naive young midget. Besides, women like that arevery attractive because they push you (willingly or not) out of your comfort zone.
Intelligent women are probably the hardest to seduce. Or so you may think. And you know why? Because you underestimate yourself. Since intelligent women tend to impress men, you’re reluctant to take the plunge. Which is a shame, because it’s possible that they’re just waiting for you. What’s more, intelligent, cultured women are often embarrassed by this side of themselves that scares men. So it’s time to do each other a favor.
If you’d like to take the plunge and seduce an intelligent woman, here are a few tips to help you win the heart of this unique creature.
Don’t overdo it
If you approach her in a heavy-handed way, you’re starting off on the wrong foot. And don’t put her on a pedestal. This is the basic rule of seducing an intelligent woman. If you bend over backwards, she’ll take everything for granted and won’t be interested. She also needs a challenge or a laugh. She’ll quickly tire if you’re constantly showing her off. So flatter her, but not too much.
Show your self-confidence
Whether she’s high-class or more classic, a woman is still a woman. And a woman will always be attracted to a man who is confident. It shows a certain charisma, which is very attractive. So be daring and assertive. If you’re too shy or introverted, you’ll miss your chance.
Put aside your fears and complexes. She’s an intelligent woman, but just because you have a less rewarding job or don’t have the same culture, doesn’t mean you’re not worth the same. And if she wants to talk to you, it’s probably because you bring something to the table. Your passions, your personal work, will allow her to escape into another universe.
Take an interest in her
Intelligent women tend to be interested in lots of different things. So don’t spend your time talking only about yourself (nobody likes that) and ask her questions about herself. Ask her what kind of reading she does, who her favorite author is, what work she does, what research she does, what plays and concerts she likes to see. She’ll appreciate the attention and feel important. And it will probably open up new horizons for you.
It could be an opportunity for you to learn more about subjects that interest her. A good opportunity to deepen the relationship in a more playful way, since you’ll be doing it together.
Play up yourdifferences to make her laugh
Remember that it’s important to be yourself. Even if you’re different, if you like each other, it’s because those differences bring you closer together. An intelligent woman will have fun with these differences, so play on them to make her laugh. Frankness with a dose of self-mockery can be a winning bingo.
For example, if she tells you about a famous character, a mythical film, an exhibition… if she tells you ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, don’t hesitate to tell her that you’re lost on the subject and that you can’t follow despite your best efforts! This will make her laugh, and that’s when you should ask her to enlighten you on the subject, because you’re very interested.
Cultivate yourself a little
Take the opportunity to brush up on your general culture. By stimulating your neurons, you’ll be able to better grasp certain subtleties or references that the intelligent woman might share with you. She or her friends, if you get the chance to meet them. This will be an additional asset in seducing her a little more.
To do this, use the news, via TV, the Internet or your smartphone. That way, you’ll be up to date with the latest news and won’t be caught off guard during a conversation. Also listen to the radio, with its many debates on different stations, whether on current affairs or history, for example. And finally, watch the must-see movies.
Flirt by SMS
Without being in total admiration or submission as I mentioned above, show her that you like her. Forget that she’s an intelligent woman. While she’ll appreciate a few compliments about herself, she’ll like it more if you make her laugh. So funny photos, meme, gif, … are suggested. Think of a morning hello with a cool emoji. In short, show her you’re thinking about her without being too intrusive.
Try tobe subtle
Don’t reveal yourself completely to an intelligent woman. Keep a little mystery, she’ll love it. She needs to discover things about you for herself. So be subtle to keep her interested.
For example, flirt by smiling quickly and looking into her eyes from time to time, or give her one sincere compliment rather than five. She’s got to want more after every interaction, and if she’s smart, she’ll probably rise to the challenge to get to know you better.
Above all, don’t be afraid to go out with her, because she’s a cultured, beautiful and intelligent woman. Virtually all women love a man’s self-confidence, so play that magic card to melt her heart. Also, try not to be afraid to ask her out for a coffee, because the worst that can happen is that she’ll say a big NO! And you’ll survive, I promise.
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