Today we’re talking about a practice for you gentlemen! You may not be aware of it, but the prostate is a highly sensitive organ that provokes intense orgasms. Discover prostate massage for intense moments of pleasure.
When you like good sex, you’re open to new experiences. The best way to stimulate the prostate is through the anus. So here are 5 golden rules for a good prostate massage (and a uniquely intense orgasm), or the art of the finger up the ass!
1. Making the subject less taboo
Let’s face it, the idea of anal penetration for men is sometimes difficult to talk about. For many, the fact of being penetrated is associated with homosexuality. However, as a reminder, you can engage in any sexual practice you wish, but this in no way calls into question your sexual orientation. Your sexual orientation is determined not by the practices you engage in, but by the gender of the people you want to do them with. There are still a few reservations about hygiene that you need to get over in order to be completely free.
The state of mind is very important, and you need to be able to let go for a totally satisfying experience. The best advice under these conditions is to communicate with your partner. Ask questions, find out things together, talk about your fears, how you’d like it to go… And free yourself from all your prejudices. This is between you and her. If there are no taboos in the couple and you know that this area deserves to be explored, you must nevertheless make your partner understand that this is not a trivial act and that approaching this area requires absolute and mutual trust.
2. Preparing the donor
In practice, there are a few precautions she should take to ensure that everything goes smoothly. And since it’s her fingers that will be slipping into this sensitive area, she’ll need to take particular care.
This means making sure her nails are short and well-filed to avoid scratching, and remembering to remove her rings. You also need to keep your hands clean to prevent the spread of bacteria. You can also use a latex glove or a finger condom to ensure impeccable hygiene.
But preparation also involves gradually relaxing the area. There are 3 rings around the anal sphincter, which will gradually open up as arousal builds. So you need to be as gentle as possible, especially if you’re a bit stressed. It’s best to start by kissing and caressing the anus. You can also use your tongue. You also need to be patient – there’s no hurry anyway. As a reminder, the anus is not an area that lubricates naturally, so it’s highly recommended to keep a (rather thick) lubricant handy.
3. Receiver preparation
We’ve talked about hand hygiene for the person inserting the finger, but you also need to think about your own hygiene. A good shower is therefore advisable before anything else. Some people prefer an anal enema, but this is not compulsory. And remember, don’t do it too often, or you’ll damage the anal mucosa. The important thing is that you feel confident, so do what you feel is essential for that.
You can also prepare for insertion and start dilating the anus by wearing an anal plug or playing with an anal toy. This will also enable you to discover the area for yourself and get a better grasp of your sensations. Discovering prostate massage is a long adventure.
4. Choose the right position
The question of position is an important one, as it should enable you to make sure that everything goes smoothly. This means that you should feel comfortable and ready to concentrate on the sensations, and that your anus should be easily accessible to avoid complicating your partner’s task and promote smooth insertion.
One of the simplest positions is for the man to lie on his back, with his buttocks raised slightly by a cushion and his legs resting on his partner’s thighs. But this position can be rather intimidating for a first time. Alternatively, you can prefer the doggy-style position, lying on your side with your legs bent at the knees towards your torso. For the more adventurous, doggy-style can be a very exciting position (as long as you take it on).
5. Let your desires guide you
Next, it’s all about time and letting go. It’s important to let yourself discover these new sensations, and not to be in a quest for orgasm at all costs. It’s not a performance, it’s an exploration. Each partner must find his or her own satisfaction in taking and giving pleasure.
Your partner needs to progress slowly, so don’t hesitate to guide her with words or by helping her with her movements using your hands. It doesn’t have to be back and forth. And if you don’t feel comfortable, you can use a prostate massager that will stay in place, or choose a vibrating one. You can also let her increase the diameter inserted by gradually adding more fingers or choosing a dildo of the size of your choice.
From then on, anything goes… As long as both partners enjoy what’s happening. There are no rules. The promise is an extremely voluptuous orgasm that will manifest itself in successive waves of very intense pleasure throughout the body. Long live prostate massage.
