Am I a good lay? Who hasn’t asked themselves this question? Man or woman, young or old, we’ve all wondered about our performance in bed.
Is my partner really getting off? Isn’t he faking it? Whether it’s simple curiosity or a question of ego, it’s often on our minds. So how do you know if you’re good in bed?
He/she is exhausted at the end of each report
If your partner is completely exhausted after every sexual encounter, you’ve done it! Better still, if he/she falls asleep immediately after your lovemaking, you can take pride in the fact that you’ve given him/her such an intense and pleasurable time that he/she couldn’t help but sink into a soothing sleep to recuperate all the calories you’ve just made him/her burn.
So whenever you see your partner completely exhausted after your lovemaking, be proud of yourself – you’ve done it!
A succession of orgasms
It’s impressive enough for many people to bring their partner to the climax of sexual pleasure, the orgasm. And if you can get him/her to climax several times, you’ve just achieved a prodigious feat. To say that you’re a good lay would be an understatement, since you could even be said to be the perfect lay. If every time your partner was ready for another round like a marathon runner, he/she no doubt appreciates the moments of pleasure spent with you. It’s proof that you’ve mastered your partner’s body and erogenous zones to perfection, and that you’re giving him/her a great deal of pleasure. And there’s no better testimony to your good performance.
He/she compliments you on your performance without you saying anything
If your partner tells you how great it was without you asking, then he / she’s probably telling you the truth. You’re undoubtedly one of the best shots he/she’s ever had. So much so that he/she couldn’t resist complimenting you.
He/she wants you all the time
Does your partner keep coming back for more after every session? He / she wants you all the time and will do anything, even brave rain and snow, to get to you? And spend moments of pleasure with you in bed? Does he/she want to jump on you as soon as you exchange a kiss? He/she is undoubtedly fulfilled and finds you excellent in the sack. If he/she desires you so much and wants more… It’s because he/she really enjoys spending time with you in bed. Be sure that if he/she found you boring, he/she wouldn’t want you so much.
He / she has a smile on her face
A sincere smile at the end of your lovemaking is undoubtedly proof that your partner has just had a great time. It proves that he/she didn’t get bored and that he/she had a good time.
You introduce her to new experiences
You’ve introduced your partner to new sexual positions. And you’ve encouraged him/her to experiment with new things like sex toys and oral sex. You’ve helped your partner deepen his or her knowledge of his or her body and erogenous zones. Thanks to you, her erotic universe has been taken to another level. There’s no doubt that you’re a great catch!
