Seducing a woman is no easy task, and it’s sometimes difficult to distinguish between the different signals they send us. How can we tell the difference between a shy but interested smile and a simple smile of politeness? There are signs of seduction that leave little room for doubt..
There’s a difference between flirting and seduction, one being more offensive than the other, but both have their strengths. However, in today’s context, where men’s behavior is closely scrutinized, it’s even more important not to get it wrong, or risk ending up being pursued by a raging feminist mob. So here are 5 signs that will tell you whether or not you’re on the road to seduction, protecting our fragile egos in the face of feminine rejection.
1 – Observe body language
Does she look at you out of the corner of her eye when you turn your head? Does she touch her hair when you speak to her? Does she lose her balance at your side? Look at her eyes and nostrils too: if they’re dilated, it’s a sign that she likes you. Her whole body is also a giant sign of her inner feelings: her arms, shoulders and legs are turned towards you; she’s looking at you and touching her hair, or touching a piece of jewelry; she’s smiling at you and her head is tilted, which proves she’s listening to you… This is the language of seduction. Make the most of it, get closer!
2 – She always has 5 minutes for you
No matter how busy she is, the object of your attention will always find a way to get back to you, whether on the phone or by text. She’ll even find time to spend with you. And if she’s really stuck, she’ll offer you another moment to share.
3 – She’s interested in you
The one you love will be curious about you. She’ll want to get to know you and know everything about you, whether it’s your favorite color, your childhood, your tastes, your past… and look for commonalities. If you want to make the pleasure last, don’t reveal everything the first time!
4 – Se’s not afraid to talk about the future with you
Someone who isn’t afraid to share activities with you, or to have plans for the future that aren’t just tomorrow, is an undeniable sign that she’s right for you. Test her by proposing an activity in a few months’ time, and you’ll see. If she finds an excuse to put it off, or doesn’t commit herself by saying “maybe” or “we’ll see”, she’s obviously not thinking about a future with you..
5 – She gets jealous when you talk to her about other women
If she loses her smile when you talk about other women, whoever they are, family or not, it’s because she’s jealous. Her eyes become sharper, her ears tense, the questions are precise, … She gauges. Whether she says something or not, it tickles her and you can tell. That’s a good sign! But don’t overdo it, or she’ll get angry or discouraged.
For greater efficiency in your flirting plans, don’t forget the essential characteristics you need to be irresistible.
