Lesbians have been making men fantasize for a very long time. And when we talk about fantasies, we also talk about… cliches. Because many are derived from them. Here are the most common of them.
Today, I turn into a journalist and I come back to you to share with you the greatest clichés about lesbians. To find reliable sources (because here we are serious above all – most of the time), I therefore went to interview my girlfriends who love pussies, kitties, the mounts of Venus, … in short, the female sex. You may be surprised by some of them, or by their answers.
Let’s go.
1 – Lesbians are always up for a threesome
Ah the famous threesome which makes more than one dream of it ! And obviously, lesbian women need a man once in a while. Even they secretly fantasize about it! Well no. Like any straight person, a “dyke” doesn’t want a threesome anymore. Being gay doesn’t make you genetically programmed to want a threesome whenever they’re offered it.
So sorry to shatter your dreams. While this practice may be more common among gay people, that doesn’t mean with the opposite sex. According to my friends, they also testify that it is more often the men who propose to them than their colleagues. Which leads us to think that maybe you’re the one who wants it the most, right?! Admit. I won’t judge you, I promise.
2 – Who makes the man ? Who makes the woman?
This is the question that makes them jump the most. It’s super intrusive. And that goes back to the heterosexual pattern. Indeed, for many of them, there is no “man” or “woman”. Already, not all lesbian couples are made up of a very feminine woman and a more masculine woman. Another cliche. There are couples where both partners are ultra sexy and feminine. And others where it’s the other way around.
And in personalities, it’s the same thing. There is not necessarily a dominant and a dominated. It’s often more of a balance between the two. However, do not believe that everything is perfect, far from it. Like heterosexual cisgender couples, lesbian couples can experience the same issues.
In any case, when it comes to sex, it’s more of an exchange between the two partners. There is no role. Each is free to do what she wants, with the consent of the other. Each can in turn give pleasure to her partner and then receive it.
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3 – Sex between lesbians is not real sex
First news ! Learn, if you haven’t already, that sex encompasses a multitude of actions. A blowjob is sex. Sometimes simple erotic caresses are also sex. Friction is sex. And these are just a few examples.
The idea that you have to have penetration for it to be considered sex is wrong. It is a derivative of this famous patriarchy and its dominance over the female sex through the centuries. And thanks to that, we know for sure that many women, straight or gay, have never experienced carnal pleasure as it should.
Women take great pleasure in intercourse because they know the erogenous zones that trigger reactions. They take more time to stimulate them to increase sexual desire and reach heights of intense excitement . With or without penetration. Moreover, according to some surveys, lesbian women have many more orgasms than heterosexual women. On good terms…
4 – Lesbians are all masculine and love sports
Do I really have to respond to this received idea… So, all men drink beer and love football?! It’s kind of the same kind of thinking. If some have a masculine gender, and if others like sports, this is not the case for all. Far from there. And then there are many sporting disciplines, such as dancing or horse riding for example.
This remains attached to the image of the “butch” lesbian, trucker type and “who makes the man”. However, if I believe my friends, the majority prefer to hang out on the sofa in front of Netflix or Prime Video. And the very idea of playing sports makes them contract their buttocks (and no desire). Moreover, if some women are masculine by virtue of their sporting discipline, this does not mean that they are lesbians. So there is really no connection between these two facts.
5 – Lesbians hate men
So yes, some ultra bitches hate men. But it’s not the majority of lesbians, far from it! In fact, for the most part, it’s not that they hate them, they’re just not attracted to them. And so they don’t pay attention to them. Which can be hurtful to some male egos.
So no, they don’t hate you. Unless you give them the big shots, with the heavy questions they hear all the time, and you think they’ll automatically be in for a threesome. But they’ll just hate you, not men in general.
Avoid confusing lesbianism and feminism (in addition to “bad” feminism) which are two very different subjects. Not all lesbians are fierce feminists, rejecting all male form. Also avoid sexual clichés. No, you won’t make them straight.
6 – The chisel, is it true or is it a legend ?
Imagine two women making love makes many men fantasize. And among the positions that mark the most, there is the scissors. Legend ? Truth ? Well, as with every sex position , regardless of sexual orientation, it depends on the person. But if I believe the testimonies of my friends, and my personal experience, once the “right angle” is found, they can reach Nirvana.
The scissor is a winning move when done well. So no, it’s not a legend. Yes, I can already see you smiling from here.
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