Long distance, confinement or simply a desire to spice up your relationship? The use of connected sex toys will delight you. Here’s how these little toys can spice up your relationship.
Distance doesn’t have to mean abstinence. Because even when you’re not next door, there’s still a way to keep in touch. Thanks to connected toys for adults. So you don’t have to settle for solo masturbation sessions. For those who appreciate it, you can also complement this with sexting. Sending hot messages, fiery vocals, torrid visios, it’s possible to make love in a variety of ways from a distance.
Sex toys for everyone
The variety of toys on offer will virtually eliminate the miles that separate you. You’ll be able to experience sensations of pleasure on your own, but connected to each other. The principle behind connected sex toys is that they can be activated remotely. They can be controlled by one partner to act on the other. A power you can’t refuse.
What’s more, as the sexuality market is booming, there are more and more possibilities. There are clitoral stimulators, dildos, vibrators, masturbators, prostate massagers and the famous anal plug. So there’s something for every taste. It’s the perfect opportunity to try out new things and open yourself up to new pleasures. Maybe even to push back your limits a little, together but separately.
Total control
Whether you use a remote control or a dedicated app, you can choose how you want your partner to feel. You can also spice up the game by sending a message explaining what you’re going to do to him or her, asking how he or she feels, adding tokens, etc. You can ask him or her to touch one of his or her erogenous zones at the same time, for example.
If you feel like it, you can also make audios or even a live audio or video call to see how your partner reacts to your remote stimulation. You can also opt for surprise. Ask him or her to wear the toy all day long and activate it without warning. The anticipation will generate a lot of excitement on both sides.
Another option is to reverse the roles and let the person wearing the sextoy have the power. It’s then up to her to give orders: “increase the power, change the stimulation mode, faster”… It’s ultimately a game of domination/submission that’s being played here. All that’s left is for you to use your imagination. Do you want to surprise your partner, proposing a long-distance session as if you were together, and slowly building up the pleasure? Or do you want to take the opportunity to impose your own rhythm, bring her to the brink of orgasm and stop just short of it?
There’s no time to play
The great thing about connected sex toys is that they break away from the basic rhythm of only making love in bed at night. Now you can play all day long, whenever you want, for as long as you want. You can have the toy worn all day long and warn at the last minute that a session is coming, or not warn at all. You’ve probably already imagined having the power to provoke pleasure in incongruous situations: during a work meeting, in the middle of a training session, on a night out with friends..
You can also choose to build up pressure throughout the day, just to drive your partner crazy. To do this, choose toys that stay in place for long periods. These could be geisha balls to insert into the vagina, or a plug or anal rosary. Some of these toys are vibrating and can be activated remotely. If this isn’t the case, you can also describe how you feel to your partner the whole time you’re wearing it. That, too, should make him or her hot.
