To answer this question, we need to distinguish between pornography and eroticism. Pornography is direct and raw, and you’re there for the sexual act. Live webcams are erotica. It can drift into pornography, but it doesn’t have to; it’s all about activating fantasies.
Porn, a one-way street
For those who want pure, unadulterated consumption, porn can be just the thing. You turn on your screen, choose the movie you want, with the action you want, and off you go. You do your business and when it’s over, you pack it up, turn off the screen and move on. It’s a bit like fast food. It’s satisfying at the time, but it doesn’t leave a lasting impression, and you’re soon back for more.
What’s more, it’s a one-way indulgence. There’s no exchange, no interaction. Which can leave you frustrated when you want “more”. You can become addicted to it, craving ever stronger sensations. Watching porn can even become banal, cutting you off from the real world and your family life. It can even affect a couple’s sexuality.
But let’s not demonize it. Porn also has its good sides, and can be a release for a frustrated sexuality, or one that you don’t want to share with your partner. But there’s more..
The infinite world of live webcams
For those who know this world, you’ll certainly agree with these words. For those who are just discovering it, you’ll finally understand why live sexcams are becoming increasingly popular and are starting to replace porn.
This erotic world has many attractive aspects. But what’s its biggest strength? The interaction. You talk to a real person, live, about your fantasies. You can simply stare, or act out your sexual desires. The person behind the camera may or may not decide to satisfy you. She adapts to your desires. No recordings, no ready-made scenario, no need for several people to fuck in front of you. It can be a single person, who listens to you and seeks to please you.
That changes everything! You can share it, or request it privately. You can browse and chat with several different profiles and act according to your desires. You don’t have to endure the image as you would with a simple porn movie. You’re looking at a real person who considers you, listens to you and can satisfy your desires. And who can fill many roles! From a simple chat to an advanced virtual sexual exchange, it’s up to you. You’re just as much a player in the choice and realization of your desires. What’s more, the person can do exactly what turns you on the most! All you have to do is guide her with your requests. You can’t do that with a pre-recorded porno, can you?
However, the people in front of the camera also have the power to say yes or no. They’re human beings, male or female, and you need to treat them with respect. And the better the relationship, the more they’ll want to please you.
So, porn or live webcams? The choice is yours.
