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Breast and nipple torture: tips for beginners

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Enjoying with the breasts only is quite possible. This is why breast and nipple torture is so enjoyable. Provided of course that it is done well, like all good things. You can also add other sexual accessories such as a gag or a whip to increase the pleasure even more. But this is not always necessary. A good kneading or a few pinches can quite achieve your goals.

Either way, if you want the right balance, you’ll have to tune in. The reality is that, as with most BDSM activities, there is a fine line between fantastic breast and nipple torture and total unpleasantness. There is an obvious relationship between the nipples and orgasm, to the point that in the 18th century it was believed that there was a nerve connecting them directly to the sexual organs. This nerve does not exist, of course, but many women (and men, therefore!) find extreme pleasure in the rough manipulation of the nipples.

So, a little topo on the different objects for torturing your submissive, then I’ll give you some advice to start like a pro.

 

Accessories for breast and nipple torture

You will find that there are various ways to torture your partner’s boobs. You can try your hand at flogging, different temperatures (hot with wax or cold with ice cubes, for example), stinging (who doesn’t like to hang himself a good whipped nettle?!), different sensations by materials, … In short, the list can be long depending on your imagination. However, I will mainly discuss tightening techniques.

The clothes peg

The best known, the most common. And that you can find anywhere. Convenient. However, you will have to be careful about small details like that the pliers are not too worn, especially for plastic pliers. For what ? Because sometimes it breaks and once stuck, removing it can be very painful.

Another common technique with wooden clothespins is to use two wooden pegs placed on top of each other, perpendicular. Remember to file the bulge of the “jaws” of the cross clamp. Then place it on the first (the one that pinches the nipple) and, depending on whether you place it more or less close to the chest, have fun varying the pressure with one or two clips.

 

Other types of pliers

For any other type of pliers, you can find them in supermarkets. You will find “cloth” clips. Avoid unwieldy so-called “eight” clips and prefer crocodile clips, with the swivel buckle if possible. I also recommend tablecloth clips with weights, “glass clips”, miniature replicas of clothespins, “bag” clips and drawing clips, of which there are now very wide varieties. Not to mention the coat rack with clips, which offers interesting possibilities but whose aesthetics are quite deplorable!

And above all, test them. Nothing beats practice. But don’t do it directly on the breasts if you don’t know the pressure of your clamp. A good indicator? Apply the forceps to the small strip of skin located between the base of the thumb and that of the index finger.

 

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The sex – shop option for safe accessories

You can of course find clamps for breast and nipple torture in a sex shop but they have one drawback: they are expensive. However, they have the advantage of being more secure. Here are some examples that you could admire: the now classic hinged clamp, mini vices, clamps, rod clamps and even mini mousetraps. In short, you have enough to have fun and test your partner’s erogenous zones. Might as well give her a little climax before an orgasm of madness. You will become its absolute master with such a dose of pleasure.

 

How to start this BDSM practice without risk?

So that you can get started in this sexual practice with a minimum of risk, here are some tips on what to do and what not to do. And don’t forget that any sexual practice must be done with the consent of both partners, I can’t stress this enough.

Here we go.

To do

1 – Take your time

As with any practice you start with, you have to go slowly. Start slowly to observe your partner’s every reaction. Start with gentle sensations like stroking, rubbing or even biting. If your partner reacts positively to it, then you can try increasing the intensity in intervals.

2 – Communicate with your partner

Primordial! But as in all romantic or sexual relationships in reality. Especially if you want to reach Nirvana and have a memorable orgasm. Ask him if he likes it and/or watch his reaction to your touch on his chest. That way you’ll know what works for each.

3 – The choice of pliers

Choosing the right clamps will undoubtedly contribute to your pleasure and that of your slave . Many types of clamps are adjustable, which means you can adjust them to the softest first and tighten the clamps as needed. So think about the material and the “practical” side.

4 – Choose the right rope

For those who have already gone through the first stages and are a little more advanced in the practice of breast and nipple torture, the use of ropes can arise when using weights or pulleys for example. A rope that is too thin could damage the skin or the breast. a rope that is too big can irritate and squeeze important veins. To start, a thick bamboo string will do its job. Be careful, however, not to tie the breasts too long. For beginners, I recommend no more than 5 minutes. Attachment to the breast restricts blood flow to the breast tissue and nipples, which can be a problem if the operation is performed for too long.

5 – Find out

With the Internet, it is not difficult to find thousands of tutorials or videos that will explain how to do it. You can also find local groups with whom you can chat live. In short, do your research.

 

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Don’t

1 Use clothespins the first time

Yes, it may seem contradictory but remember that the skin of tits is quite fragile and the nipples are very sensitive. So while clothespins may seem handy and accessible, start with pinching and nipping instead. This will give you an idea of ​​what the other likes.

2 – Each breast is different

If you have ever practiced breast and nipple torture with other partners, remember that everyone is different. Everyone’s sensitivity is unique as well as their feelings, so what pleased one person will not necessarily please the other.

3 – Numb your feelings

If you thought that was a good idea, you’re wrong. With a numb nipple, it becomes more difficult to determine whether the feeling of the clamp is too soft or too strong. You have pain receptors and nerve endings for a reason: to warn you of serious problems. So…Avoid.

4 Do not think  about ”  after

Stopping at the torture of breasts and nipples and not thinking about the aftermath is a big mistake. Excitement is still high after the clamps are removed, so think that this libido will have to be satisfied. This can be done by fellatio, cunnilingus, caresses, … It’s up to you to find what will please everyone!

 

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