The art of cunnilingus is obscure for many men, let’s face it. How to do it, how long, when… All these questions are answered here with Modern Milf.
You thought you were the king of cunnilingus! Are you sure? Can you see her body vibrating, her hips curving and her mouth moaning with pleasure? No ? Then you’ve still got a few tricks up your sleeve. Here are a few tips from Modern Milf to make sure you get the best licks every time.
The clitoris in figures
- 8.000 : the number of nerve endings in the clitoris. It is said to be 2 times more innervated than the penis, which has an average of 4,000.
- 10: the average size of the clitoris is 10 centimetres.
- 30.5 : this is the size of the world’s largest clitoris, listed in Francis Benedict’s book “Anatomie Sexuelle”.
- 53% of women are clitoral only
- 90% of women reach orgasm when they masturbate. This percentage drops to 50% when their male partners provide the caresses.
- 1 : The clitoris has only one function: to give pleasure. It’s the only part of the body with this unique function.
- 67% of women simulate orgasm.
- 10-15% of women admit to never having had an orgasm in their lives.
- it takes a woman4 minutes to have an orgasm through masturbation, compared with 10 to 20 minutes through sex with a man.
- 75% of women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, because they can’t achieve it through simple “classic” intercourse.
Classification of sensitive points for achieving orgasm in women
Women have numerous erogenous points all over their bodies, which enable them to increase their pleasure, boost their libido and reach orgasm more quickly. So don’t forget to caress, knead and touch her all over as you excite and/or penetrate her.
1 – The Clitoris: 4.6 / 5
2 – Vagina: 4 / 5
3 – Breasts: 3.7 / 5
4 – Head and Neck: 3.5 / 5
5 – Back and shoulders: 3.2 / 5
6 – Buttocks: 3.2 / 5
7 – Legs and feet: 2.5 / 5
Cunnilingus, an oral and digital art form
As mentioned above, 53% of women are clitoral only, so you need to apply yourself and be attentive to your partner’s reactions to make her climb the curtains and howl with pleasure. And tongue alone is often not enough.
Start by caressing and touching her body. Kiss her– women love it, it turns them on even more. Give her a hug too, because most of them like to feel safe and protected, and this also makes it easier to relax.
Once you’ve got her relaxed, open, or feverish and wriggling, get ready for action. The lips are ultra-sensitive, so there’s no need to throw yourself like an idiot on the clit, which can become painful if not properly fanned. Take care of them!
Caressing, touching, kissing, touching…
You can touch theinside of the thighs with your hands, and gently approach the vulva. Touching the erogenous zones around the clitoris is a great way to prepare for a wild cunnilingus. It’s akin to tantrism, with you circling but not yet touching. You’ll then be able to see your partner’s pelvis clamoring for your tongue.
And off you go. Lick not just the clit! For a good cunnilingus, you need to lick the whole area with your lips to lubricate everything and facilitate penetration. The more lubricated the sex is, the easier it will be to bring that little mount of Venus to orgasm.
Titillate her with the tip of your tongue, alternating between a flat tongue to be “wide” and a sharper tongue to make the little corners of her labia and play with her clitoris. The more she’s aroused, the more you’ll be able to watch her body squirm with pleasure and her pelvis claim your penis.
Add a finger, then two or more, depending on the opening of the vagina. Again, always think “lubrication”. If Madame’s game, you can also titillate the clitoris with your tongue, and the vagina and anus with your fingers. This is the ultimate in cunnilingus. If you then touch her G-spot, you’ll be able to make her come without any problem.
Don’t hesitate to alternate with caresses and kisses of the buttocks, inner thighs and groin – all highly erogenous zones!
Final tip: if you want to become the king of cunnilingus and clitoral orgasm, always make her come before you, whether clitorally or vaginally. Maybe she’ll discover she’s a fountain woman? Then you’ll be THE Alpha male in her eyes!
Ready to give it a try? Do you have any other tips you’d like to share with us? What’s your surefire tip?
