The world of fetishes includes the male chastity belt.While we‘remore familiar with chastity belts for women, there is also a version for men. And to their great delight.
In the past, chastity belts were mainly worn by women. Young virgins who wanted to remain virgins, women left alone at home when their husbands were away, or as punishment for having been unfaithful to a man. And these are just a few examples. The ultimate goal remains the same: control.
And that’s what the chastity belt for men is all about. In a game of domination and submission, this sexual accessory can offer pleasures hitherto unknown to you. So let’s set off together to discover this little fetish jewel.
What is a male chastity belt?
It comes in a variety of forms, but in all of them, it encircles the penis in such a way as to prevent it from getting hard. And if it does, it will cause some deliciously painful tension. It also prevents the man from masturbating. It’s also known as a “chastity cage” or “purity cage”.
They can be made of metal, siilcone, steel, leather or latex. In all cases, the “shells” are rigid enough to prevent any erection. They may have a ring to hold the testicles and be worn simply, or there may be a harness. In short, there’s something for everyone. There are even models that work with Bluetooth.
Although men’s chastity belts have only been around since 1970, they immediately found their place in the fetish world, quickly becoming part of dominatrix accessories. In fact, you may be surprised to learn that these days, more belts are sold for men than for women! Little rascals..
What criteria should I take into account when choosing a chastity belt for men?
The first thing you need to know to choose the right model is the size of your penis. And the penis at rest. Obvious, you may say, but since the purpose of the cage is to prevent any sexual activity or arousal, it has to fit properly.
They come in 4 different colors: pink, black, blue or metal. Once you’ve taken care of that detail, you’ll need to consider the material. Here are a few tips to help you make the right choice:
- Metal chastity belts: these are the most widespread, easy to wear and maintain. Stainless steel also helps prevent rust.
- Silicone chastity cages: these are soft to wear and adapt well to the penis.
- Leather chastity cages: these are rare on the market and used mainly by bdsm players.
- Plastic models are best used for a few hours.
How do Iuse it?
Used mainly in the BDSM world (but not exclusively), it serves as a sexual accessory during sessions with the dominatrix. It’s the dominatrix who puts the chastity belt on her submissive, or forces her to do so. The belt must enclose the penis in such a way that it cannot become erect, otherwise it will cause varying degrees of pain. The belt is locked by a padlock to which the mistress holds the key.
It can be jocked or cock ringed. The belt can also include a god for the anus. In this case, you’ll need to think about lubricant.
Why use this fetish sextoy?
The purpose of the chastity belt is to use submission and pain, within a framework of free and mutual consent, to satisfy fantasies, stimulate sexual desire and increase pleasure. This accessory enables one partner to subdue the other, both by forcing him or her to wear the equipment of his or her choice, and by becoming the master of the sexual relationship insofar as he or she holds the key to the belt.
And let’s not forget the psychological side. It allows the man to concentrate more on his wife’s desires, and the woman to decide on her partner’s orgasms. When the woman finally allows the man to remove his chastity cage, his excitement is so great that he will offer his partner a great deal of pleasure.
The male chastity cage can also be used as a punishment. If the mistress fears that her submissive is being too flighty, she can prevent him from going elsewhere or masturbating.
Blocking sexual parts also tends to greatly increase sexual desire. Especially when we feel constant pressure on our sexes. This makes SM play much more interesting, as you have to find the right balance between pleasure and pain.
Is the rea right time to wear a chastity belt?
Not really, contrary to what you might think. Wearing a belt isn’t always confined to the simple confines of a sadomasochistic session. The dominatrix may ask her slave to wear it at certain delicate moments, such as the office, at a public event, at a family reunion, etc… Which is very exciting for the submissive. Being afraid of being caught with a sexual restraint is understandable, it can be embarrassing.
So, whether in intimacy or in everyday life, it’s totally possible for the man to wear it at all times, according to his dominatrix’s orders. And what woman wants, man does. If the man wants to free himself from the grip of this sex toy, then he’ll have to meet all his mistress’s demands.
Despite preconceived ideas about the chastity cage, this sex toy brings real excitement to both partners and helps spice up a couple’s sex life. With a wide choice in physical stores or online, there’s no reason not to find the one that will make you enjoy painfully delicious pleasures.
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