This year, we’re starting off with the best of intentions. Some of you dream of finding your soulmate, others of playing Don Juan. In either case, here are 7 tips tomake you a sexy man in the eyes of women, or the one you’ve fallen in love with.
Being handsome and being sexy are two different things. Beauty goes, charisma stays. You already have everything going for you (or not): you’re handsome, intelligent, humorous, open-minded… In short, on paper, you’re about as good as it gets. And you’re likely to turn heads. Or attract the attention of the woman who makes your heart beat faster. But women don’t look at you the same way. And why is that? It should be easier for you! If not, you may be missing a small detail. Small but crucial. So here are 7 tips to make you a sexy man in the eyes of women.
1 – Perfume
It’s a fact: perfume is the ideal memory marker. Memories are often linked to a scent, and this activates our brain when we’re trying to recall something. The memory stuck far away can instantly resurface thanks to a fragrance. It triggers reactions by unconsciously reminding the brain, through the sense of smell, of a scent associated with an individual.
It also leaves a recognizable olfactory trace. And if you like it, it’s more likely to attract a woman to you. It’s a major element of seduction. What’s more, perfume gives you an idea of “who you are”. It allows you to form a first impression of yourself. Without perfume, seduction is impossible (or difficult for a first approach). So it’s up to you to choose the perfume that’s right for you… And don’t forget to wear it!
2 – Accessorizing
Looking trendy and fashionable is another undeniable plus when it comes to seducing women. A sophisticated woman will be attracted to a sophisticated man. An accessorized woman will like her partner to be accessorized too. So, of course, depending on your type of woman, remember to accessorize accordingly, while remaining yourself.
Looks matter. Only Disney has updated a story like Beauty and the Beast. In reality, it’s much rarer. So it’s best to think big and think small. One of the details that attracts women and is a must on your list: jewelry. Watch, bracelet, ring, these jewels dress up your hands and wrists, because virility mixed with the fragility of jewelry instantly makément of you a sexy man. So, if possible, adopt all three and maximize your chances of seducing her!
Then there’s the collar detail: bow tie? Tie? Open collar? Well, women love bow ties. This slightly retro, quirky accessory appeals because it shows you’re a woman. You’ve got the self-confidence to flaunt this accessory, which is considered very sexy among women. Elegance is back in fashion.
Last but not least, let yourself be tempted by a pair of black glasses, or one where your eyes are barely visible. Think about the shape, too, so that it suits you best. This will give you a mysterious side that’s sure to attract. And don’t forget that your attitude has to go with it. If you stand at an angle, in the dark corner, it’s bound to be creepy.
3 – Exposed forearms and ankles
Roll up your sleeves slightly over your forearms, and do the same with the bottom of your Chino. It’s not so much the manly wrists and strong ankles that appeal here, but the attention to detail. A woman loves this kind of thing because it underlines a certain delicacy and a desire to take care of yourself through your appearance. And that’s sexy as hell.
What’s more, it sets you apart from the crowd. And women like that. So as soon as the weather’s nice or warm enough, roll up your sleeves and pull up your pants to reveal your ankles. Put on some socks, or not, add your accessories and off you go.
4 – Play sports
Even if you think you don’t have the physique for it, stop making excuses. You can take up a sporting activity at any age. If only for the sake of your health and libido. But it also has the added bonus of attracting women. Indeed, a sporty man tends to reassure a woman. Most of them appreciate this strong, protective, vigorous side. A woman likes to feel reassured. So go for it.
Some sports are a sure-fire hit. These include boxing, tennis, climbing, swimming, etc. Anything that naturally sculpts and maintains the body. And it’s fun too. It’d be a shame to deprive yourself, and her!
So, what do you like best? A nice pair of legs and buttocks, that’s for sure. But what about big arms or rock-hard abs? For one thing, you don’t need chocolate bars to be a sexy man. Women prefer big arms. Once again, it’s reassuring. They see a muscle pop, a vein bulge, these ladies are in awe. But don’t overdo it. If they like it when it’s drawn, becoming a bodybuilder may actually repel them. So don’t overdo it.
5 – Adopt a manly attitude
Beauty is either in or out. Charisma can come naturally, but it can also be worked on. After all, it all starts with self-confidence. If you want to seduce a woman, you need to adopt a virile (but not macho, mind you!) attitude and develop your charm. A charismatic man knows how to seduce. He knows how to be the sexy man all women want to cling on to.
So you’ll find all kinds of advice depending on which seduction coach you read, but really, let’s be honest, it all comes down to one thing: self-confidence. If you believe in yourself, you’ll always be the sexiest man in the room, accessory or not. Self-confidence is extremely attractive and seductive. If you don’t have it, you’ve got to earn it. And there’s only one way to do that: forget about other people’s looks.
Easy to say but not easy to do? Other people don’t judge you, they do their own thing. And even if they have a criticism, who cares? You can’t please everyone, just as not everyone can please you. And that’s okay. Let go of that to gain confidence and unleash your inner sexy man. Self-confidence is the assurance that repré́sente your inner strength, your power of attraction and your strong character. For a woman it’s self-confidence that vé́hiculates values of security and protection. Capiche?
6 – Take risks
Women are attracted́es to courageous men, those who aren’t afraid to take risks. Taking risks means dé́passer ses limites, and it’s this willingnesś to always do better by freeing himself from risks that makes a man sexy.
In fact, we’re reminded with emotion of the scene in the film L’arme fatale where the two heroes compare their scars to see who’s the bravest… Well, do the same! A little scar turns the ladies on, you know! If you’ve got one, and its origins show that you’ve got some nerve, or that you’ve overcome a hard blow, play with it. They love it. If it’s something you’ve been struggling with, forget it – it’ll become your charm. And if it’s a memory of bad acne, invent it!
7 – Your pet
Naturally, we think of the dog, often man’s best friend, whom we take for a walk at least 3 times a day. But other animals work too. Cats, small rodents, birds (well, it depends which one)… They also work. But dogs have several advantages: you can walk them and show them off. Women find that men with dogs are often sexy. Why is that? Because it shows your ability to look after someone other than yourself. It makes you more responsible in their eyes. So they can project this onto a child (or themselves, if they’re young). So if you want to adopt a mature, relaxed and approachable attitude, borrow Grandma’s dog!
You now have 7 tips that make you a sexy man. Do you have another one to add to this list? Let us know in the comments.
