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Knowing how lesbians make love is a vast mission. Because as for a straight woman, it depends from one person to another. They may like caresses, kisses, expert fingering, a sex toy, or a penis from time to time… There is no simple answer to this question, sorry. However, we can have some leads thanks to a survey conducted in 2015 among 13,000 lesbians.
The male imagination
For many of you, if I believe your testimonies, sex between lesbians consists of passionate kisses, drooling but erotic cunnilingus, followed by the 69 position or the scissoring. Two women together are necessarily beautiful and sexy, and only secretly dream of one thing: to invite you to join them because they want your cock to suck it fervently.
Good … There are, it’s true. But it’s far from being the majority, especially when you know that a penis does not guarantee sexual satisfaction, and that its absence opens up more options. They may focus more on their partner’s erogenous zones, or experiment more by trying different things. Yes, I know, I keep smashing your dreams. But not for long. More options I told you…
How do lesbian couples most often have sex?
Referring to the 2015 survey, we discover that 99% of participants favored clitoral pleasure. The stimulation of the clitoris therefore comes first in the ranking for infinite or almost infinite sexual pleasures). This is followed by oral sex at 95.2% and rubbing at 79.6%. 55% of women also revealed that they use a vibrator to please themselves.
Enough to consider sexy or even tantric foreplay that allows you to reach orgasm without penetration. Try it, your partner will thank you. Yes Yes.
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And what about dildos and strap-ons?
Not all homosexual women are fans of sex toys of this kind. However, it is not uncommon to come across one of them. Indeed, the study revealed that 58.5% of lesbian couples regularly use strap-ons and 55% regularly use dildos .
Learn that when it comes to sex toys, there are some only for women who love women. For fans of the strap-on, there are brands that design this little toy for a woman’s body. The harness is slightly different from that of a man, curves oblige. And then, it is possible to exchange roles with this kind of object. This is also what makes it successful.
When it comes to dildos, the choice is vast. No need for a special category for this on a website, the women’s category will suffice. And we can say that there is something for everyone. From the simple little dildo to the one that will titillate your clit, vagina and anus at the same time (my golden triangle!), from the discreet little one to the giant cock, with or without vibration, with or without suction, . .. You are spoiled for choice.
Who makes the man?
First, let’s break the cliché that there is bound to be a masculine woman and a feminine woman. And so, one who makes the man and the other who makes the woman. It’s not always the case. And each can be active, or reverse roles when the moment arises. And even when the couple integrates a strap-on for example, the one who will wear it will be the one… Who will want it. And it can be one or the other.
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What about tribadism?
Remember that tribadism is a lesbian sexual practice which consists of: mutually rubbing the vulva, the clitoris, in order to obtain, by friction, pleasure, even orgasm, to obtain pleasure and orgasm by rubbing against a thigh, against a breast, against the pubic bone, against a foot, etc. ( Wikipedia ). It’s a bit broader than the Larousse definition that tells you it’s lesbianism.
According to the survey, they would therefore be 34% to practice it regularly. Less than a dildo or a strap-on! Indeed, according to the testimonies, many of them do not like it, so goodbye to the scissor ! But it’s definitely worth a try at least once to see if it’s their thing. The feeling of the genital areas rubbing against each other can be extremely pleasurable if they are willing to put their mind to it.
They have the same body, so they know how to please each other
A common mistake is to believe that because two women have similar bodies, sex between them is necessarily better. It’s wrong. But it helps. Yes, because women know women. They have personal experience of what a clitoris or vaginal orgasm is. But not because everyone is different, likes different things and has a different sensibility. It will therefore be necessary to explore the body of the other and to listen to their reactions to know how to please them. Like a straight couple in short.
Are they faithful or will they look elsewhere?
The answer may shock you… In another 2015 survey launched by Autostraddle which collected the opinions of 8566 people (89% of whom were from people aged 18 to 36), 55.97% said they were in a monogamous relationship, 29.17% were not in a relationship and 14.86% were in a non-monogamous relationship of any form.
When it comes to the kind of relationships they preferred, the responses are also surprising:
- 61.7% chose monogamy: An exclusive relationship between two people.
- 0.39% chose the triad (or trouple): a closed relationship that involves three people instead of two.
- 0.58% chose polyfidelity: a closed relationship with sexual and emotional fidelity required of a group greater than two.
- 5.3% chose polyamory: Participants have multiple romantic and sexual partners, ideally with everyone involved aware of and consenting to the arrangement.
- 6% have chosen an open relationship: two people in a relationship decide that they are allowed to connect with other people, together or separately.
- 1.44% chose Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell: Partners are free to do whatever they want with whomever they want as long as it is never known to their other partner, either through direct disclosure or by d other obvious changes in behavior or relationship. It’s delicate.
Well, now you know a little more. So if you are going to watch a lesbian couple’s cam, you know that you can open your mind to new sexual practices, and not just those of your imagination.
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