How do you give your partner crazy oral sex and keep her coming back more often for longer? Many men ask themselves this question. If you thought size was everything, you were oh so wrong. Modern Milf tells you more to fine-tune your knowledge.
You may have read our first article on cunnilingus and how to make her come every time. If you followed the instructions correctly, you’re one of those alpha males who know how to give pleasure to their partner(s). But just in case, here are a few more tips that might help.
The latest studies show that only 33% of women have an orgasm with simple intercourse, which means they need your help. What do women really want? A good cunnilingus. So what’s the secret? With just a few simple techniques, you can easily become a cunning linguist. No more naughty websites, long live IRL and crazy oral sex!
Warming up
Before you even get started, giving a woman an orgasm comes down to one thing: the clitoris. It just wants to be rubbed. Orgasms won’t magically happen through penetration alone. Women just need a longer warm-up. That’s why oral sex is so important. It seems that while women are trying to have an orgasm, men are trying not to.
Most women need the “happy button” to be able to be stimulated, because it likes to be touched and kissed. Start by kissing her and telling her how hot she is (more or less elegantly, depending on your partner). Then move on to the breasts. For some women, the nipples are directly connected to the clitoris. Once you’ve gone south, locate the clitoris so you can get to work. You’ll find it hidden under a little hood, so don’t be afraid.
As every woman is different, it helps to have an inventory or cunnilingus techniques to try. Start by rubbing her gently.You can do it over her panties or stockings, or by using a little lubricant, which is amazing. Don’t forget that lubrication is essential, otherwise it becomes painful, just as it is for your penis. Good oral sex starts with good lubrication.
Blows
Every woman likes a slightly different touch to provoke orgasms. There are a few basic techniques, just like in tennis. You can start with your fingers, then use your tongue. Most women like to be rubbed or licked in an “up and down” motion. Start licking with a light touch to her joined lips (like a sandwich), then move on to more medium pressure. Many women enjoy an “indirect” touch, achieved by rubbing the skin over the “cap” of the “rosebud” located just above the clitoris – so you don’t have to Google Map it.
A popular movement that women love is the “circular” motion that surrounds the clitoris with the tongue. Start with a light, feathery touch. If you want to build up momentum, change the movements between a more intense and a less intense touch. There’s also “side-to-side” licking where you use your tongue horizontally, which works, as well as inserting a finger or two once you see she’s getting aroused and her breathing seems heavier.
Porn star-turned-director Marcus London claims that his “Spiderman” technique “gives a woman an orgasm by stimulating the clitoris and inserting two fingers” into the sacred cave (we validate!). Her “circle” technique “goes round and round, adding a little speed and strength”. You’ll appreciate her “omega” technique which involves two fingers in the anus with a “come-hither” movement that hits the woman’s G-spot, which is located on the upper wall of the woman’s vagina (perfect when confidence is there and the lady is very horny). To make this movement easy to do, practice, as it’s quite difficult to locate the clitoris. After this, you’ll be a god of oral sex.
The big o
So how do you know how long to do it, if she’s ready to orgasm, or if you should stop or continue? Keep your tongue moving to build sexual tension and momentum. Establish a rhythm and gently tell her to take a few deep breaths.
This is a tantric sex technique that works wonders at any time, relaxing her and making it easier for her to orgasm. Use your tongue at this stage in one long, repeated movement. Signs of growing arousal including deeper breathing, moaning, grunting or threatening suicide if you stop are good signs. Continue until her body contracts and she achieves an “orgasm face”.
Stunning oral positions
Some positions are better than others. And they pretty much have to do with access to the area you’re working with. A fun way to get to the “pleasure palace”? Get her on all fours so you can get licked from behind. And the view isn’t bad. If you’re lazy, simply lie under her on the bed while she lies with her knees bent. A new position you might like to try is standing up while you’re on your knees (sit on a pillow or cushion so you can walk around afterwards). Ultra erotic, you’ll love it.
