camming site has a category dedicated to transsexuals. Transgender women have attracted men since the dawn of time.
And it’s easy to see why. Trans women, with their dual identities at the time (gender reassignment operations didn’t exist in Antiquity), knew how to bewitch those who approached them. They knew how to unsettle the senses and gently push others to do what they didn’t dare to do. And that’s still true today. That’s why so many men want to exchange ideas or meet a trans person, whether online or IRL.
But will this fantasy, once realized, satisfy you? Will it be the perfect moment you’ve been dreaming of, or will you be disappointed? One thing’s for sure: the fantasy of fucking a transsexual woman is more common than you might think. And there’s no shame in it. Take a look at all the famous transgender women who are in a relationship, you’ll feel better.
But because men don’t just fantasize about dating trans women, they also travel to Thailand, the Philippines or Brazil to live with their trans girlfriends. There are clearly good reasons for this, and we’re trying to understand why men in the West (and around the world) choose to date, live with or have sex with trans women.
What is a transgender woman?
Transgender, transsexual, … Both terms are correct, but one of them is disrespectful. “Transsexual” refers to the medical world and is no longer used in the LGTBQ community. She may or may not have surgery, she may be in transition… That too is part of her secret garden. Whatever the case, this person asserts herself as a feminine person and should be considered as such.
Men idealize the trans woman
Why is she so attractive? You could say because she’s feminine and takes care of herself. Or because she’s a sexual deviant. But the main reason is quite different. Western men have often been disappointed by their marriages. Disappointed and frustrated, they hoped for more from married life, and more sex too. Except that traditional heterosexual relationships have limited them too much. They’re looking for more freedom when it comes to sex, and to try new things. Trans women make people fantasize about their sexuality and imagine it unbridled.
Transsexual women also take greater care of themselves. She’s more feminine than some biological women. She also exudes an attraction associated with freedom, pleasure and understanding, which is exactly what men desperately need in their relationships with Western women. Some also plan a trip to Thailand or the Philippines to meet them for real. Latin America is also a popular destination.
What qualities do transgender women possess?
Every time you have the opportunity to talk to a transgender woman, you’ll enjoy a unique experience that can turn your heart and mind upside down. You’ll appreciate their joie de vivre, their good humor and the fact that they’re easy to get along with. They’re gorgeous and sexy. Listening is also one of their talents, perhaps due to their life experience.
Trans women are easy to talk to. They’re generally more open and caring.
Loving a trans woman does not call into question your sexualorientation
Now, let’s not be too quick to sum things up. Not all men need to have had their hearts broken to admit they’re attracted to transsexual women. Some men have understood this from an early age. And liking trans women doesn’t mean you’re gay. It has nothing to do with your sexuality.
Understand that transgender women are women like any others. And they deserve the same respect. Transsexuality is a way of life in its own right. Some women have had surgery, others haven’t, and the subject is generally taboo because it’s disrespectful. In short, you just need to accept them as they are. Many men hide their relationship from those close to them (friends, family), which doesn’t help to create a bond of trust between you and her.
Unfortunately, there’s still a certain social shame in saying you’re attracted to trans people. And yet, there are plenty of men who do. But they’re discreet.
Comfort and security with Internet
Because this subject is a little “touchy” to talk about in society, dating or camming sites offer comfort and security for exchanges with transsexual women. Today, it’s very easy to connect with people we’re attracted to and who break with conventional codes, thanks to the Internet.
Dating or camming sites often offer a dedicated category with numerous tools for getting in touch. Chat, notifications, events, photos, videos, etc. etc… There’s no excuse not to take the plunge. Especially since discretion is a must on these sites. Your personal data is safe and secure. Unless you leave your session open on your office computer…
If you’re lucky enough to live in a metropolis like Paris, Lyon, Marseille or Brussels, you can visit the gay districts. You’ll find many bars, saunas and clubs that organize special trans nights. Unfortunately, this requires you to live in one of these cities, to enjoy going out, partying, physical flirting, fear of rejection, the way others look at you and so on. The other solution is to consult a trans dating or camming site. This way, you can be sure of chatting with someone you’re interested in, or more, without having to leave your home.
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