Seeing two lesbians making love is a fantasy for many men. These two bodies embracing, caressing and kissing each other with tenderness and passion. Or in a dominance/submission exchange that reveals all the strengths of their characters. That’s what makes your dick stand on end.
But why are men so attracted to lesbians? Why does lesbian sex make men fantasize so much? Why do two vaginas have the power to give almost any straight man a hard-on? There may be many reasons for this, and to better understand some of them, I’ve interviewed some of my friends to share this mindset. Perhaps you’ll find yourself in some of the views shared. And if not, don’t hesitate to share your opinions with me, it’s always instructive to know even better how to make you fantasize.
By the way, speaking of culture, you should know that the term “lesbian” is the most popular category according to the Pornhub 2022 survey. A category that has held the top spot for several years now. And the icing on the cake is that it’s women who are looking for lesbian sex the most. For men, it’s fifth place. Which is still quite a record. For France, the most popular categories are, in order: lesbian, sodomy, French, ebony, threesome. And best viewed on a cell phone. À bon entendeur ..
Let’s move on to the explanations. Well, according to the testimonies gathered, as I said above. I’d like to thank my friends for their participation, and for sharing their points of view. So, here we go.
Julian, 34: the gentle way between women
For Julian, it’s above all the softness and sensuality exuded by two women making love that appeals to him. Watching the voluptuousness and eroticism emanating from these lesbians as they arouse each other titillates his libido. The torrid atmosphere, the obvious connection of these sometimes lustful, sometimes enterprising women, are part of the elements that light up his brain (no, I’m really talking about his brain and his fantasies, not the “other” male brain. No pun intended. No pun intended. Not my style. Maybe…).
What Julian also likes about sex between two women is seeing the pleasure they take in discovering each other’s erogenous zones, taking their time. A bit like slow sex, but sexier. He likes to see them touching each other, to reach a crazy climax or a whole series of different orgasms, which in no way prevent them from continuing to give each other pleasure. And if one of them can squirt, well, why not? A fountain woman is always exciting to see.
Patrick, 29: an invitation to a threesome
Ah, the famous threesome… the sexual practice that makes most people fantasize. And one of the preconceived ideas that many men have about lesbians is that they’re always up for a threesome. Sorry to disappoint you, as I explained in a previous article, this cliché is … a cliché. However, when you’re watching lesbian porn, you don’t really care. The most important thing is how it makes you feel.
And for Patrick, watching two lesbians making love makes him feel as if they’re inviting him to join in their romp or rock-leaf-chisel (yes, I’m making a pun here. If you’ve never been wrong, throw the stone at me. Okay, I’ll stop). He feels a strong urge to join them, to give them as much pleasure as he gets from watching them. He, too, gets a hard-on from the softness and sensuality of women in action. And it makes him want to share this overflowing libido with them.
Hubert, 47: no penis in sight
One of the things that tends to turn my friend Hubert off is the sight of a cock penetrating a vagina. The image of a cock turns him off, or at best, he struggles to find the rhythm. With lesbian sex, there’s no risk. Just two vaginas kissing. The rubbing of vulvas, with no compulsory penetration as in “classic” porn, allows him to fantasize and project himself into the illusion that it will be he, and he alone, who penetrates them. You could say it’s a form of domination by proxy. I can understand it, sometimes you have to be a little selfish in your pleasure. Arriving on virgin territory is always flattering for the ego.
He also admits half-heartedly that seeing huge cocks tends to give him a complex, making him wonder whether he’d be capable of making a woman cum the way he does on screen. Not that he’s ashamed of his manly member, but he’d rather not have to compare. And don’t forget, if this happens to you, that camera angles can tend to magnify the sexes. So don’t worry about this kind of thinking if it makes you wonder. Self-confidence is the key to everything.
Stephan, 38: sharing pleasure
With Stephan, it’s all about sharing. Seeing the two women give and receive pleasure from each other is the sexiest part. For him, lesbians are fairer when it comes to sex. It’s rare to see one frustrated at the end of coitus. He particularly appreciates it when one of them dominates, then switches roles and submits. This balance of desire and sexual pleasure is essential to him.
It’s nice to think, for my part, that men value female pleasure. Stephan is certainly one of them. The idea that each of them can reach orgasm allows him to project himself into their enjoyment with them. So he can take on the role of dominant and submissive when he feels the need in his handjob, and even come to a nice spurt of semen that usually ends up on a handkerchief.
What about you? What do you like when you mate two lesbians together?
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