>\n

For example, saying you like to be active isn\u2019t interesting. But if you say, \u00ab\u00a0I like waking up on a Sunday morning, having a coffee and croissant at my favorite cafe, then heading to the beach with my surfboard and hitting the waves,\u00a0\u00bb that gives her a really clear picture of what you mean.<\/p>\n

Then ask a question like \u00ab\u00a0Do you surf? If not, I\u2019d love to teach you. That way, your date can decide whether what you like to do sounds interesting or not.<\/p>\n

Statements like these are an invitation to deeper conversations, which begin to build a fuller, more inviting picture of what your life could look like. Being able to imagine what your future might look like? Totally sexy.<\/p>\n

7 \u2013 My family is really important to me.<\/h2>\n

A quality relationship with your family \u2013 or even close friends \u2013 is certainly something you want to show on a first date.<\/p>\n

If you have a good relationship with your family and friends, it shows that you\u2019re capable of the reciprocity necessary for a healthy relationship.<\/p>\n

Basically, it reinforces the idea that you\u2019re a caring person, capable of maintaining meaningful and lasting relationships. For most women, this will be a huge advantage. It also sends a message that you know how to balance your life and are capable of having good boundaries.<\/p>\n

A word of caution: don\u2019t go too far in talking about your mother or any traumatic family drama you\u2019ve experienced. The former is a turn-off, and the latter can be saved for later appointments, when you know each other better.<\/p>\n

8 \u2013 Thank you.<\/h2>\n

Simple but true. Showing courtesy and politeness is not only a major issue, but a requirement for most women looking for their mate.<\/p>\n

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Your friendliness shouldn\u2019t be confined to her. Be cordial with waiters, valet attendants, bartenders and anyone else you interact with during the meeting. By showing that you believe all people deserve respect, you establish that you\u2019re a stand-up guy, i.e. \u2013 wait for it \u2013 sexy. Also be sure to check out these secrets to the best relationships<\/b>.<\/a><\/p>\n

9 \u2013 I like hiking too. We should do that together sometime.<\/h2>\n

Yes, asking for date number two \u2013 when the time is right \u2013 is sexy. For most people, it\u2019s best to wait for an evening highlight. Once you\u2019ve found similar interests or values, explain how you want to share this experience with her. This shows that you\u2019re genuinely interested in continuing the relationship. This will make her more likely to accept future meetings with you. Finally, don\u2019t wait until the end to ask \u2013 it\u2019s much too clich\u00e9.<\/p>\n

10 \u2013 I\u2019m not free on Friday, but how does Saturday work for you?<\/h2>\n

This gives the illusion that you\u2019re busy and a rare commodity. Maybe it\u2019s supply and demand at work. But people feel special when they know your time is precious. And that you make time for them.<\/p>\n

And while mystery is sexy, you don\u2019t want to be a jerk. Tell them you understand that a good relationship is all about quality time. And that even though you have many important and valuable commitments, you know that to have a good relationship, time together has to be one of them. Finally, as your relationship progresses, you should always remember the 13 sexiest things you can ever say to a woman<\/a><\/b>. There, now you\u2019ve got everything you need for a successful first date!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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