Women like young people. Being more than 15 years old is always an enriching experience for both partners. It must also be said that the fantasy of the mature woman is very common among men.
A mature woman often represents, in your naughty fantasies, elegance, with a certain presence, a social status. She is also the one who has sexual experience, who knows what she wants and expresses it. She is psychologically mature and she can be ambitious and like success. All these points (and probably others) contribute to your fantasy of the mature woman. And this milf (+15 years old) or this cougar (+20 years old) is waiting for you to realize them.
However, it is necessary to stop for a while on the seduction part. To seduce these women, you will need a new approach. We do not seduce in the same way a young woman of 25 years and a woman of 50 years. So I reveal you some tips to reach your goals.
How to approach a mature woman?
The first approach will be essential. Dredge yes, but in a light and relaxed way. And prefer a direct approach. The mature woman has experience, so if you are nervous or if you are beating around the bush, she will feel it right away. After that, you will depend on her leniency… No more jokes.
For example, you can express how you feel when you see her. By being honest and direct, you will gain points. Honesty and authenticity pay off more than you think. But be careful not to cross the line! Don’t treat her casually or like your girlfriend. Or like your grand-mother. You’ll lose all your assets.
Don’t forget that there is an age difference. The bigger the gap, the more delicate the first approach. There could be misunderstandings, such as her feeling attacked or thinking you are making fun of her. So keep it light.
One last important point is about psychology. Or we could even call it empathy. A 30+ year old woman thinks and behaves differently than a 20 year old girl. That’s why it’s very important that you adapt to what she thinks and feels and what the woman you want to approach likes to talk about.
What topics to talk about?
If you’re a bit strategic, browse social networks like Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest, … To read the posts of older women. And the ones they share. That way, you’ll get a little idea of what they might be interested in. This will also help you get past the image of immaturity that can stick to your missing years. When you are in town, start watching or even listening to what older women are talking about. This way, you will get used to their way of communicating after a while.
In any case, when you first meet an older woman, don’t bring up the age difference. And reject all her remarks in this sense (“I could be your mother”, “you are my son’s age”, “it is not serious”). Show your self-confidence, she’ll like that.
Show your maturity
If the mature woman is older and perhaps more sexually experienced than you, don’t assume that she will be your guide in this area. She doesn’t want to have to deal with a man. It would be quite the opposite. So don’t be afraid to take the lead when the time comes. If she needs to teach you things, it will come naturally in the exchange. So initiate the kissing and caressing. Dare (within the limits of mutual consent of course).
By taking the plunge, you’ll be pushing for action. Without that, you won’t get results. So stop the talk at the right time and take action. By doing so, you will increase your power of seduction.
Should you pretend to be younger or older? This is a question that comes up often as well. You have to find a middle ground. You should not have too immature attitudes towards her and show her that you are a man, a real man! Educated, funny, composed, a little crazy, try to combine your young side with this more mature side of you
Show your self-confidence
Being younger can also be a little intimidating. It can be very attractive, but also unsettling when she remembers your age gap. For this reason, don’t put her on a pedestal right off the bat. Be mysterious and make yourself desirable in turn. In short, be a man, a real man! The goal is that she takes you seriously from the start and not for a “kid”.
Where to meet mature women?
There are probably milfs and cougars around your home. What you need to determine is what type of mature women you want to meet. Once you determine that, you can go to the kind of place she is likely to go. So, if you are attracted to the elegant, cultured, high status woman, theaters, exhibitions, museums, the opera, the library are a good solution.
If you are looking for a more “relaxed” profile, you can try more common places such as bars for thirty-somethings and more, sports classes, dance, cooking, … The choice is vast.
The negative point of these options, unfortunately, is that you have to face the person and you run the risk of being disappointed, hurt, rejected, … Which you don’t really like, do you? It is quite normal.
Then there is the online option. It is comfortable because it offers many possibilities. From cam to IRL, everything is allowed. Here again, you will have to ask yourself what kind of encounters you want, what kind of exchanges, and if you just want to fantasize or make it real. In any case, think about all the points mentioned above and … Good luck.
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