{"id":10042,"date":"2023-12-28T11:07:13","date_gmt":"2023-12-28T11:07:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/?p=10042"},"modified":"2023-12-28T11:07:13","modified_gmt":"2023-12-28T11:07:13","slug":"10-alertes-qui-montrent-elle-nest-pas-satisfaite-au-lit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/milf-en\/10-alertes-qui-montrent-elle-nest-pas-satisfaite-au-lit\/","title":{"rendered":"10 alerts that show she&rsquo;s dissatisfied in bed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Is it just in your head, or does she seem less enthusiastic about having <\/b><b>sex with you lately? We always say that communication is a key element of a good sex life \u2013 in fact, it\u2019s perhaps the most important element, because a woman who\u2019s dissatisfied in bed is like a ticking time bomb\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1018 size-large\" title=\"10-alertes-femme-insatisfaite-sexuellement-lit-mm-modern-milf-1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/10-alertes-femme-insatisfaite-sexuellement-lit-mm-modern-milf-1.jpg\" alt=\"10-alertes-femme-insatisfaite-sexuellement-lit-mm-modern-milf-1\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you ask your wife or girlfriend directly about her waning sexual appetite, she may feel obliged to protect your feelings by insisting that everything is fine, when in fact she finds your sexual routine boring. There are telltale signs that she hasn\u2019t been feeling impressed with you lately, that she may be dissatisfied in bed than she could be. If these 10 occurrences start to seem strangely familiar, she may be unsatisfied, which means it\u2019s time to change your habits.<\/p>\n<h2>1 \u2013 Always making excuses<\/h2>\n<p>Everyone goes through periods when they don\u2019t feel sexually stimulated. This could be linked to a number of factors: stress at work, lack of self-confidence, hormonal change, depression or just plain exhaustion. But the sobering truth could be that she\u2019s no longer satisfied with what you\u2019re offering. Do some thorough research and eliminate these other reasons, then focus on changing your attitude \u2013 perhaps by mastering <b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/25-facons-de-vous-transformer-en-un-dieu-du-sexe\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">the 25 tricks that will transform you into a sex god<\/span><\/a><\/b>overnight.<\/p>\n<h2>2 \u2013 She doesn\u2019t care if she doesn\u2019t have an orgasm<\/h2>\n<p>Statistics show that women need about 20 minutes of sexual activity to reach their climax, on average. If she doesn\u2019t think an orgasm is worth 20 minutes of sex with you, she may stop doing the mental work required to enable her to reach that climax. Alternatively, she may simply think you can\u2019t afford to make things happen for her. If she seems nonchalant about a recent session of sex, it could be a sign of her apathy towards your current repertoire. It\u2019s time to make some changes. You can start by learning <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/6-femmes-revelent-les-plus-grandes-erreurs-de-sexe-oral-faites-par-les-hommes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><b>all the mistakes you make during cunnilingus.<\/b><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1019 size-large\" title=\"10-alertes-femme-insatisfaite-sexuellement-lit-mm-modern-milf-2\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/10-alertes-femme-insatisfaite-sexuellement-lit-mm-modern-milf-2.jpg\" alt=\"10-alertes-femme-insatisfaite-sexuellement-lit-mm-modern-milf-2\" width=\"750\" height=\"485\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>3 \u2013 She masturbates instead of having sex with you<\/h2>\n<p>Only a fool would have a problem with their partner masturbating. For starters, a woman who knows her way around is going to have a lot of information to share about how you can please her. That\u2019s information you can use. But realizing that she\u2019d much rather practice onanism than have sex with you is news that can hurt the ego. So she\u2019s dissatisfied in bed.<\/p>\n<p>Ask if you can watch and if she can use your hand to show you what feels good. If she masturbates to porn, ask her to show you some of the clips she likes and tell you what she likes about them. In fact, watching porn with her is one of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/20-signes-precurseurs-de-relations-perdues-davance\/#pll_switcher\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><b>the <\/b><\/span><\/a><b><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">ways smart men stop a story before it starts<\/span><\/b>.<\/p>\n<h2>4 \u2013 She criticizes you in other areas<\/h2>\n<p>Although she may not want to discuss your performance to protect your feelings, she could end up criticizing other things about you by proxy. Maybe she\u2019ll notice your appearance, your behavior or whether you\u2019re doing your share of household chores properly. These little things that used to bother her wouldn\u2019t seem so bad if you stepped back, took control of the situation and started giving your best performance regularly.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-10043 size-large\" title=\"10-alertes-femme-insatisfaite-sexuellement-lit-mm-modern-milf-3\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/10-alertes-femme-insatisfaite-sexuellement-lit-mm-modern-milf-3.jpg\" alt=\"10-alertes-femme-insatisfaite-sexuellement-lit-mm-modern-milf-3\" width=\"750\" height=\"513\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>5 \u2013 She takes control in the bedroom<\/h2>\n<p>When a woman knows what she wants and likes in the bedroom, that\u2019s a very, very good thing. However, if she starts micromanaging your movements, it could be a sign that you\u2019re not listening to her body and she\u2019s not feeling satisfied. A little guidance is good, but if you start to feel like she\u2019s constantly teaching you to have sex with her, you\u2019re probably on the wrong track. However, if you find yourself in a reverse position, so to speak (you find yourself less satisfied), learn to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/3-facons-de-transformer-votre-femme-en-deesse-du-sexe\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><b>turn your wife into a sex goddess<\/b><\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>6 \u2013 She checks things out mentally<\/h2>\n<p>At its best, sex is an activity in which there is no past or future. There are only the thoughts, emotions and sensations running through your nervous system at the precise moment. This should never happen as long as you\u2019re thinking about the mundanities of life or the ever-growing \u00ab\u00a0to-do\u00a0\u00bb list in your head. If you sometimes feel that she\u2019s not present when you\u2019re having sex, it could be that your skills aren\u2019t taking up enough of her mental, sensual and emotional bandwidth.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-989 size-large\" title=\"10-alertes-femme-insatisfaite-sexuellement-lit-mm-modern-milf-4\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/10-alertes-femme-insatisfaite-sexuellement-lit-mm-modern-milf-4.jpg\" alt=\"10-alertes-femme-insatisfaite-sexuellement-lit-mm-modern-milf-4\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>7 \u2013 She mentions the neighbors\u2019 great sex<\/h2>\n<p>If she\u2019s regularly telling you about the sex between David and Lisa, you\u2019ll probably need to rethink your copy. Hell, why not take David out for a beer and ask him for advice? Your goal: get your partner to repeat how incredible you make her feel. And forget that she\u2019s unfulfilled in bed.<\/p>\n<h2>8 \u2013 She keeps a wedge between you<\/h2>\n<p>If someone isn\u2019t meeting their partner\u2019s sexual needs, they may resort to masturbation (see above) or an affair. They may, however, try to fulfill themselves in another way that might not even be directly related to sex. Some people may consume food or alcohol, bury themselves in work or go shopping. Clues that she\u2019s not feeling fulfilled may be hidden in your refrigerator, wine cellar or credit card account. If you suspect she\u2019s not satisfied enough to pursue an affair, you should learn the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/en\/15-signes-que-votre-femme-vous-trompe\/#pll_switcher\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><b>15 warning signs that a woman is cheating on you<\/b><\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-10044 size-large\" title=\"10-alertes-femme-insatisfaite-sexuellement-lit-mm-modern-milf-5\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/10-alertes-femme-insatisfaite-sexuellement-lit-mm-modern-milf-5.jpg\" alt=\"10-alertes-femme-insatisfaite-sexuellement-lit-mm-modern-milf-5\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>9 \u2013 She wants to get it over with<\/h2>\n<p>Good sex is like eating a delicious dinner in an expensive restaurant. You want to savor the flavors, enjoy the ambiance and linger at the table. If she did the sexual equivalent of eating fast and settling the bill quickly, chances are she wouldn\u2019t experience three Michelin stars. Women and men can both like quickies, but if she gives the impression of wanting to be somewhere else every time as if she had somewhere better to be, she probably will.<\/p>\n<h2>10 \u2013 She doesn\u2019t want to cuddle<\/h2>\n<p>If you make a woman feel satisfied during sex, she\u2019ll want to be close to you when she falls asleep, or she\u2019ll anticipate your next round. If, however, you\u2019ve recorded another performance that she found dull, even frustrating, she won\u2019t want to snuggle up to you. A big sign that she\u2019s dissatisfied in bed! If she rolls over as soon as your session is over, you\u2019ll probably need to rethink your technique.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1023 size-full\" title=\"10-alertes-femme-insatisfaite-sexuellement-lit-mm-modern-milf-6\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xlovecam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/10-alertes-femme-insatisfaite-sexuellement-lit-mm-modern-milf-6.jpg\" alt=\"10-alertes-femme-insatisfaite-sexuellement-lit-mm-modern-milf-6\" width=\"1019\" height=\"750\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And if you find yourself alone, don\u2019t panic, another one will come along to keep you company\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Is it just in your head, or does she seem less enthusiastic about having sex with you lately? 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