Need a change? If you’re worried about routine with your partner, you could simply consider finding a place outside your home to make love.
Here’s a list of new places to try out for sex. All you have to do is choose according to the risk of being surprised… and your current mood.
Making love at a friend’s house
There’s always something exciting about a new place. A change of scenery, no longer having the same points of reference, plus an element of the forbidden. You can try out different levels of difficulty. In their absence (you know when your friends leave you the keys to water the plants or feed the cat while they’re away!), be careful of the symbolism: making love at a friend’s house while they’re away is a bit like being intimate with them.
If you’re feeling adventurous, you could also try a quickie during an evening out with friends, in the hope that no one will notice your absence. In this case, you’ll have to try out other, sometimes less comfortable positions (there’s no question of getting into bed with your hosts, but leaning against the bathroom sink will do just fine). The heightened risk and urgency of the situation will raise your excitement to a whole new level.
In the car
If the car remains a classic fantasy, few people have actually done it. It’s not too late to try out the sometimes tricky positions in the back seat. The degree of risk depends on where you park the car (yes, because when you’re driving, it’s not just acrobatic, it’s even a little dangerous). You can opt for a quiet spot (a forest, a country lane, etc.) or, for the more urban types, an underground or isolated parking lot out of sight. Even if it’s sometimes tempting to break down, be spontaneous and let desire do the rest.
Practical tip : make sure the car is clean, choose a day when the lady is wearing a skirt (it’s a real ordeal to take off pants in a car) and watch out for surveillance cameras in parking lots!
At the hotel
Rather reserved for illegitimate couples, the hotel has a taste for the forbidden and the transgressive that will spice up your lovemaking. Play the game to the hilt and go there for a 5 à 7 or at lunchtime to put yourself in the role of lover-mistress. A classic that always works. You’ll just have to get over the slight discomfort of arriving without luggage and leaving a few hours later, or at the time of booking, but some hotels are now very comfortable with renting out their rooms during the day.
While the risk here is very limited, the excitement will come from the location, the situation and the time of day. This could be the ideal time to try out new positions or erotic games. The only downside is that the price can quickly become an obstacle (especially if you want to avoid the creepy places and get a taste for these little rendezvous).
As you can see, it’s not that complicated – you just have to dare to let yourself go when the mood takes you (while at the same time calculating the risks). Changing the place where you make love will spice up your lovemaking and breathe new life into your relationship by combating the habits that too quickly creep in. And if that’s not enough, check out our 5 tips for boosting your libido. Unless you prefer the pleasures of solitude or behind the camera…
