We all know that making the first move is the first hurdle for many men when it comes to seducing the opposite sex. Seducing a woman is no mean feat, but how do you break the ice and try your luck?
How do you skip that awkward moment when you meet someone? That blank that underlines the emptiness of our brain at that moment, when we really want to get to know and talk to this gorgeous young woman standing before our eyes. How do you break the ice and start a relationship that may lead to intimacy or even more? Modern Milf shares with you a few secrets that will make your first conversations a real success.
Start the conversation with a light-hearted topic
Unless you want to scare off your heart’s sweetheart, or your evening’s suitor, same battle here, start with a light conversation. Stay away from controversial topics such as religion, money, politics or any other subject that could open up a debate or dispute. Stick to the soft stuff if you want to give yourself the best chance of success.
Avoid embarrassing moments such as recounting your life in detail, or that “famous moment with a friend when”… you felt the shame of your life, for example. Don’t talk about deaths, illnesses, the number of conquests you’ve made, your strong opinion on this or that subject, etc. The simpler and lighter you keep it, the more likely you are to achieve your objectives. Vary the subjects, stay neutral, be natural. That’ll get you into shape for the first date.
Opt for gallantry
Being a gentleman won’t kill you; it might even help you break the ice and seduce a woman before you’ve even opened your mouth. If you thought this sort of thing was has-been, she’s sure not to think so. On the contrary, you’ll put your partner much more at ease with little touches, without being heavy-handed. The door, the chair, anticipating her movement or a need – it works, try it. And don’t forget to take an interest in her and ask her how she’s feeling or if she’s enjoying the evening. Gentlemanly. What’s more, the more thoughtful you are, the greater the chance that she’ll be more attracted to you. A win-win situation.
Know where the limits are
Finding the right balance to break the ice is no easy task. However, certain signs or attitudes from your partner can help. Some people will try to touch the other person on the very first meeting, even though they’re not ready, while others won’t dare, even though they’re just asking for it. In short, nothing is simple. Doing things too late or too early can lead to discomfort and embarrassment. You must be neither too close nor too distant. It’s up to you to find the right balance.
Make her laugh
Yes, when you put it like that… Not everyone has a wicked sense of humor that no one can resist. But you don’t necessarily have to be the latest comedian of the year to pull it off. In any case, remember that if she laughs, you’ve broken the ice and that’s the beginning of the next step. In fact, many women say they want a man who makes them laugh. Not only does making her laugh score points for you, but it’s by far the best way to break the ice and, above all, avoid awkward situations. In fact, a woman who laughs is a woman who feels comfortable and confident.
Relax
Now you’re thinking, “How can I relax with all the things I have to think about to break the ice? Well, start by letting go. If you’re confident and at ease with yourself, she’ll sense it and immediately feel more at ease. A win-win situation. So now’s the time to be tactful, charming and show who you are, while remaining natural. Pay attention to what she says, know when to express yourself and give your opinion, know how to listen too..
And don’t forget that Rome wasn’t built in a day, it comes with experience. So if you fail the first time, try again with her or another, and little by little, you’ll feel more confident about breaking the ice all at once.
