Seduction is an art. Some have the gift, others don’t. But nothing in life is irredeemable, and there are techniques you can learn to make women fall like flies. Or at least get the one you want. Here are the Top 10 best-known seduction coaches for whom it works every time.
The 90s saw the advent of seduction coaches and the evolution of this very special sector. It was Ross Jeffries, in particular, who gave a boost to this community, giving hope to many men in need of masculinity. Thanks to him, seduction has evolved, and he has inspired some. Modern Milf presents you with the Top 10 seduction coaches, the cream of the crop, those for whom the match is made every time. We give you their vision, their approach and maybe a technique or two… Thanks to them, you may be able to seduce younger women or those with more experience!
N°1: Mystery, the best known
At the top of the list, of course, is the most famous of all the masters of seduction, Mystery. Renowned for his hats and platform shoes (yes, you’re right), his look is his greatest asset, surprising as it may seem. But why? Because his unique style is a conversation starter with women. And because he knows the conversation is going to be focused on that topic, he’s able to come up with ready-made one-liners that hit the nail on the head.
But that’s not the only reason for his success. He also developed the concept of peacocking, negs and the famous 3-second rule. He also created the Venusian Arts company and became famous with the TV show ” The Pick Up Artist “, which ran for 2 seasons on the VH-1 channel. He is also one of the central characters in Neil Strauss’s book The Game. He is Style’s coach as he learns the art of seduction.
When it comes to seduction, Mystery has developed a method with the same name, to be found in her book Révélation (translated into French), the Mystery Method, which consists of 3 stages:
- attraction
- comfort
- seduction
N°2: Ross Jeffries, the first to use NLP for seduction
A pioneer in the American seduction community, Ross Jeffries used NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) to practice his art. Thanks to this, he created theanchoring method, which consists in putting a woman in a precise emotional state thanks to a gesture, an image, a word, etc. He then provokes desire in her to build excitement and sexual tension. All that’s left to do is pick the fruit.
But he doesn’t stop there, or he wouldn’t be in our Top 10 seduction coaches, of course. He coined the term AFC(average frustrated chump ), which is defined as follows: ” a beginner who has no self-confidence, who makes no effort to seduce girls. Our coach doesn’t yet know the game of seduction, and thinks the ladies will come to him on their own.”
Ross Jeffries gave Mystery and Style (Neil Strauss) their training, before changing the world of the seduction business. He created Speed Seduction, one of the very first products in the world of seduction, which can be found on his website. For him, there’s nothing like a woman’s imagination, and it’s on this basis that he carries out all his seduction “work”. He’s very good at associating something pleasant with his image, and when a woman thinks of something she likes, she thinks of him. Hats off to him.
N°3: Neil Strauss (or Style), the most famous and one of the best seduction coaches in the world
The first two have their trump cards: seduction and experience. But he’s certainly the most influential of them all, thanks in particular to his book The Game, a veritable bestseller worldwide. If you pick up the book, you’ll surely appreciate the real-time report-style writing and all the tips and anecdotes that punctuate it. It’s a real eye-opener on dating techniques!
A former geek, he has become a master of seduction in less than 2 years. Suffice to say, he speaks from experience! And before becoming one of the world’s leading seduction coaches, he was a journalist, working for the famous Rolling Stone and New York Times. He was then sent to do an article on Mystery, in the middle of a seminar, and that’s when things clicked. Neil became Style and created the stylelife academy, promoted via his book The Truth and his website.
As for his best-known technique, it’s the cube.
N°4: Juggler, promoting naturalness to seduce
Real name Wayne Elise, his nickname Juggler (the juggler) comes from his past as a street performer. For him, naturalness is everything. That’s why he’s the first to show that you can detach yourself from ready-made methods to achieve a more natural, less aggressive but just as effective seduction. For him, it’s essential to create intimacy in a relationship with a girl.
To this end, he develops the 90-10 theory, in which he explains that when you’re flirting with a woman, it’s up to you to hold 90% of the conversation. You have to get involved and keep her interested, or even increase her interest, so that she in turn will keep the conversation going.
It’s also known as the Juggler’s stare. The technique of staring blankly at a woman and inviting her to talk. Be careful, though, with this method and the way you stare, it can be creepy.
N°5 : Gambler, king of discretion
For Gambler, or Richard LaRuina, author of Stealth Attraction, seduction rhymes with discretion. Unlike the first named seduction coaches, he prefers to be discreet when seducing his lady. A discretion that’s always noticed, because it’s done with elegance. His tool of choice? The smile. He bewilders women, who never know whether he’s serious or not.
Although discreet, his approach is straightforward and he sells his lifestyle first and foremost. He also points out that for seduction to work, you need to have developed yourself personally. When they say that confidence and self-knowledge are key… He created PUA training, the UK’s biggest seduction website.
N°6: David DeAngelo, master of virility
If you don’t know David DeAngelo, this man of action is a true businessman, with a fortune estimated at over $100 million. But that’s not his main weapon of seduction – we can see where you’re coming from.
Like Gambler, personal development is of paramount importance to him, for when he’s not coaching seduction, he’s offering personal development seminars under his real identity: Eben Pagan.
He too has written a book, ” double your dating “, which is also a bestseller and has been translated into French under the rather bizarre title ” doublez votre drague “. In it, he describes his journey, starting with his problems in picking up a woman and working his way up to success. Hence his theory, based on his own experience, that ” attraction is not a choice “, a theme echoed by the world’s top seduction coaches. He expands on this by explaining that it’s not logic that will win a woman over, but rather emotional qualities such as confidence, body language, social success and the art of conversation.
It was he who theorized the cocky and funny principle. Find out more on his website.
N°7: Tyler Durden, former depressive turned seduction king
Formerly Owen Cook, this Fight Club fan has had a difficult career. He fell into depression at university after a difficult break-up and dropped out. He then distinguished himself by becoming very active on online learning forums.
From there, he created Real Social Dynamics (RSD), one of the most popular seduction sites in the United States. It features both hard-core seduction advice and articles on personal development.
He wrote the Blueprint, a seduction system based on the development of self-confidence and the inner game.
However, some, like Neil Strauss, describe him as rather manipulative.
N°8: David Wygant, the man who inspired Hitch
If this person doesn’t ring a bell, you’ve probably seen the film. What sets him apart from other seduction coaches is that he addresses both men and women. Like Juggler, he relies on naturalness to seduce. No routines, no methods, no tools or ready-made phrases, just naturalness.
In his speeches, he explains how to use his Natural Game to easily hook up with women, seduce them online, advance the seduction process thanks to the Phone Game and SMS and have sex with them.
A media favorite, he is often seen in magazines and on TV shows.
N°9: Swinggcat, the undisputed prizing and framing powerhouse
Swinggcat learned from the greats, since he was a pupil of Ross Jeffries in the late 90s. In fact, he appears in The Game under the pseudonym Grimble. In a way, the pupil has surpassed the master, since he advocates his own method: prizing. His methods are a real success, as many of them have been adopted by seduction coaches. His principle is simple: reverse the trend and become the challenge for the girl you’re interested in. And it works.
Innovative and groundbreaking, you can find all his seduction methods in detail, as well as his thoughts in his book Real World Seduction.
N°10: Robert Greene, the encyclopedia of seduction
Seduction can also go hand in hand with culture. The author of L’Art de la Séduction, a work that lists all the best seduction strategies through the ages, is a veritable historian of seduction.
Not content with just knowing how to seduce the prettiest and knowing a thing or two about the subject, he has also defined several seducer profiles. Usually, other seduction coaches will talk about alpha males and focus solely on that. He doesn’t. Robert Greene even describes 9 seducer profiles! Described on his website, maybe you’ll recognize yourself in one of them..
