Seduction is an art that varies from country to country, and courting a Latina is no exception to the rule. In fact, seduction with Latinas is very different from seduction with French women. Between their overflowing passion, their attachment to family and their bewitching sensuality, these women have their own codes when it comes to seduction. So, if you really want to find love among these Latin women, but don’t know where to start? Don’t panic! In the following lines, we’ll tell you what you need to know to win the hearts of these passionate women with ease and elegance.
5 tips for seduction in Latin America
Latin women love to meet new people. However, if you want to date a Latina, you need to learn a few basic techniques for seducing them. Discover 5 tips for seducing a Latina below.
Pay compliments and express your emotions
Unlike the French, who don’t always like compliments, in Latin America we show our feelings. Here are a few phrases to say to a woman you like.
“Que linda, que guapa eres”: How beautiful, how pretty you are!
“Oye! Que maravillosa! Me gustas mucho y es un placer conocerte!”: my God! What a beauty! I like you a lot and it’s a pleasure to know you!”
Latin American women love compliments and respond very well to them. In fact, if they like you, they’ll return them easily and promptly. Latinas don’t hide their emotions, and they won’t understand why you hide them if you do.
Accept delays to make the most of dates
Time is an abstract concept in Latin America, and both women and men often arrive late or not at all. To please you, they’ll often say “Yes”, and most of them may have several appointments in different places with different people in the same afternoon. So they’ll go where they feel most like going, depending on how they feel at the time. This is not a bad thing. We advise you to remain calm and neutral and do the same. Note that Latin women don’t like to say no, because in Latin American culture it’s not very polite. So they’ll make excuses or say “Yes” without coming. For your appointments, we therefore recommend that you systematically follow up on the same day or a few hours before.
Be a gentleman and invite her
Latinas live in a world where cultural codes are different from those in France. For example, on a date, women will expect you to pay. There are exceptions, of course, and some will be able and willing to pay, but in general, it’s expected that you will. So don’t be offended and just have a little drink if you’re on a budget. On the other hand, life in Latin America is much cheaper than in Europe. One thing’s for sure: you won’t go broke.
Learn to dance like a Latino
Dancing is a great way to approach a Latin woman without coming across as heavy-handed. In Latin America, dancing is more glue-tight, suave (soft), and Latin women don’t like to be spun around too much. Rather than playing the salsa matadors with multiple turns in all directions, they want you to stay soft and close to them, and prefer you to wiggle gently and sensually. It’s the connection that counts, and it’s made with your eyes! If you want to seduce a Latina, start by taking a few beginners’ classes.
Stay calm to reassure
People are emotional in Latin America and show their emotions, which are sometimes very fluctuating and changeable. One day, they love you, and you’ll receive lots of messages of love, and for a disagreement or misunderstanding, they’ll hate you. And all this is communicated to you without embarrassment. For your part, you’re going to have to learn to express your feelings without hiding them. But above all, you’ll have to remain rock-solid so that you don’t become destabilized by each of his emotional changes. The ideal man in Latin America is strong, solid, calm, quiet, reassuring, a pillar to lean on.
What foreign men find attractive in Latin women
Here’s what foreign men find attractive in Latin women.
Respectful
Being a well-bred woman shows that you have a good sense of character. If you have respect for others, it only means that you’re not a judgmental person, and that’s one of the very first things foreign men like about Latinas. Also, when dating a Latina, you have to respect her culture. Always remember that you don’t always have to agree with each other, whatever differences you may have in your preferences and personalities. The most important thing is to know how to respect each other.
Healthy living
This would be a good time for you to change if you’re not passionate about a healthy lifestyle. Latinas know how to take care of their health, which is one of the reasons they’re sexy and beautiful. Generally speaking, they like to look their best wherever they go. So, you don’t necessarily have to be the best-looking man in the room, but having a healthy lifestyle would earn you good points.
Emotional maturity
Among the many traits that men find attractive in Latinas is emotional maturity. They don’t give in easily to frustration. Latin women are always ready to solve problems and never complain about them.
Some flirting phrases
Here are a few pick-up lines to help you seduce a Latin woman:
“¿Quieres perder el tiempo con un imbécil?” (“Do you want to waste time with a fool?”).
“Tienes un mapa porque me he perdido en tu mirada” (“Do you have a map? Because I’ve lost myself in your gaze”).
“¿Quieres bailar conmigo un rato?” (“Will you dance with me for a moment?”).
“Tus ojos son como estrellas” (“Your eyes are like stars.”).
Flirting with a Latina may seem intimidating at first, but with the right advice, you’ll succeed. With a little gallantry and a lot of charm, you can win the hearts of these exceptional women. So don’t hesitate to put our above tips into practice and let yourself be carried away by the whirlwind of seduction.
