Asrelationships evolve, some couples look for ways to rekindle passion and strengthen their bond. For some couples, who have been together for manyyears, libertarianism hasproved tobethebreathof freshairneeded to give a new dimension to theirintimacy.
Libertinism is a current of thought that originated in 16th-century Italy with authors such as Machiavelli, then spread to France in the following century. It was originally an aristocratic movement, first appearing at the king’s court. This is hardly surprising, given that the common people didn’t necessarily have time for such considerations. And aristocrats married for power, with little or no room for love.
Libertinism, often shrouded in mystery and preconceived judgments, offers a fascinating field of exploration for many couples. Beyond the simple notion of multiple sexual relationships, this practice opens up a range of experiences that redefine intimacy, trust and complicity within a relationship, as it did for Julie and Alexandre.
The distinctive traits oflibertines: profile and reputation
Here’s the general culture point (you know I love it, almost as much as the sex). In literary history, libertine figures emerge with marked characteristics, and among them, the emblematic protagonist remains unquestionably Casanova. These characters share common traits, clearly distinguishing themselves from the other protagonists of their time.
Common characteristics
Libertine figures often present themselves as intellectuals, members of the aristocracy or individuals occupying high positions in society. They embody wealth and have benefited from a refined education.
- Whether male or female, these characters possess distinctive personality traits:
- They are cultured, having been educated in the upper echelons of society.
- Endowed with natural charisma, they excel in social interaction, skilfully using others’ weaknesses to their advantage.
- They are obsessed with the pursuit of sensual pleasure, often in defiance of established moral standards and values.
- Their approach to love is often tinged with cynicism and manipulation, playing on other people’s emotions without regard for the consequences.
Manipulation and legend
These characters, with their ability to seduce, deceive and dominate others for personal gain, stand out for their recklessness in the face of the consequences of their actions. Some of them have become timeless icons, such as Casanova and Don Juan, whose stories have transcended the ages.
Casanova
Casanova, an emblematic figure of Italy, is famous for his adventures, recounted in his memoirs entitled “The Story of My Life”. Considered the archetypal 18th-century libertine, he explored everything from the intellectual to the sexual, even claiming to have had relations with one hundred and forty-two women.
Don Juan
In French literature, Molière’s Don Juan, directly inspired by Casanova, embodies this libertine figure. His reputation rests not only on his succession of conquests, but also on his refusal to follow any doctrine, be it philosophical or religious. His mockery of religion even led to the censorship of his play for almost two decades.
The actions and characters of libertines have left an indelible mark on literary history, depicting a provocative and often scandalous facet of the society of their time. Since then, the image of libertines has evolved.
Casanova
They took the plunge and here’s what theygot out ofit
At the height of their relationship, Julie and Alexandre had always lived a passionate life. Three children later, they felt a compelling need to recapture the intensity that once animated their daily lives. It wasn’t weariness, but rather a quest for something new, a thirst for adventure that drove them to libertarianism. Thanks to this new openness in their sexuality and intimacy as a couple, they have seen positive effects on their love relationships. So, what does libertarianism offer them? How has it saved their relationship and stimulated their sex life? I’ll tell you all about it.
Self-explorationand reinvention
Julie and Alexandre have always been on a quest for discovery, and libertarianism was an obvious choice. A step towards deeper exploration of their sexuality, a way to breathe new life into their intimacy. The decision was not without fears, but their first foray into this world was revealing, offering a rebirth of their bond.
Renewal and connection
In this world of respect and kindness, the couple discovered a new facet of their relationship. Far from weakening their bond, these experiences together actually strengthened it. They rediscovered a sense of wonder, a rediscovered connection that transcends the simple carnal act.
Rules and complicity
To preserve their intimacy, the two lovebirds have established strict rules, including that of living every experience together (I’m not talking about candaulism, but more about sharing experiences with the other’s consent, let’s be precise). This decision strengthens their complicity while allowing them to explore new horizons. A way for them to consolidate their relationship while embracing a liberated sexuality.
The key to success in libertarianism lies in establishing clear rules and well-defined limits. These markers offer a sense of security and preserve the couple’s intimacy, allowing exploration without compromising the foundations of the relationship.
Confidence and fulfillment
Contrary to preconceived ideas about libertarianism, this adventure requires unshakeable trust in one’s partner. For Julie, the experience reinforced her confidence in Alexandre. A true immersion in absolute happiness, combining personal fulfillment and mutual enrichment.
10 advantages of libertarianism
- Erotic rediscovery: sensual exploration that rekindles desire and passion.
- Deep complicity: sharing intimate moments strengthens the connection between partners.
- Clear-sighted rules: establishing rules reinforces mutual respect and strengthens the relationship.
- Absolute trust: reinforces confidence, leading to absolute happiness.
- Taboo-free exploration: freedom to experiment without judgment or prejudice.
- Increased communication: better communication about desires and needs.
- Personal fulfillment: reinforces self-esteem and the discovery of one’s own limits.
- Diversity of experience: each experience is a unique and enriching adventure.
- Balance between freedom and commitment: reconciles exploration with the stability of a solid relationship.
- Enhanced intimacy: a means of renewing intimacy, sometimes lost in routine.
A final word
Julie and Alexandre’s story bears witness to the profound impact that libertarianism can have on a couple’s life. Beyond sexual exploration, it’s an intimate adventure, a rediscovery of the other, a renewed connection, testifying that this lifestyle choice can be a catalyst for revitalizing and consolidating a loving relationship. This story inspires us to rethink the dynamics of couple relationships, illustrating that beyond prejudice, libertarianism can be a fertile ground for the development and strengthening of emotional and intimate bonds.
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